how to reject a gal indirectly??
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other den tellin her straight into her face, any1 knows how to hint a gal and reject her indirectly??
i hv tried to reject all her lunch and dinner invitation by using crap reason... now, all my reason have been used up. i even take the trouble to find those "frenz forever" messages and reply her when she sent mi those "i miss u" bla bla bla msg... but seems that she din get my hint at all..
any1 can help mi..?
thx in advance...
btw, are most of the gals out there easily get hinted?? -
she is in denial.
she got it but refuse to admit. -
If indirect methods don't work, just tell her straight in the face.
I don't like to advocate hurting women like that... but she has to accept the plain and simple truth, no matter how painful it may be. -
It is often said better to hurt her feelings now and get on with life, rather than to pretend to accept her because you are fearful of telling it to her directly, in which case, ending up having to break her feelings everyday because you know and preempted the relationship may never work, because you don't like her...
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don't be a wussy. tell it to her directly. gals can get the hint but guys are the one giving wrong signals despite being not interested. they like the game of leading on and having a gal liking them. i am not refering to all guys but certain type of guys are just fucking jerks.
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the best way to reject her is to fall in love wif her
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my signal is rite leh... i tink is the other way round ba... gals like to give wrong signal and let the guys play the game.. most of my frenz encounter this b4.Originally posted by flush:don't be a wussy. tell it to her directly. gals can get the hint but guys are the one giving wrong signals despite being not interested. they like the game of leading on and having a gal liking them. i am not refering to all guys but certain type of guys are just fucking jerks.
ya i know, tell her directly is the best solution. but "say is power, do is useless".... is not as easy as it seems... tts y i need to seek for another method.... -
if u find it difficult to tell her straight face to face.. try writing a letter.. email or sth ?Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:my signal is rite leh... i tink is the other way round ba... gals like to give wrong signal and let the guys play the game.. most of my frenz encounter this b4.
ya i know, tell her directly is the best solution. but "say is power, do is useless".... is not as easy as it seems... tts y i need to seek for another method.... -
the shortest path between two point is a straight line.. use it
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if your signal is right, then what did you do to make a gal say i miss you? you must have led her on before.Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:my signal is rite leh... i tink is the other way round ba... gals like to give wrong signal and let the guys play the game.. most of my frenz encounter this b4.
ya i know, tell her directly is the best solution. but "say is power, do is useless".... is not as easy as it seems... tts y i need to seek for another method.... -
let her know u are gay... that definitely wont hurt her. next time when u get a gf, she ask i thought u gay? u can say gay means happy and that she misunderstood ur words, or it was just a passing phase for u.... or this girl converted u. simple right?
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just sms here: "Im with my gf now outside...cal u wen i reach hm ...bz now:-)"
simple wat...jus a matter of whether u can bear e loss of tis admirer of urs..
or mayb u juz wana enjoy e attention from tis gal..n leading her on??
or juz wana haolian to us n ur frens abt tis tao hua u hv??
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Tat day... a gal told me... Wo heng shi yao ni...
... join wo men de project group...
Then I told her, join ni men, wo hui fail de lehz... -
ya the worst thing a guy can do, is join a group of girls for project. more so if they are a clique and you are outsider, and even more so when you cant really link to them...
back to topic. tell her straight la...ask if she likes you, if she says yes, then you tell her sorry but you not interested. but still can be friends. been through this once...did what i just said. now we friends and classmates and no hard feelings. -
No lah, actually that gal I know quite well 1... she always like to tease me 1... then always try to drag in her project group...Originally posted by bladez87:ya the worst thing a guy can do, is join a group of girls for project. more so if they are a clique and you are outsider, and even more so when you cant really link to them...
back to topic. tell her straight la...ask if she likes you, if she says yes, then you tell her sorry but you not interested. but still can be friends. been through this once...did what i just said. now we friends and classmates and no hard feelings.
But then everybody in my class also like to drag me in their project group lah... coz I first in clazz... I dun mind join her group lah... budden I noe her pattern 1... she always veri busy working de... den always last minute give mi crappy work... and worse... for some reasons she always a grade higher then the leader 1... 
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Originally posted by Ayukat:for some reasons she always a grade higher then the leader 1... darn suay lor
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i SO agree!Originally posted by flush:don't be a wussy. tell it to her directly. gals can get the hint but guys are the one giving wrong signals despite being not interested. they like the game of leading on and having a gal liking them. i am not refering to all guys but certain type of guys are just fucking jerks.
i think many guys like to lead girls on coz they like the feeling that somebody likes them.
urgh. -
Hmm. Do you like her as a friend? or you simply dont like her.
Yah, just say it straight. The thing about saying it straight is people tend to associate it with being callous. It isn't and doesn't need to be unless you make it so. You can tell her gently and kindly that you treat her just as a friend, Check with her if your actions may have misled her otherwise and say sorry in advance if you did. Tell her it is because you treasure her as a friend that you are doing this, and you find it very difficult to continue the friendship if she has 'expectations' from you and you know, the standard waffle about her deserving someone better/more suitable.
Then humbly ask HER if she still treat you like a friend despite you saying all this.
After that, the ball is in her court. Even if she doesn't stop her advances, you have absolved blame for uself lah. -
ya i treat her as frenz, and i dun like her... but i think CP25 method sounds gd sia... msg her like this, tell her indirectly. but if really cannot , den no choice lo. hv to tell her straight lo..
anyway, i'm not haolian'in or watever. seriously, i nv told my frenz abt this b4. tts becos i dun wan them to think tt i'm haolian'in or wana show off. tts y i post in here.
and the prob is, i din do anithing to mislead her. i onli treat her like my other frenz... -
Quite trueOriginally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:my signal is rite leh... i tink is the other way round ba... gals like to give wrong signal and let the guys play the game.. most of my frenz encounter this b4.
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I have already make an appoinment with my gf, but you can come along if you like to.
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dun ever use lame excuses or crap reasons to turn her down.
u will make her feel that u fu1 yan3 her.
juz tell her y u are not meeting her lor.. but dun hurt pple's feelings.
If not, it's very hard to be just frens also. -
pretend to ber pervertic and confess to her u like soiled panties.
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i know what you mean. i was the leader for one project, Q&A session i answered most of the questions tutor shot at us. results? i got the last in my group. 4th/4.Originally posted by Ayukat:No lah, actually that gal I know quite well 1... she always like to tease me 1... then always try to drag in her project group... But then everybody in my class also like to drag me in their project group lah... coz I first in clazz... I dun mind join her group lah... budden I noe her pattern 1... she always veri busy working de... den always last minute give mi crappy work... and worse... for some reasons she always a grade higher then the leader 1...
so pissed. -
you pervet dun drag people into the sea with you leh...Originally posted by 798:pretend to ber pervertic and confess to her u like soiled panties.