how to reject a gal indirectly??
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Tell her that you are gay.
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u tell her tt u r actually is a girl and undertgone a sex change operation 10 years ago from a gal to becumn a boy
if she dun believe u pretend to strip your pants
then she will ask u top stop de
plan worked!!!!
if she nvr ask u to stop u fuck her ass lah -
just bo chap her and she wld get your idea.
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You don't like her coz she don't meet your acceptable physical appearance threshold?Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:other den tellin her straight into her face, any1 knows how to hint a gal and reject her indirectly??
i hv tried to reject all her lunch and dinner invitation by using crap reason... now, all my reason have been used up. i even take the trouble to find those "frenz forever" messages and reply her when she sent mi those "i miss u" bla bla bla msg... but seems that she din get my hint at all..
any1 can help mi..?
thx in advance...
btw, are most of the gals out there easily get hinted?? -
true but this is wat alot of gals do giving lame excusesOriginally posted by browniebaobao:dun ever use lame excuses or crap reasons to turn her down.
u will make her feel that u fu1 yan3 her.
juz tell her y u are not meeting her lor.. but dun hurt pple's feelings.
If not, it's very hard to be just frens also.
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in terms of appearance, she is still ok.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:You don't like her coz she don't meet your acceptable physical appearance threshold?
but in terms of character, she seems to mi like an ah lian type, which i dun like abt.
aiya overall i dun hv any feelings for her and she's not the type i want.. i onli treat her as normal frenz. -
I tore up her love letter right in front of her before and said "No chance in hell!"Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:in terms of appearance, she is still ok.
but in terms of character, she seems to mi like an ah lian type, which i dun like abt.
aiya overall i dun hv any feelings for her and she's not the type i want.. i onli treat her as normal frenz.
Maybe you would want to try that at your own risk.
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if i don't like anybody, i tell them straight into their faces.
like this. slowly.
"i. don't. like. you. SO PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE."
but if that person were my friend..and now suddenly like me or something, i wouldn't be so harsh la. but i will avoid him. and if he calls me on the phone, i tell him i'm busy. and if he asks me out, i say i'm going out with boyfriend/family. and when he sms me silly "i miss you" stuff, i just delete straight without looking. oh. maybe delete in front of him would be good. i will still talk to him. but only when necessary.
most of the times, the guy will sian diao and get the idea. majority will find a new target very fast. maybe you can try it on that girl too. ^^ -
Originally posted by applesweetgirl:
i don't like you works with guys lar...cos guys more thick-skin...if you say this to girls...they might be heart-broken...bad choice...
[b]if i don't like anybody, i tell them straight into their faces.
like this. slowly.
"i. don't. like. you. SO PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE."
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Just talk about another girl, show interest in someone else (pretend if you have too). But even after all that and she still likes you, then maybe you should find out why she likes you so (understand your own charm a little).Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:other den tellin her straight into her face, any1 knows how to hint a gal and reject her indirectly??
i hv tried to reject all her lunch and dinner invitation by using crap reason... now, all my reason have been used up. i even take the trouble to find those "frenz forever" messages and reply her when she sent mi those "i miss u" bla bla bla msg... but seems that she din get my hint at all..
any1 can help mi..?
thx in advance...
btw, are most of the gals out there easily get hinted?? -
Sometimes it's not that they don't get your hint.. It's just that they don't give up...Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:other den tellin her straight into her face, any1 knows how to hint a gal and reject her indirectly??
i hv tried to reject all her lunch and dinner invitation by using crap reason... now, all my reason have been used up. i even take the trouble to find those "frenz forever" messages and reply her when she sent mi those "i miss u" bla bla bla msg... but seems that she din get my hint at all..
any1 can help mi..?
thx in advance...
btw, are most of the gals out there easily get hinted?? -
Tell her u treated her like a friend, sister or brother.
nothing could happen btw u all.
short n simple. -
hows its goin along, dude?Originally posted by NoTimeToWaitAr:ya i treat her as frenz, and i dun like her... but i think CP25 method sounds gd sia... msg her like this, tell her indirectly. but if really cannot , den no choice lo. hv to tell her straight lo..
anyway, i'm not haolian'in or watever. seriously, i nv told my frenz abt this b4. tts becos i dun wan them to think tt i'm haolian'in or wana show off. tts y i post in here.
and the prob is, i din do anithing to mislead her. i onli treat her like my other frenz...
- 1stly, I tink U r 1 darn LUCKY guy 2 hv a gal "absolutely smitten" wif u....wow
wish i had a gorgoeus guy whos doin e same ...keke
- N since u no intention 2 lead her on....then i wld suggest u do e "MIA" act, n not to be even FRIENDS with her...becos between a pair of Female/Male, its very tough 2 draw a clear-cut line on "Purely Platonic" relationship
- Be a "Kind Jerk" for once, n sever even friendship with her if she persists in wooing u (blush..geez i realli admire dat gals perseverance). And provided U indeed harbour "zero liking" 2wards her...cos u will lose a fren but solve ur prob IMMEDIATELY
- in short, e action to take (juz a wacky, but effective suggestion)is to engage e help of ur female fren, ask her to call e gal n conversation can be as follows
in a nice tone, but firm manner)
Teleconversation goes sumting like tis:-
Pt 1=
"Hi BBB(ur admirer's name), Im XXX(ur name)'s girlfren, I saw your sms to XXX N he has explained to me abt U pursuing him 4 a BGR. So, can u give respect 2 OTHERS' freedom N Stop pestering him 4 a relationship? HE N I R oredi in a relationship..
