Do u contact ur ex?
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Tats why always tok tings out during the break... when the wave is calm... tings shld be fine... juz dun rake up the past and start to do comparison between the past and nw... no argument shld uprise...Originally posted by rainee:cos sometimes it is better to just stay away from them to not be reminded of the painful memories...
casual chit chat will be fine, after all, ur ex is a person tat koes u the best, and can help u to loosen some burden!
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there was once I think he tried to talk to me, but then I kept quiet and just stared at him...Originally posted by BlUe G@rF|eLd:Tats why always tok tings out during the break... when the wave is calm... tings shld be fine... juz dun rake up the past and start to do comparison between the past and nw... no argument shld uprise...
casual chit chat will be fine, after all, ur ex is a person tat koes u the best, and can help u to loosen some burden!
After that, none of us ever sees him again -
Wooh!Originally posted by rainee:there was once I think he tried to talk to me, but then I kept quiet and just stared at him...
After that, none of us ever sees him again
He muz be then crying for a few days non-stop... and decide to hide to bcum a hermit...
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But it was him who made me broke up wif him...cos he said he cudnt commit...hence I made the decision to leave him and never look back again ever since...except of cos for the occasional moments when I thought abt it...thinking if I am being too cruel...Originally posted by BlUe G@rF|eLd:Wooh!
He muz be then crying for a few days non-stop... and decide to hide to bcum a hermit... -
haha e break up was like more than a year ago, it was initiated by me though..of cos he was v pissed off at first tatz y he did all tat stuff..in fact, i think he felt suicidal..Originally posted by renorenal:Awwww... oh well it happens... but from the way you describe him, it seems that he wants to forget about his past and didn't want to bring it up back by totally forgetting about you...
Sometimes, in life, it's for the better, though it hurts... but fortunately it lasts temporarily...
(unless of course, there is a minor exception)...
haha but he has to forget ma..or else how to have new gf?
but now, he doesnt even wanna tok..oh manz..guess its his personality ba..he was so shocked to bump into me in sch..shld look at his face..machiam seen a ghost
anyway i m glad tat he moved on..my nightmares are over..and he's happy w his life... -
i wanted to keep him as my friend, but he said he cant be my friend because he still loves me. In the end, we become strangers.
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Some ppl can't accept sudden changes that they have gotten used to, and need some time, some may need quite a long time before they can accept the fact and move on. And when they do, they wanna totally erase it out of their memories... hence leading to the shocking ghost experienceOriginally posted by alfagal:haha e break up was like more than a year ago, it was initiated by me though..of cos he was v pissed off at first tatz y he did all tat stuff..in fact, i think he felt suicidal..
haha but he has to forget ma..or else how to have new gf?
but now, he doesnt even wanna tok..oh manz..guess its his personality ba..he was so shocked to bump into me in sch..shld look at his face..machiam seen a ghost
anyway i m glad tat he moved on..my nightmares are over..and he's happy w his life... -
As for me I am still on very good terms with my ex.. We chat about almost anything.. But of course not as much as last time.. She still tells me her new relationship problems and stuff and I try to explain to her.. Although we have a certain reason which i will prolly nvr say online in a forum for which i have the right to be very angry and nvr see her again. lol..
But well, by doing that both parties will be just upset.. Y not change that and have an extra well-wisher for urself? Y make an enemy when a true friend is just a stone's throw away?
I got rejected twice b4 and then went on to become one of my closest pals ever.. For me its a good thing. Becoz I can more or less safely say that even though if I get rejected I am still bound to have them as my good pals.
Talking is everything. U shd know the right way of talking and understanding then u can change any relationship to the way u want it to be. Trust me.. -
yes.. i agree with u.. but for me.. i guess it's abit too late.Originally posted by TheIndian:As for me I am still on very good terms with my ex.. We chat about almost anything.. But of course not as much as last time.. She still tells me her new relationship problems and stuff and I try to explain to her.. Although we have a certain reason which i will prolly nvr say online in a forum for which i have the right to be very angry and nvr see her again. lol..
But well, by doing that both parties will be just upset.. Y not change that and have an extra well-wisher for urself? Y make an enemy when a true friend is just a stone's throw away?
I got rejected twice b4 and then went on to become one of my closest pals ever.. For me its a good thing. Becoz I can more or less safely say that even though if I get rejected I am still bound to have them as my good pals.
