She kept from me
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thanks again drx.Originally posted by drx:laosu is very good at understanding gals leh..
hehe...
just want to add a small bit..
if a gf treats u as a proper bf she will try to hide a few things cos she feels that the problem is to small or is a personal problem and she do not want u to worry...
this is not a sign of insecurity but a sign that she shows that she care for your feelings...
people always mistaken this for signs of breaking up and blames their gf for not telling and end up fighting each other...
i recomand that u read more books on relationship to understand gals behaviour much better..
drx is gal? oe guy? -
Wat U tink?...Originally posted by laosu:thanks again drx.
drx is gal? oe guy?
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sounds like a guy to me.Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Wat U tink?...
hahaha...usually girls won't make such comments.
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If U tink Drx is a guy then he is a guy lohz...Originally posted by laosu:sounds like a guy to me.
hahaha...usually girls won't make such comments. -
actually it's from another thread that I assume that drx is a guyOriginally posted by Simple_Bear:If U tink Drx is a guy then he is a guy lohz... -
Originally posted by laosu:
SPOILER: As if it is so easy if at all possible to remove the 5 mentioned things?
a story to share with you people
take note of the sentence in [b]bold
Is quite touching and in fact not much people can do it and most of the time anger will take up everything...
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital. He died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was going to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.
QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this
story?
ANSWER :
The husband just said "I am with you
Darling".
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
MORAL OF THE STORY
This story is really worth reading.
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.
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Originally posted by riff:I felt disappointed and told her I didnt want to talk to her anymore until she decides to tell me.
NEVER EVER do this.. this is emotional blackmail, and should never be employed in a r/s.... if i were the gal, i'll just let you ignore me. but it's just me lah, i'm the sort who wun succumb to threats. but still, it is never ok to coerce your partner into telling things in this way.... i would have called you an Ashol if not for the fact that you love your gal...
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Originally posted by Devil1976:
He said "I am with you darling" <-- That's five words.
[b]SPOILER: As if it is so easy if at all possible to remove the 5 mentioned things?
Btw... The husband said more than 5 words... "[/b]
It's might not be possible to take off ALL but then again...we can always try to do our best rather then just let it be and continue to make serious mistakes in our lives right? -
starblue:i was silly at that point of time but now im clearer
laosu:that is a nice story to share...yeah we should do our best -
Right...Originally posted by laosu:He said "I am with you darling" <-- That's five words.
It's might not be possible to take off ALL but then again...we can always try to do our best rather then just let it be and continue to make serious mistakes in our lives right? -
Originally posted by Devil1976:Right...
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YEAH!!Originally posted by riff:starblue:i was silly at that point of time but now im clearer
laosu:that is a nice story to share...yeah we should do our best
riff!! JIAYOU!!!! -
Juz keep assuming...Originally posted by laosu:actually it's from another thread that I assume that drx is a guy -
still guessing ah?
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Guess wat?...Originally posted by M©+square:still guessing ah? -
Good Morning MC...