ah! i missed that!Originally posted by sinicker:that night, i saw a documentary on National Geographic abt this mother giving birth... quite scary leh... the baby come out..
More like 'yang er fang guo' to me...??Originally posted by FireIce:yang er fang lao
Depends on what you aim for in that marriage? And of course, depends on the 2 individuals lor...Originally posted by dreamykite:Do you think hving a kid is important for a married couple?
I have already given my comments. I am 40+ with two sons, one 12 and the other 9.Originally posted by dreamykite:Any comments from those married men with kid(s)?
I agree with this... before u have kids... so many things to consider: whether u love children? u love to spend time listening them? teaching them step by step? comfort them? R u a good leader? Kids are the biggest responsibility a couple can have... Kids can bring better life or cause big problems, depends on the parents... Kids are huge financial burden, so plan it carefully... if you are not ready yet... either you think hard to earn more money or delay getting children later.Originally posted by Chin Eng:Kids are great! Still the issue lies with the adult.
Some adults may love kids but is incapable of raising them thus resulting in neglect and deliquency.
It is a huge responsibility to have children. Nurturing and mentoring children is a very involved process. But do it right, you will find that you will have kids that are happy, proactive, respectful, independent and loving.
If an adult cannot invest the time and resource to the child, then don't bother having kids.
Originally posted by Devil1976:Depends on what you aim for in that marriage? And of course, depends on the 2 individuals lor...![]()
Not true what... There're ALOT of MARRIED COUPLES out there who are not for KIDS at this point also...? Prefer to have '2 people world' or more freedom to themselves though married...?Originally posted by FeowFeow:I must be the only girl who doesn't want kidsAt least Not for a few years
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Originally posted by Devil1976:Not true what... There're ALOT of MARRIED COUPLES out there who are not for KIDS at this point also...? Prefer to have '2 people world' or more freedom to themselves though married...?![]()
Originally posted by elektra:having responsibility to take charge of another human being... somemore its of your blood... and it's totally great experience only parents will understand..
Originally posted by dreamykite:Do you think hving a kid is important for a married couple?
I think I asked a similar question in my forum.Originally posted by elektra:feow.. how about babysitting ur nephews/nieces for an afternoon.. something like that ? on job training.. hahaa
Neither can I. Guess what, when my boys were younger, they can only make this mistake once. I am a firm believer of discipline and will not hesitate to punish them when they get out of line, caning included.Originally posted by FeowFeow:I just can't tolerate screaming tantrums especially in publicI'd rather Not have a kid than be driven demented when it's screaming hysterically outside
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Unker. I'm just kidding with my comments below.Originally posted by Chin Eng:Neither can I. Guess what, when my boys were younger, they can only make this mistake once. I am a firm believer of discipline and will not hesitate to punish them when they get out of line, caning included.
As parents, we need to set the tone of how the child is to behaviour. When we give in too much to their whims and fancies, they'd take it for granted.
I am proud to say that both my boys are extremely self motivating and discipline. They are the type who'd finish their assigned work before napping or playing without being supervised.
It's all in the mentoring process - define it well and success is actually quite easy.