Originally posted by ReliverX:
When Your Gf tells you then she will try her best to make u secure.
And The next day, she goes over to the hall after class and finds the guy
you hate most?
Then this guy is always looking for chance asking her out and she agrees to it.
Happens to me.
Any Comments ?
Some gals think more with their feeling rather than logic.. U should observe ur gf from what she does, not from what she says... In your case Im not sure, maybe she just try to make friend, feel 'paiseh' if other people ask something... like in ur case... maybe the guy ask for her help and she just tries to help him...
U can tell her that u dont feel happy with what she's doing... U can tell her that she has promised that 'she will try her best to make u secure'. Maybe u can tell her that this time u r not secure... But also addressing this must be careful, not until she thinks that u are too insecure by nature. U may tell her that mostly its ok.. except some guys like that guy u hate most...
If she understand and can negotiate with you.. Then she's a keeper and actually love you.. If she still hanging out with him... this is bad.. maybe for her that guy is somebody important...