It's official. I'm single.

• laosu

  16 Dec 05, 17:50

  Originally posted by sinicker:

  i just want to ask...
  
  1. what should i do if i were to meet her face-to-face? can't i talk to her ever again?
  2. i still want to know why she left me. how?
  3. what if one day in the future.. she goes out with another guy.. how..

  Personal experience.
  
  1) If you were to meet her face-to-face again, just be gentleman enough to start a normal conversation just like any other friends will. It may feel weird but trust me, it's worth it.
  
  2) Why bother to know whey she wants to leave you? The fact is there no matter what the reason is. Put in several scenarios.
  a) She's got incureable illness and she choose to leave you so that you won't have to face it with her (sorry..not cursing her..just an example). She's bent on leaving you, so even if you got to know the real reason, going against her wish might only make her feel more miserable.
  b) She's seeing someone else behind your back and it's quite obvious in this case that she chooses him over you. So why bother to find out? Isn't it better to keep things this way than to realised that you've been wearing a green cap for a long while before she finally put a stop to the relationship? Trust me if this is the case, you won't want to know the truth. You'll definitely regret.
  
  3) What if one day in the future she goes out with another guy? Pal, you probably have met another wonderful woman who is destined to be your one and only beloved wife, will you still care if she goes out with another guy? Even if you haven't found the one yet, still her dating other guys has totally nothing to do with you. Just accept the fact that you aren't the one in her life. Harsh but it's something we have to face unless we are so damn lucky. I'm not even counting my chicks yet.
• yuko-ogura

  17 Dec 05, 12:53

  Originally posted by nightsky87:

  Suck my ballz.
  
  It'll happen to you. Or worse.

  LOL!u said it man..we will give u support when he chooses to bite them instead..
  
  back to the thread-starter..only 5 times nia...u know how lucky u are anot?
• stare-what-stare

  17 Dec 05, 16:13

  Originally posted by Ferguson:

  LOSER

  give him a break la.
• stare-what-stare

  17 Dec 05, 16:21

  all the best for your coming A lvls take care and do well
• sinicker

  17 Dec 05, 17:13

  Originally posted by stare-what-stare:

  all the best for your coming A lvls take care and do well

  my last A lvl paper was on 18th Nov.
• sinicker

  17 Dec 05, 17:15

  i guess the only way for me to get up on my feet.. is to tell myself that i really hate her... thanks guys...
• BadzMaro

  17 Dec 05, 17:58

  Originally posted by sinicker:

  i guess the only way for me to get up on my feet.. is to tell myself that i really hate her... thanks guys...

  Thats not the only way for u to get up on ur feet.. n by saying u hate her man ? its by moving on..as if u are unaffected. Find other partners.. live ur life.. n make sure..its better then hers. k.
• curiousOrange

  17 Dec 05, 18:28

  Originally posted by sinicker:

  i guess the only way for me to get up on my feet.. is to tell myself that i really hate her... thanks guys...

  No it is not the only way. It is the worst way.
  
  There will be some girls who will cheat and will lead you along like a little puppy. For these cases, I agree they should be taught a lesson before you dump their sorry asses without looking back.
  
  But you are quite lucky in this case, at least she tells you the truth directly and she didn't play any games. The timing could be better...thats all.
  
  So I don't know what reason you can "cook" up in your head to hate her. She is not interested anymore. So just move on and find another.