Do you feel as if sometimes Fate is making fun of you?
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Originally posted by rainee:I am thinking of the what could have been, but yea, you are right...I shouldnt be thinking about this since I am already attached to someone else now.
But sometimes we cant help it when our mind wanders?
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yes
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rainee...
no more of such things already okay?
stop thinking so much about what could have been... or if...
this shouldn't be in the forum's topic at all!
i luv u and hope u'll luv me too
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sorry huney...sometimes I really feel i dun deserve your unwavering love towards meOriginally posted by The Emperor:rainee...
no more of such things already okay?
stop thinking so much about what could have been... or if...
this shouldn't be in the forum's topic at all!
i luv u and hope u'll luv me too -
i sense regret and loss of opportunity. but u should let it stay in the past and not drag it out. learn from it n look forward while enjoyin the present.
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i hate it so much ...
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i read sumwhere...a forumnite said fate brings 2 ppl together, but hw they react to each other is in their hands..i forgot who said it..quite good way of puttin it i think.
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should i have asked her long time back? i think i m a chicken out ...
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how can I react in this case? I can only tell him I am already attached...Originally posted by alexkusu:i read sumwhere...a forumnite said fate brings 2 ppl together, but hw they react to each other is in their hands..i forgot who said it..quite good way of puttin it i think.
So too late le... -
In my case, I have actually told him before that I loved him. But he told me that we could never be more than friends. Hearing that, I decided to move on.Originally posted by antoh:should i have asked her long time back? i think i m a chicken out ...
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yalor.....thats the oni way right? its unfair to dump the current guy n go for him rite? many people also face similar situations.. happen to me about 2 weeks i got attached last time. No choice, just tell her to fly a kite. Sometimes we have to be cruel.Originally posted by rainee:how can I react in this case? I can only tell him I am already attached...
So too late le... -
i m so vex also .. she is very unhappy with his bf ... and told me it was all along a mistake.
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yea...would be very unfair, and I cannot dream of doing that to someone who loves me and has stood by me for so long...Originally posted by alexkusu:yalor.....thats the oni way right? its unfair to dump the current guy n go for him rite? many people also face similar situations.. happen to me about 2 weeks i got attached last time. No choice, just tell her to fly a kite. Sometimes we have to be cruel.
Where was he when I was hurting? He was never there and I was left to cry by myself for nearly 2 years...
And now that I am well and healed, he wants to cause me pain again?
Once bitten, twice shy. -
This is an evil way to think, but maybe this is retribution?Originally posted by antoh:i m so vex also .. she is very unhappy with his bf ... and told me it was all along a mistake. -
what can i do to redeem my sins ...
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dun have to say tt.Originally posted by rainee:sorry huney...sometimes I really feel i dun deserve your unwavering love towards me
just luv me will do. -
Originally posted by rainee:In my case, I have actually told him before that I loved him. But he told me that we could never be more than friends. Hearing that, I decided to move on.
How would I know this would change?
just continue to move on...do whats best for your future...
remember, he stabbed u in the hearet and left u to cry your heart out alone...now that hes back...why should u give him a second chance...a second chance to break your heart?
~+Cheers+~
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Dun worry, he and I can never be together.
There was once I gave him a chance, but he decided to throw it away and now it is lost. -
Originally posted by alexkusu:i read sumwhere...a forumnite said fate brings 2 ppl together, but hw they react to each other is in their hands..i forgot who said it..quite good way of puttin it i think.
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my advice wld be move on
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Just one statement...Originally posted by rainee:You love someone very much but at that time the person did not return that feeling...told you it would be much better to be just friends...
After you have moved on, you sensed that person might now harbor feelings towards you. At this time you are already attached to someone else who loves you very much.
Is this just a test to your current relationship or is this yet another way of Fate mocking at you?
"A relationship that can withstand time and all kinds of problems will be strengthen."
Whether it's a test to the current relationship or fate mocking at us is how we choose to see it. You won't get the answer until it's over. -
indeedOriginally posted by laosu:Just one statement...
"A relationship that can withstand time and all kinds of problems will be strengthen."
Whether it's a test to the current relationship or fate mocking at us is how we choose to see it. You won't get the answer until it's over.
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My buddy once told me, "When you've made a decision, don't look back... Because there can only be one way and not the other..."
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rainee i believe in fate alot..
Being here in AA and chatting with u is also a act of fate.
If you and your ex were meant to be u will be having kids by now.
is the memories that lingers on in your heart...thats why u are so vex..
Your current bf is very supportive and had been there all the way for you...
I honestly hope that u can give him a chance to show u what is true love like.
Learn to treasure your current bf a lot. he may be gone in a moment as life is so fragile.
I know cos i lost my ex to an accident in the past. We were so in love with each other at that time and we never thought we were part..I went totally nuts and tried to kill myself so many times that i lost count but strangly each time I was save by strangers i hardly knew. Then i know i was not meant to die yet. I still had lots of things in life I need to do...
My point is that do not wait till something had happen then learn to treasure that special someone.. I suggest u put in some time and effort for your current bf. He has done so much for you and I believe that he is willing to die for u when the day comes. Why waste time for someone who does not deserve it.
I envy you cos the someone is there right beside you. I do not have the chance anymore and she can only be a memory to me now. -
u will find someone out there.. dun worri.. Hope is wat we have...