Talking is everything. U shd know the right way of talking and understanding then u can change any relationship to the way u want it to be. Trust me..
i think she now dun wanna haf anything gotta do wif me.. meaning, we r like strangers now lor. my past and recent friendster testimonial oso deleted. sighs.. if only i could turn back time... -
I dun keep in touch with my Ex, my hubby did. I always run onto my ex whereever i go 9during wkdays.
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u can't run away from fateOriginally posted by Hele1668: I dun keep in touch with my Ex, my hubby did. I always run onto my ex whereever i go 9during wkdays. 
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i've yet to chat up wiv my ex of 11 days.
i cant even seem to see her eye-to-eye. it feels so odd to look at her and tell myself she is not my girlfriend.
yday, hockey trng was so weird.. -
not until my hatred for her is completely vanished.
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im curious.. why do u hate her so much?Originally posted by mink77:not until my hatred for her is completely vanished. -
Not remaining as friends does not equate to becoming enemies... sometimes things are better left untouched unanswered unknown... most broke up for the hope of being happier with another... often a breakup is decided at the expense of another's happiness/willingness... unless its a mutual amiable breakup i dont feel friendship is warranted in such circumstances... i dont contact my ex, all 3 of them, i dont feel that they are my enemies then or now, its just that i dont feel the need to enter their lives nor having them entering my life anymore... i feel its much better as i dont have to 'worry' my current relationship... my present gf does contact her ex and do sms/msn/meetup regularly... i accept it even though i admit (to my gf) that i dont like it but i do respect her right to have friends and vice versa she respect to take care of my feelings in not causing unwanted problems or frustrations to me... its all take and give... nothing much its just my thoughts on this topic... thanks for reading...
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I'm in contact wif almost all my ex boyfriends!!~ I think.. both parties should be mature enough to handle the break up properly.. and can still stay as friends wat.. after all both parties haf been thru so much together alreadi.. besides i'm sure u could almost be bestfriends.. coz u know wat SO PISSED the other person off.. tts why u both broke off rite? hahaha~..
I like keeping in contact wif my ex boyfriends.. coz sometimes when i'm bored.. or miss someone just to be around.. you can flirt wif them still.. haha.. and u can see their damn cute reaction when u ask them "do u miss me after all these times?".. i mean u would seriously wonder rite? if ur ex bf or ex gf still think about u or not.. anyone would be curious.. and i like to know their thots.. hahahahahaha! :X -
She's happily married so I try not to disturb her
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OMG.. You sound like my ex gf. uh oh.. lol. But besides that I completely agree with you. Yep.. Must be mature enough to know how to handle it properly. And yes. They can be your best friends and help you in your future relationships as these are the people who know u inside out.Originally posted by Shantelle:I'm in contact wif almost all my ex boyfriends!!~ I think.. both parties should be mature enough to handle the break up properly.. and can still stay as friends wat.. after all both parties haf been thru so much together alreadi.. besides i'm sure u could almost be bestfriends.. coz u know wat SO PISSED the other person off.. tts why u both broke off rite? hahaha~..
I like keeping in contact wif my ex boyfriends.. coz sometimes when i'm bored.. or miss someone just to be around.. you can flirt wif them still.. haha.. and u can see their damn cute reaction when u ask them "do u miss me after all these times?".. i mean u would seriously wonder rite? if ur ex bf or ex gf still think about u or not.. anyone would be curious.. and i like to know their thots.. hahahahahaha! :X -
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that was the way i thought we could be -
I haf been contacting my ex-gf even though she insist she wants to be alone. But I can't help it. And everytime I called her, we will end up quarreling. The reason is very simple. We r just not ready to talk.
Maybe the best alternative is to leave each other alone.
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for awhile i was still in contact with my ex, few mths later when i found out she ended her r/s with her new bf, i tried hinting of a patch up with her, she started avoiding me..... now number change liao oso nvr tell me, finally out of my life
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i have not been in contact wif my ex for abt 2 weeks.... he nv call too... not even a single sms.
after the breakup, 2 mths later he did call..... after that no more...
i felt upset over it...... his birthday is coming.. i dun know wan to call him anot.... -
HaiiiOriginally posted by -ohyeah-:i have not been in contact wif my ex for abt 2 weeks.... he nv call too... not even a single sms.
after the breakup, 2 mths later he did call..... after that no more...
i felt upset over it...... his birthday is coming.. i dun know wan to call him anot....
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tmr morning i am gg 2 see my ex again... haizx.
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i think dont contact better. easier to forget... sometime I want. but the girl dont want. -.- "