when love and fear collides
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I agree with this..Originally posted by smallcloud:Emotional
some experiences are implanted in your brain. those have after-effects or impacts which may really change a person for life. a guy may once be a real gentleman, but after being thru a series of relationship tragedies, do u think he will still remain a gentleman? (muz be thinking being a bas3rd is better off )a lady may once make a wonderful wife. but after being cheated upon by a consecutive number of guys, u think she'll still be herself? (being a biatch is better off)
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I just quoted someone few hours ago.Originally posted by smallcloud:hmmz.. somehow i dun agree time heals all wounds. SOME wounds are inflicted for life.
Physical
some ppl, in the act of impluse after a breakup, use physical hurt to "torment" themselves therefore went to tattoo their bodies. the tattoo follows them for life,. unless u'r talking about lazering them off.
Emotional
some experiences are implanted in your brain. those have after-effects or impacts which may really change a person for life. a guy may once be a real gentleman, but after being thru a series of relationship tragedies, do u think he will still remain a gentleman? (muz be thinking being a bas3rd is better off )a lady may once make a wonderful wife. but after being cheated upon by a consecutive number of guys, u think she'll still be herself? (being a biatch is better off)
ok..i know i'm juz painting out the ugliest picture..but it does exist doesn't it?
Time don't heal wounds if you just sit there and do nothing about it. -
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The wife will still make a wonderful wife to a man who deserve it. It's just in her. Same for the gentleman. You just need to meet the right one.
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Originally posted by smallcloud:
Emotional
some experiences are implanted in your brain. those have after-effects or impacts which may really change a person for life. a guy may once be a real gentleman, but after being thru a series of relationship tragedies, do u think he will still remain a gentleman? (muz be thinking being a bas3rd is better off )a lady may once make a wonderful wife. but after being cheated upon by a consecutive number of guys, u think she'll still be herself? (being a biatch is better off)
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I agree with this.. -
I agree with the damage be casted into the brain.
Nice guys always finish last.
Sometimes, its just give and take.
A matured and stable relationship will be able to tide tru all the fears.
Dun get affected by the previous when u r into one, and most imptly, do not compare. -
Geez, if nice guys always finish last, as you say, then my darling would be a horrible person.
But he's the sweetest person around, & I simply adore him.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I agree with the damage be casted into the brain.
Nice guys always finish last.
Sometimes, its just give and take.
A matured and stable relationship will be able to tide tru all the fears.
Dun get affected by the previous when u r into one, and most imptly, do not compare. -
Trust and love comes hand in hand. you cannot love without trust.Originally posted by smallcloud:...but i juz can't trust him with my heart.
...it led me to become very sensitive and possessive again
... and i know i'm hurting him because the way i'm behaving sort of reminds him of his past.
i really don't wan to hurt him. but i don't wan to get hurt too. when i put my defences up,
then again, if i hadn't give the relationship a try, i wouldn't know. but now i'm afraid to know.
i'm feel like a lost kid. i really wan to love and treasure him.
Fear is absence of love. coz where is perfect love, there is no fear.
If you really love him, let him go, trusting somewhere down the road, u both got together, when when tt happens you know you both meant for each other.
cheerios! -
Well said!Originally posted by mach10:Trust and love comes hand in hand. you cannot love without trust.
Fear is absence of love. coz where is perfect love, there is no fear.
If you really love him, let him go, trusting somewhere down the road, u both got together, when when tt happens you know you both meant for each other.
cheerios! -
kinda true...Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I agree with the damage be casted into the brain.
Nice guys always finish last.
Sometimes, its just give and take.
A matured and stable relationship will be able to tide tru all the fears.
Dun get affected by the previous when u r into one, and most imptly, do not compare.
nice guys reali finish last!!!
therefore,i vow i'll try to be a bast**d!!!
if u r afraid becos of previous r'ships,then be like me lor,never or dun give love another chance...
kinda bored of r'ships though i only been through twice...
maybe love is not for me,after all...
all those 'i love u forever' is all bullsh*t to me!!! -
Actually i face a similiar situation as you do rite now.. only different is that the gal says we should be friends first then see how it goes...
sometimes it's also good not to rush it too fast... but i am not saying your rushing in here... it's all up to both parties...
But if you are in it then give all you think u want to so you wont live with regrets... there's not much turning back now since both of your have started.. yu just gonna stand strong with each other.. trust is the key i guess