What Will You Feel ?
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When Your Gf tells you then she will try her best to make u secure.
And The next day, she goes over to the hall after class and finds the guy
you hate most?
Then this guy is always looking for chance asking her out and she agrees to it.
Happens to me.
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Kick the guy in the nuts.
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n fark the gal...
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let her know that u hate the guy alot due to watever reason u got... since he ask her out, u ask her out more often lo so he no chance... dun get so bothered about it concentrate on making your relationship stronger...Originally posted by ReliverX:When Your Gf tells you then she will try her best to make u secure.
And The next day, she goes over to the hall after class and finds the guy
you hate most?
Then this guy is always looking for chance asking her out and she agrees to it.
Happens to me.
Any Comments ? -
Even better... collide your dates with your GF with that guy's arrangements...Originally posted by BrUtUs:let her know that u hate the guy alot due to watever reason u got... since he ask her out, u ask her out more often lo so he no chance... dun get so bothered about it concentrate on making your relationship stronger...
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Do you know what's the reason behind it?Originally posted by ReliverX:When Your Gf tells you then she will try her best to make u secure.
And The next day, she goes over to the hall after class and finds the guy
you hate most?
Then this guy is always looking for chance asking her out and she agrees to it.
Happens to me.
Any Comments ? -
compromise her lol .. u can confront her .. ask her y agree the guy to 1 to 1 date ... then u ask her what if u go out with a gal 1 to 1 .. then u reason to her since both of u r in a rls.. its onli ought tat u give each other respect .. by nt going out with guys or gals 1 or 1 .. or at least nt tat often ..
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Have a chat with her, and find out if she is really serious in the relationship.
If she's not, then well, pretty obvious what to do
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Well She told me she loves me.
She told me not to fear cause she will never like that guy.
She tells me not to hurt her.
She tells me she is very serious in this relationship.
And Why is she doing this to me ?
I mean, ok she may still be young, and
this might be her only 2nd relationship.
even thought the first one wasn't counted as one.
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Revealing the truth is the right choice, especially on your feelings...Originally posted by BrUtUs:let her know that u hate the guy alot due to watever reason u got... since he ask her out, u ask her out more often lo so he no chance... dun get so bothered about it concentrate on making your relationship stronger...
If you constantly hide it and treat as though nothing happens, she will take it as it is and continue to do that thing that hurts you (for she doesn't know the truth)... -
Firstly, it is not wrong to feel agitated, frustated, sad, lost and lonely when such things happen... In fact it can all be summed up to say that the feelings are insecure...
The wrong thing to do is to compete with the guy which may end up in brawls rather than brains. Try to show the girl what she means to you and behave in such a way that she knows that she is safe in your arms
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she goes out wif him so that u can stay at home and feel secure at home? isnt that what she promised you? so sweet of her.Originally posted by ReliverX:When Your Gf tells you then she will try her best to make u secure.
And The next day, she goes over to the hall after class and finds the guy
you hate most?
Then this guy is always looking for chance asking her out and she agrees to it.
Happens to me.
Any Comments ? -
hmms she might not knoe how much you 'hate' the guy.. anyways you don't have to be too defensive of her interacting with that guy unless it threatens your relationship now..those feelings that you have just show that you are insecure with her... yeaps i agree, continue to strenghten your relationship, and try not to be too..er forceful?? [I need a bigger vocab.] when telling her about your feelings as it might come across as being possessive or something..hahaz all the best!
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c'mon..it's obvious...
she's screwing around with your head...
she's just lookin for another chance to play with your mind
those mind - f%&kers....
read it somewhere...relationship is for people waiting for something better to come by... -
Well telling her directly seems to help alot.
It turns out, she wanted me to control her.
She says i'm giving her a full rein and not keeping my role as a bf should do.
Now i had told her she hurt my feelings,
She look rather sad and told me she wanted me to know about it sooner.
Because she finds it hard to understands me.
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talk to her more about what you feel throughout the course of the relationship. keep things open and simpleOriginally posted by ReliverX:Well telling her directly seems to help alot.
It turns out, she wanted me to control her.
She says i'm giving her a full rein and not keeping my role as a bf should do.
Now i had told her she hurt my feelings,
She look rather sad and told me she wanted me to know about it sooner.
Because she finds it hard to understands me.
Any advices for this point ? -
listen to the song "Guo Huo" by Zhang Xin Ze(Jeff Chang)...and you will understand...
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stick to your studies!!
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I find it typical coming from youOriginally posted by dragg:stick to your studies!!
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Hmm right thanks.. seems useful..Originally posted by jeramy:talk to her more about what you feel throughout the course of the relationship. keep things open and simple -
find a chance 2 tok 2 her bout it.
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It only goes to show that your relationship has a weak foundationOriginally posted by ReliverX:Well telling her directly seems to help alot.
It turns out, she wanted me to control her.
She says i'm giving her a full rein and not keeping my role as a bf should do.
Now i had told her she hurt my feelings,
She look rather sad and told me she wanted me to know about it sooner.
Because she finds it hard to understands me.
Any advices for this point ?
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Define ?Originally posted by Devil1976:It only goes to show that your relationship has a weak foundation
She told me I understand her perfectly, and i know what she's thinking.
But she says she finds it hard to understand me.
I'm in a fault i suppose.
So what can i do ? -
ReliverX
She is playing with your mind she knows that she can control you well..
she is only making you blur thats all..
This type of gals better stay off cos this type tends to sleep behind your back and pretend to be good and kind in front of you..
stay off her.. later u kena STD also do not know why...
Then people will laugh behind your back calling u a dumb dumb for believing such a gal..
U want to test her ? try this test ask her to buy something super expensive for u tell her u love it and hope she will buy it for u.
If she buys it willing or save up to buy it for you means she loves u.
If not she will make 101 excuse not to buy it..
trust me lar this type of girls are the worst type.
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Communication breakdown?Originally posted by ReliverX:Define ?
She told me I understand her perfectly, and i know what she's thinking.
But she says she finds it hard to understand me.
I'm in a fault i suppose.
So what can i do ?
Inadequate expression of your feelings to her, rendering her distal from you.
Like she has said, communication is only one way... You knowing and understanding her is simply not enough... Relationship is a 2 way thing. If she doesn't know what's going on with you and it bothers her, then you're creating a sense of insecurity within her. As time passes, she'll just feel like she's in a relationship with a stranger who loves her...?