how to console her?
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INTRO her to ME!!! <Originally posted by zichuan:Ok. I just let the situation be, let her learn the hard way. She is a cute looking girl.
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Ok, ok... SERIOUSLY...
Try to find out her star sign...?
Try to just stay by her side for now.. Get on better with her as a friend or as a 'brother'... It's EASIER to help her in the future this way if such a need arises...
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You sure about this?Originally posted by zichuan:I guess the thread can be closed. Such strong words are used.
Or you just wanna keep this thread OPEN so that more opinions might just flow IN...?
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you can fill in for that jerk if you want.Originally posted by zichuan:Recently i had a colleague she is 17 this year. But she is in BGR problem , i try to console her. She is too stubborn to listen to adults around her.
The problem she is having now is she cannot forget a guy whereby this is a love triangle going on. The guy got a gf but still flirt with my colleague feelings ending up giving things to her to make her touched, end up my colleague broke off with him because she doesnt want this type of stress. Yet now she still cant forget about him. From what i see the situation now is the another guy her "ex" which r/s lasted for 1yr, somehow know the situation between her and another guy and took advantage of the situation by trying to patch with her, the guy is very bad temper, hurt the girl brusies all over, but yet she still dont mind him. She always show me her brusies,
As a friend of hers, i feel agiated over the guy that harm her yet she still "bo chup" about him. I got the intention to confront either both of the guy that hurt her Shall i . I kinda feel like im her big brother trying to solve the problem, i hate seeing she being bullied. She is stucked in the middle by forgeting the past, she keep on work and hang out late at night or either drinking. 
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Her horoscope is Gemimi.Originally posted by Devil1976:INTRO her to ME!!! <>
Ok, ok... SERIOUSLY... Try to find out her star sign...?
Try to just stay by her side for now.. Get on better with her as a friend or as a 'brother'... It's EASIER to help her in the future this way if such a need arises... -
That is what im doing now trying act as a brother, got problem try to be a good listener by her side. But recently her mum just lost her job, her brother owning 4k debt, end up she need to work 2-3 alternate jobs to pay for the home expenses, plus her ex stead is probably spinning her round and round, and she is so lost and stress.
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You need to teach her to get into a more 'bochap' mood and learn to take things easier...?Originally posted by zichuan:That is what im doing now trying act as a brother, got problem try to be a good listener by her side. But recently her mum just lost her job, her brother owning 4k debt, end up she need to work 2-3 alternate jobs to pay for the home expenses, plus her ex stead is probably spinning her round and round, and she is so lost and stress.
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hurting a girl emotionally is bad enuff.. wtf.. tt kukujiao hurt her physically.. zz.. cannot tahan or forgive guys tt treat girls violently >=(Originally posted by zichuan:Recently i had a colleague she is 17 this year. But she is in BGR problem , i try to console her. She is too stubborn to listen to adults around her.
The problem she is having now is she cannot forget a guy whereby this is a love triangle going on. The guy got a gf but still flirt with my colleague feelings ending up giving things to her to make her touched, end up my colleague broke off with him because she doesnt want this type of stress. Yet now she still cant forget about him. From what i see the situation now is the another guy her "ex" which r/s lasted for 1yr, somehow know the situation between her and another guy and took advantage of the situation by trying to patch with her, the guy is very bad temper, hurt the girl brusies all over, but yet she still dont mind him. She always show me her brusies,
As a friend of hers, i feel agiated over the guy that harm her yet she still "bo chup" about him. I got the intention to confront either both of the guy that hurt her Shall i . I kinda feel like im her big brother trying to solve the problem, i hate seeing she being bullied. She is stucked in the middle by forgeting the past, she keep on work and hang out late at night or either drinking.
Anyone of you can give me advise on me on how to console her? -
colleage? and she's 17? omg! so young have to work... wadeva it is... just try to look after her in work...
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aiyaiyai.. think in here, drx makes the most sense..
Anyways since you can't really do much except talk to her and try to make her understand that she's being abused by that guy, and if possible try to help her understand why she's in this abusive relationship.. is she just looking for someone to help her take her mind off the problems she has at home?
I don't think you should totally ignore the situation though. It might worsen and she might get hurt bad. -
The problem now is like she avoiding me. But when she need help she will approach me. My sincerity cant touch her heart.