Pt 2=
I think XXX treats N values ur FRIENDSHIP, n if he sincerely wish 2 maintain e frenship. But do STOP pestering him for a BGR, cos he already HAS ME.
He wants to tell u straight but at same time afraid u'll feel hurt. So he wants mi 2 tell u on his behalf.
Pt 3:
Pls understand a fact dat love cant b FORCED, N he n I r 2gether now...u will meet a good guy, so TAKE CARE n if u can, he will love 2 continue 2 be UR FREN. But strictly no "BGR" intent.
good bye"
100 % effective, but in any case, pls GIVe sum PRIDE for e poor gal to salvage...im sure if u wish 4 her happiness, U can FORSAKE your intention 2 be PURE friends with her,
becos it means N benefits u to hv anor fren, BUT for her, ITS jus like a living TORTURE (if she's smitten wif u = INFATUATION)
B daring enuf 2 CUT ALL TIES....as time pass, she will 4get u, confirmed.
Cheers
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if u dont like her, keep rejecting her outing offers lors. Just say u not free all these lors. Say u meetings some girls.
Usually after a few rejections, she will get hte message liaos. But if she still doesnt, take note of hte things that u say to here. U must make things clear that u treat her as a FREN. -
just tell her to sleep with your friends and u collect the money from your friends.
should be able to turn most gals off..
if not just rise your hand to pretend to slap her... -
after that, his reputation will go down the drainOriginally posted by zeny:just tell her to sleep with your friends and u collect the money from your friends.
should be able to turn most gals off..
if not just rise your hand to pretend to slap her... -
No lah.. i think the gal get the point already but juz dun want to accept the fact or feels that 'i can change your mind someday'
coz I've encountered b4... my frd loh.. a guyz, despite the fact that i had a bf(his frd) and he will still show me affection loh... then always hint me like, going on a date or watever.. (he;s not in very good term wif my bf), then when he knows that me and my bf is rocky, he confessed to me that he likes me loh! then always say lotsa mushy thing on msn de...
Me: frds better right..
He: that means i got chance lah? yippee!!
Me: What the... i didnt say you got chance loh~
He: i know lah i know lah... since wait for so long liao, i'll wait still
and he continues to like..msn me with hearts and kisses and all -_-"
So the fact is.. he did get the hint or watever.. he juz dun want to accept the fact.. like your case oso the same mah.. think the gal oso get the hint but she doesnt want to accept the fact, i think bobian loh... unless you want to severed your relationship with her hahah! ahbo i think you can only continue to 'endure' her 'harassment' like me.. -_-" but eventually if she found another guy de... so i think, hard to make her stop loh.. unless you want to make her heartbreak... by doing sumthing which makes her hate you LOL -
Hmm... THis is what guys and gals different... If guys been rejected.. some may think that that means over... While gals.. rejection from guys mean CHALLENGE for her... This is why she may even work harder to get ur attention. Maybe just telling her that u dont love her or u already have somebody that u love not enough.. Maybe u should really ignore her... Ignore her Sms, dun pick up her calls.. etc.
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hmmm telling her that am making out with someone else right now ...entertain ya later or after when i 'm free lol..
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Originally posted by digicharat:you pervet dun drag people into the sea with you leh...
sekali the guy might get unexpected outcome reply like, "So Manly~! i like! since you like soiled panties so much, i give to you mine then. " -
lucky?? hmm... for some guys ba.. but not for mi. i felt quite irritated by those sms'es(i'm not gay)... if she's the gal i like, den, i will be really lucky...^^
heng my situation not like ultrabee, arbo i will be more troubled
ultrabee, gd luk to u ar...^^ ""
yah, i hv been rejectin her offers in the past 6months or so.. but her invitation not like 1 wk 2 times or 1 month 3 times, so "regular".
anyway, do gals really like challenge??? i tot onli guys like tt. -
this is the best option.Originally posted by CoolMyth:Tell her that you are gay. -
sms..most humji method...
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actually i agree wat Devil has said. there's no way if you can stop a person for not liking you.
it's hard for a gal to pluck up courage confess of liking you. and if you reject them directly, they might turn nasty and paiseh. who know this obsession may derive into deep-hatred?
dun reject her directly, be a gentleman and take her affection as a compliment. try to act bluff or show your flaw so that she will change her mind and focus her attention on other guy in the later stage. but keep in mind that you do not show her false hope.
it works for me most of the time. -
lol.. i tot u always use those pervertic way to reject them... haha...Originally posted by 798:actually i agree wat Devil has said. there's no way if you can stop a person for not liking you.
it's hard for a gal to pluck up courage confess of liking you. and if you reject them directly, they might turn nasty and paiseh. who know this obsession may derive into deep-hatred?
dun reject her directly, be a gentleman and take her affection as a compliment. try to act bluff or show your flaw so that she will change her mind and focus her attention on other guy in the later stage. but keep in mind that you do not show her false hope.
it works for me most of the time.