why do some girls just simply adore the so-called bad guys
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yea...often these young girls think that having a bad man for a boyfriend can give themselves this false sense of protection...Originally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:bad guys provide the kind of security they need at that tender age
when they grow up...they will understand...
i think...
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aiyah so ma fan, dats y i stayed out of relationships for the past 24 yrs !
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Law of Principle Acceptance:
(C) Second Law of Love:
[b]We are the ones who chooses our partner, not the other way around.
Cheers[/b]
"Any decision made by a party unless under strong external influences of chemical or pschological, is always channelled through free will." -
Law of Fate
To meet the right person at the right place at the right time. -
Girls' choice before growing up-->Bf type of guys-->Bad guys
Conclusion: Short term
Girls' choice after growing up-->Husband type of guys-->Good guys
Conclusion: Lifelong partner -
Nah uh, I've always liked the good boys, & will continue to like them. Gimme a boy next door anyday character-wise.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by fudgester:When they're young, girls tend to go for the 'bad boys' since they provide the most excitement. I've seen too many instances of girls who stick with the 'bad boys' who treat them badly just because of the adrenaline rush.
Eventually when they grow more matured, they tend to go for the 'good guys' who can give them the stability they need in their lives.
Of course, some girls mature faster while other girls continue seeking out the bad boys. Likewise, some bad boys eventually turn good while some good guys turn to the dark side.
Bottom line is.... the good guys win in the end. -
Bad guys provide security? Secure what? Secure the body or secure the heart?Originally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:bad guys provide the kind of security they need at that tender age
The guy go prison or lockup then got more security there ah!
Some people just cannot use their bains and think ... -
Sometimes all a girl needs to do is just let go and let the good guy be given a chance.Those that seem boring initially, might end up as stable material.Originally posted by cindee:I guess the more difficult to get something, the higher the value. Some ppl feel the most precious thing is what u cannot have haha. -
Hmm...I believe that...there needs to be a tinge of chemistry and the gal actually liking the guy to begin with...?Originally posted by LazerLordz:Sometimes all a girl needs to do is just let go and let the good guy be given a chance.Those that seem boring initially, might end up as stable material.
I mean, the guy can declare, but if the gal feels otherwise...
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cause the so called bad guys are more thick face and they attract attention from others
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u STFUOriginally posted by 585986:SINCE THE GIRL LOVE THE BAD GUY HU FOOOLS WIFF OTHER GIRLS AND STILL FORGIVE HIM
I THINK TT THE GUY SHOULD STOP ALL THESE AS THE GIRL REALLY PITIFUL
STILL TREAT HER LIKE SHIT?
WTF
I DESPISE THESE TYPE OF GUYS
I MEANT IT
MAY DONKEY FUCK THESE TYPE OF GUYS FOREVER AND EVER!! -
Do they mind staying with a guy who had money b4 but became bankrupt?Originally posted by FireIce:they dun love bad guys
they simply love the guy so much tt they dun mind if he do bad things
bo sio siang.
I dont think becos women are hypocrites. They dont mind bad boy but mind pauper. Wtf? -
wat kind of 'bad' do these guys do?
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not all lidat lor.. my gf hubby used to b a hotel mgr..Originally posted by Mr Soh:Do they mind staying with a guy who had money b4 but became bankrupt?
I dont think becos women are hypocrites. They dont mind bad boy but mind pauper. Wtf?
ltr come out do own biz den kenna bankrupt..
car gone, everything gone..
she still stick w him n go out to work. -
anyway so called bad guys normally young gals all like de..
as u grow older u will prefer stable guys... not so flirt n play ard...
known as family man
but at anytime suaysuay one can still fall for a bad guy wat...
so when feelings there liaos..not say wanna let go means can let go mah...
even d guy trt her like Shit... she will still cant bear to leave him..
prolly giving excuses for him n deceiving herself...
sum gals juz take longer time to realize lor... or who noes sum juz nvr will. -
Excitement
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You guys talk in a way .. that its like.. well.. just wait it out. I for one disagree with ur views. So what they like bad guys. You can all say they go for the bad guys at the tender age..seeking seeking protection and the thrills n eventually when they grow up , they are more stable , more mature in the feelings n the nice guy gets the chick. But is that what it RELLY is... ? See it at another point of view , bad guys know that being nice aint gonna get u nuttin.. n the 'nice' guys at the end gets the girl coz they want someone more mature..family man and humourous .. but u have all been played into the girls hands. She is already used goods....community soup.. n the nice guys think they got it, when in fact.. they are just suckers in the fodder. She has her fair share of excitement.. n jumps around from bad to good.
think about what i said n see if my view is wrong or not. Moral of this situation ? who says u cannot be bad.. if she wants it bad.. GIVE IT TO HER! amen.... -
Oh , and for the record.. you nice guys out there.. Stop biatching n moaning about it. If u got what it takes .. u fight for it. Or u gonna end up used n abused in the future. Or if u are one that believes in karma.. then wait it out till the day comes.. and stop blaming the bad guys. Sick of you losers complaining... sometimes its not because they bad.. its because they dun want the chick but the chick nge nge wants to come back .. what u expect them to do! Look at the other sides perspective.
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PENGUIN!
What kinda advice are you giving people?!
Go back into my freezer now & stay there!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by BadzMaro:You guys talk in a way .. that its like.. well.. just wait it out. I for one disagree with ur views. So what they like bad guys. You can all say they go for the bad guys at the tender age..seeking seeking protection and the thrills n eventually when they grow up , they are more stable , more mature in the feelings n the nice guy gets the chick. But is that what it RELLY is... ? See it at another point of view , bad guys know that being nice aint gonna get u nuttin.. n the 'nice' guys at the end gets the girl coz they want someone more mature..family man and humourous .. but u have all been played into the girls hands. She is already used goods....community soup.. n the nice guys think they got it, when in fact.. they are just suckers in the fodder. She has her fair share of excitement.. n jumps around from bad to good. think about what i said n see if my view is wrong or not. Moral of this situation ? who says u cannot be bad.. if she wants it bad.. GIVE IT TO HER! amen.... -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:PENGUIN!
What kinda advice are you giving people?!
Go back into my freezer now & stay there!
FeowFeow
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Aww
*rubs rubs Penguin's head*
My pets also hafta be well-behaved mahhh Mischief is ok, but I can't let them anyhow mate, or my fridge will be stuffed with little penguins! And I don't eat penguin meat Not yet anyway
FeowFeowOriginally posted by BadzMaro: *nods* -
Bad guys have more appeal.... more challenge...
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What they(girl) are lacking is they do not see the reason of being together(with 'bad' guy) but they are seeing the no reason not to be together.
Originally posted by numby:
they like cannot get over them when break-up when the guy is has been toying wif the girls feelings...some girls r willing to do anything to get the guy back to her side... -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:Aww *rubs rubs Penguin's head*
My pets also hafta be well-behaved mahhh Mischief is ok, but I can't let them anyhow mate, or my fridge will be stuffed with little penguins! And I don't eat penguin meat Not yet anyway
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girls adore so called bad guys cos often these "bad" guys have money. ever see a bad guy who is poor?Originally posted by numby:they like cannot get over them when break-up when the guy is has been toying wif the girls feelings...some girls r willing to do anything to get the guy back to her side...
normally the bad guy started out rich, as he ages, his wealth and health wears thin and this bad guy ends up on the street as beggar? in prison or in cementary.
girls only like to marry good guys even if she dun love him. what is love? girls only like guys who can benefits her. if a guy have nothing, then she dump him.