I am confused....
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One round and shoot!!!Originally posted by choco B:
What are you looking for now, some ego-boosting encouragement?
1. You might have advanced on her physically but she allowed you to. It takes 2 hands to clap. If you think you did something wrong, then she is equally guilty.
2. Your quote : "I do really like her alot but i do not know if she likes me or not."
It's obvious that you would want to get more intimate and perhaps start a relationship with her. If you choose to take action, then I think you have a chance to succeed.
This is because of point 1 above. It means she is not that faithful in her relationship. And the reason behind THAT could be that her relationship isn't that solid/happy, or she's the type who seeks thrills outside of her relationship.
3. If you were sincerely regretful about what you did, you would not be here pondering about your quote in point 2.
If you really had her best interests at heart, you will stop thinking about yourself first (i.e. want to redeem yourself, want to salvage the friendship, want to know if she likes you). Instead you will put HER happiness and her relationship as priority. But you're not doing that. You're confused because you want her.
Which brings us back to point 2. I know you're very gian, right? -
Hi choco B,Originally posted by choco B: What are you looking for now, some ego-boosting encouragement?
1. You might have advanced on her physically but she allowed you to. It takes 2 hands to clap. If you think you did something wrong, then she is equally guilty.
2. Your quote : "I do really like her alot but i do not know if she likes me or not."
It's obvious that you would want to get more intimate and perhaps start a relationship with her. If you choose to take action, then I think you have a chance to succeed.
This is because of point 1 above. It means she is not that faithful in her relationship. And the reason behind THAT could be that her relationship isn't that solid/happy, or she's the type who seeks thrills outside of her relationship.
3. If you were sincerely regretful about what you did, you would not be here pondering about your quote in point 2.
If you really had her best interests at heart, you will stop thinking about yourself first (i.e. want to redeem yourself, want to salvage the friendship, want to know if she likes you). Instead you will put HER happiness and her relationship as priority. But you're not doing that. You're confused because you want her.
Which brings us back to point 2. I know you're very gian, right?
There're some points you're very true about it.
Actually, i'm not looking for any ego-boosting encouragments. I'm just unsure of what i should do to react to such situation.
It's true that i like her alot but gian? Maybe there's. -
What's done is done, IceMountain59. It's as much her fault as yours, to be honest. You got carried away, & she let you, so the fault is 50% hers. Apologise sincerely to her, whether by mail or via a phonecall. Then let her get over it.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by icemountain59:Is there any ways which i can do to amend for my foolish acts as i do not wish her to think that i'm a pervert or such???