Do you feel as if sometimes Fate is making fun of you?

• harryryan

  5 Nov 05, 23:15

  Fate makes fun of me n laffs in my face
• rainee

  6 Nov 05, 04:42

  Originally posted by drx:

  rainee i believe in fate alot..
  Being here in AA and chatting with u is also a act of fate.
  If you and your ex were meant to be u will be having kids by now.
  
  is the memories that lingers on in your heart...thats why u are so vex..
  
  Your current bf is very supportive and had been there all the way for you...
  I honestly hope that u can give him a chance to show u what is true love like.
  Learn to treasure your current bf a lot. he may be gone in a moment as life is so fragile.
  
  I know cos i lost my ex to an accident in the past. We were so in love with each other at that time and we never thought we were part..I went totally nuts and tried to kill myself so many times that i lost count but strangly each time I was save by strangers i hardly knew. Then i know i was not meant to die yet. I still had lots of things in life I need to do...
  
  My point is that do not wait till something had happen then learn to treasure that special someone.. I suggest u put in some time and effort for your current bf. He has done so much for you and I believe that he is willing to die for u when the day comes. Why waste time for someone who does not deserve it.
  
  I envy you cos the someone is there right beside you. I do not have the chance anymore and she can only be a memory to me now.

  thank you for sharing...sad to hear about your plight...but as you said, you arent fated to die yet cos u have much more things to do in this world, and maybe you will be destined to meet someone who is really meant for you later
• harryryan

  6 Nov 05, 05:03

  Originally posted by rainee:

  thank you for sharing...sad to hear about your plight...but as you said, you arent fated to die yet cos u have much more things to do in this world, and maybe you will be destined to meet someone who is really meant for you later

  so late still not sleepin?
• rainee

  6 Nov 05, 05:06

  Originally posted by harryryan:

  so late still not sleepin?

  me not in spore leh...
• harryryan

  11 Nov 05, 23:50

  Originally posted by rainee:

  me not in spore leh...

  ha ha...forgot...when u coming back anyway?
• Blueskyz

  16 Nov 05, 00:50

  Originally posted by drx:

  rainee i believe in fate alot..
  Being here in AA and chatting with u is also a act of fate.
  If you and your ex were meant to be u will be having kids by now.
  
  is the memories that lingers on in your heart...thats why u are so vex..
  
  Your current bf is very supportive and had been there all the way for you...
  I honestly hope that u can give him a chance to show u what is true love like.
  Learn to treasure your current bf a lot. he may be gone in a moment as life is so fragile.
  
  I know cos i lost my ex to an accident in the past. We were so in love with each other at that time and we never thought we were part..I went totally nuts and tried to kill myself so many times that i lost count but strangly each time I was save by strangers i hardly knew. Then i know i was not meant to die yet. I still had lots of things in life I need to do...
  
  My point is that do not wait till something had happen then learn to treasure that special someone.. I suggest u put in some time and effort for your current bf. He has done so much for you and I believe that he is willing to die for u when the day comes. Why waste time for someone who does not deserve it.
  
  I envy you cos the someone is there right beside you. I do not have the chance anymore and she can only be a memory to me now.

  Hi drx,
  
  I'm sry to hear abt ur story...
  
  Wat u written is v true.. Life is indeed fragile.. n on top of that ppl has become more complex.. which resulted in many breakups, divorce, etc..
  
  True love is something that is difficult or mayb i can say is extremely hard to find nowadays.. cos too much temptations ard.. n ppl r too weak to withstand all these temptations..
  
  
• starblue

  16 Nov 05, 01:34

  the Has-beens and Could-have-beens are not important when you think about the Now-is. treasure your present. you'll have time to regret for your past when you're in menopause.
• rainee

  16 Nov 05, 09:32

  yea treasuring my present days very much now...
  
  Most important thing is he has stood by me all this while, always believing in me and my dreams. The other guy never even bothered to ask about what I really want in life, he is just concerned about his own, about him being alone and lonely.
  
  
• FeowFeow

  16 Nov 05, 10:06

  The Emperor,
  
  Don't feel upset or insecure by what Rainee is feeling, I can assure you that the feeling is very common, & in fact, very normal. Everybody faces temptations, whether in the form of a missed opportunity which is now available, & new seductions.
  
  If she's able to overcome the temptation, it could make her love towards you stronger. It also means that you mean more to her than those missed opportunities that she curbed her curiosities.
  
  Take it positively.
  
  And Rainee Looks like you have a treasure here, don't let this ai ai slip away from you. There're many girls out there looking for a supportive ai ai
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by The Emperor:

  rainee...
  
  no more of such things already okay?
  
  stop thinking so much about what could have been... or if...
  
  this shouldn't be in the forum's topic at all!
  
  i luv u and hope u'll luv me too
  
  
  
  

• rainee

  16 Nov 05, 10:10

  Originally posted by FeowFeow:

  The Emperor,
  
  Don't feel upset or insecure by what Rainee is feeling, I can assure you that the feeling is very common, & in fact, very normal. Everybody faces temptations, whether in the form of a missed opportunity which is now available, & new seductions.
  
  If she's able to overcome the temptation, it could make her love towards you stronger. It also means that you mean more to her than those missed opportunities that she curbed her curiosities.
  
  Take it positively.
  
  And Rainee Looks like you have a treasure here, don't let this ai ai slip away from you. There're many girls out there looking for a supportive ai ai
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  I will
• FeowFeow

  16 Nov 05, 13:54

  That's good to hear : )
  
  On your side, I can understand what you're thinking. I've gone through those what ifs, could have beens, etc. Then I asked myself, what if I decide to forego this wonderful relationship I have to pursue this opportunity? And what if it turns out to be a nightmare? Wouldn't I be letting go of the best thing that's ever happened to me?
  
  You could take this into account
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by rainee:

  I will