Do you feel as if sometimes Fate is making fun of you?
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You love someone very much but at that time the person did not return that feeling...told you it would be much better to be just friends...
After you have moved on, you sensed that person might now harbor feelings towards you. At this time you are already attached to someone else who loves you very much.
Is this just a test to your current relationship or is this yet another way of Fate mocking at you? -
sometimes is an understatement.
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sighOriginally posted by dragg:sometimes is an understatement.
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Yeah, sometimes, it sure feels that way, doesn't it?
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OK, on 2nd thoughts, right, this could be a case of the grass being greener on the other side! Some guys / girls are like that - the minute they can't have someone, they'll suddenly want them very very badly!
So, tread carefully.
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you experienced it before as well? Care to share?Originally posted by Rhonda:Yeah, sometimes, it sure feels that way, doesn't it? -
Nah, no way I am going to betray my current loved oneOriginally posted by Rhonda:OK, on 2nd thoughts, right, this could be a case of the grass being greener on the other side! Some guys / girls are like that - the minute they can't have someone, they'll suddenly want them very very badly!
So, tread carefully. 
It is just that I think it is so ironic...if he could have been this way a while ago, we could have been together now... -
Must go find Yue Lao
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Originally posted by Patrik:Must go find Yue Lao
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yue lao failed miserably in his duties.Originally posted by Patrik:Must go find Yue Lao -
marriage godOriginally posted by rainee: -
I dunno who is Yue Lao leh...
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oh...thanks for clarificationOriginally posted by mystiv:marriage god
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is this a hint that u still haven't got over him?Originally posted by rainee:Nah, no way I am going to betray my current loved one
It is just that I think it is so ironic...if he could have been this way a while ago, we could have been together now...
if u rely felt nothing abt him, it prob wouldn't affect u at all... i'm jus makin a guess, no offence -
I am thinking of the what could have been, but yea, you are right...I shouldnt be thinking about this since I am already attached to someone else now.Originally posted by Anakin Jr:is this a hint that u still haven't got over him?
if u rely felt nothing abt him, it prob wouldn't affect u at all... i'm jus makin a guess, no offence
But sometimes we cant help it when our mind wanders? -
Yes.. fate does laugh in your face. But then again.. u must control fate and not it affect ur emotions and doubt ur very self. In the end of day..fate plays no part in what u do n choose. it is ur own decision and u must forever live with it.. or change it. These petty emotional feelings makes u weak and u must be strong to overcome all.
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that's why sometimes it is a test towards my current relationship as well...Originally posted by BadzMaro:Yes.. fate does laugh in your face. But then again.. u must control fate and not it affect ur emotions and doubt ur very self. In the end of day..fate plays no part in what u do n choose. it is ur own decision and u must forever live with it.. or change it. These petty emotional feelings makes u weak and u must be strong to overcome all. -
Only with the sands of time will u know the outcome. But like all relationships.. can it stand the test of time ? Everything in life is a test. until the end of day .. the minute before u die.. u will think back n make a judgement whether u passed or failed.. thats it..Originally posted by rainee:that's why sometimes it is a test towards my current relationship as well... -
Maybe he just forgot abt me.Originally posted by dragg:yue lao failed miserably in his duties.
He is such a old man le. -
He din cherish u, it's his loss.
if u are happy with ur current r/s, y bother to think so much whether it's fate making fun or wat?
some men are juz so jian la.. wait till u have someone better beside u, then he come back and tell u he wants u back. -
It's not Fate. It's called Choice.Originally posted by rainee:You love someone very much but at that time the person did not return that feeling...told you it would be much better to be just friends...
After you have moved on, you sensed that person might now harbor feelings towards you. At this time you are already attached to someone else who loves you very much.
Is this just a test to your current relationship or is this yet another way of Fate mocking at you?
It's about being at the right time, right situation, with the right person.
How do you define 'right'? Guess, it's still about choices.. -
always, all the time, to all matters.
o well. ren ming ba.
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oh I've felt that before.Depressing to say the least.Too much of perchance and what-ifs..Originally posted by rainee:Nah, no way I am going to betray my current loved one
It is just that I think it is so ironic...if he could have been this way a while ago, we could have been together now... -
Sometimes it's fate...or destinyOriginally posted by rainee:You love someone very much but at that time the person did not return that feeling...told you it would be much better to be just friends...
After you have moved on, you sensed that person might now harbor feelings towards you. At this time you are already attached to someone else who loves you very much.
Is this just a test to your current relationship or is this yet another way of Fate mocking at you? -
treasure what u have now, nt what u have lost and what ifs.