My sec sch life..
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poor u. i thought my class is worse enuff (totally split into 2 divisions that always conflict with each other) btw i same age as u and u must haf realised that making good frens in secondary sch life is one of the most important yet difficult things to accomplish.
ignore those childish ppl.
dun go off-track in yr studies. as long as u succeed in graduating out of that damned sch, u haf won all of them
if they create trouble outside sch in public, dun bother arguing back, they r making a fool out of themselves.
stick with yr best frens and help each other out. i dun mean joining in fights or anything. just help to defend one another.
wat abt yr CCA? do u bond well wif yr CCA mates? -
First the "schoolgirl from a premium girl school", now the "schoolgirl from a neighbourhood school"
Makes me wonder if someone is cloning or not. -
At least you got a group of friends to "mix with", i'm on my own.
Don't bother mixing anyway. -
bondage.................Originally posted by shade343:Did you do any bondage activities to bond well with your classmates?
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getting into the wrong company in secondary school ended my education path. im starting from scratch now
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i preferred sec sch life to poly. poly ppl may not be so united lor. my sec sch class was super united! haha. really miss those days and the feel of standing up for one another. haha..haiz.
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go jc la. jc like not bad leh. concession and transport fares damn cheap also. -
lucky my class was united sometimes.. not much troubles.. but i do saw pia kias from my school finding trouble with other students from the same sch.. even saw them chasing each other once.. and fighting in the hall once..
off topic alittle.. during sec 2.. once i was kena by this stupid guy.. he wanna ask me out to settle somewhere..
so i went alone and met him up.. he had his "gang" behind him..
i ask wat did i do..
his reason was that i disturb his friend..
i remember him..
i remember his friend..
but when i disturb his friend, i was still in primary school
at that point, i was like WTF and wanted to laugh at him being childish..
WTF because for so many years, he still remember that its me who disturb his friend.. wanted to laugh at him because we have already grown up, let bygones be bygones.. but he still wanted to settle it in a childish and stupid way...
so after a talk we go our own ways...
and...
his so call "gang" would alert each other if there are police cars passing by, and they will hide their cigarettes.. want to smoke still scared kena catch..
gangs are stupid! -
hey thks alot & alot for all of yr replies!! Haha..nv thought that so many ppl would give me comments.. (bows!)
No lah, I'm nt a clone.. Trust me!
Yea, right now I'm trying to study v hard and leave will that sch FAST.. -
well... no worries... just do your best!! I understand how you feel. I'm from a neighbourhood school too. But at least my class is one of the better classes. But I've really seen other classes with what you call the 'ah lian' types. Don't worry. Work hard. Go to the poly course that you really like and don't bother to look back. All the best!!
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i believe ur class will be more united next year.. lolz.. perhaps it takes some times for a class to get united. my sec3 class oso lidat.. kns one.. but after tt yr okok liao..
ur class gt how many ppl? -
thks everybody..=D
my class 40 people. u sure will b better next yr? My sec 3 class de people will also be in the same class next yr..Really hope so..
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Originally posted by daleyy:thks everybody..=D
my class 40 people. u sure will b better next yr? My sec 3 class de people will also be in the same class next yr..Really hope so.. np~ everyone haf to play a part in contributing to the class n class spirit.. so u must do ur part.. hehe.. gd luck. -
hi my clone
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Ya jus dun care them at all lor..if they find any trouble with u aft sch, u can awals call the singapore gang...999... they will settle everything for u..although some ppl wud say u hum ji lah bt just dun care what they say, u do it for ur self and not for others opinion...detest especially those who used friend or backing to act cool,one day when all their friends leave them..they wud noe how we felt.
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think not enough interaction in your class, your teachers should give some project works where you all cannot choose your team members, but decided by teacher, then maybe more interaction will create friendships between different cliques.
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i still feel that u are a clone. but anyway just make use of guys that like u and ask them to fight for u. simple ?
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I guess I know which school u are in....and ur sch is total crap =XOriginally posted by daleyy:halooo! =D Firstly, let me introducing myself. Basically, I'm a 15 yr old girl who is studying in a neighbourhood sch right now.
Okay..my sch's like that....
My class > the class is'nt united at all. We were spilted into small clique and peeps from different clique hardly communicate with other. Now u ask me what's the name of this guy in my class...mayb I would have to squeeze my brain juice before giving ya the correct ans! Even girls from different clique are not on gd terms with each other. Everyday I stepped into the class, I feel so deprive. I only mixed with my own clique of frenz. It seems so boring. Class chalet? Less than 10 attended. And the person-in-charge did'nt even bother to inform me and my clique. -_- Pathetic? =( And it's not that I was't being frenly with others..I've tried but I feel that I'm uwelcomed..It's seems weird too..
Worse!
Students > Well, this involves mostly those students from Normal Acab or Normal Tech stream. Not to say I'm being baised but their actions really prove to me that they're uncivilised barbarians. I mean of cos not all, jus most of them. They always got nth better to do, they love troubles and are definately obsess with it! When they 'see u not happy' they'll try ways to sabo u. These are examples of wad happened...,
1) I was eating in the canteen with my frenz. Aft eating I went to buy some drinks. This very bo liao ahlian suddenly came behind me and tapped on my shoulder and said, 'Oi! Siao lian eh, u better keep your eyes to yourself hor, dun always diao diao diao'. Very unhappy, I replied, 'wo you kan ni ah?!' Then she added on e top of her voice 'mei you kan, mei you kan, zai kan de hua
wo kan jian ni yi chi hoot ni yi chi hor!' I did'nt care abt her and walked away. Luckily for me, she did'nt find me for trouble aft that. Ridiculous right?
2)There's this case in the sch, whi I withnessed with my own eyes. It was said that this gal (let's call her Jas) bumped into a ahlian. (not sure is accidentally bumped or purposely). The ahlian was very unhappy and scolded her. Jas was even more unhappy and scolded back badly. They began quarrelling and said to settle the thing during recess. Oh my! Poor Jas is doomed bcos ahlian have got lots of ahlian frenz in the sch who are strong bulls!(cos they fight). And sure enough, the poor Jas was slapped, they began fighting in the classroom and chairs were thrown..blah blah blah..I dun even dare to watch on, luckily it was only for awhile. Teachers did'nt knew abt it bcos it's during recess! I really hate this kind of thing happening. It makes sch so unpleasat. Ahlians and ahbengs who are attention seekers. Really sux.
3)I was with my frenz in a shopping centre aft sch. Then I saw some ahlians who were from my sch. As I was going down from the elevator. The ahlian shouted 'oh that one!! (my name), zui hao geng wo xiao xin yi dian ah!'
So, I was like..IS SHE MAD? did i offended her? No. Mad Mad really mad. In public somemore. No sense of shame. Btw, I'm not the first who kana. In sch is enough, in public I also cannot have peace! GOD PLS HELP ME!
4) There's this new gal(A) in my sch. Jus transfered in from a very gd girl's sch. The ahlians 'see her not happy' and keep staring at her as if she's alien. One day, A was in her bad mood, she saw the ahlians staring at her agn. She was very unhappy and scolded them. So again, another fight!
I guess bcos my sch's lousy that's why things are like that. I have one more year to go and I really wanna leave this sch FAST! I aim to go into a Poly and into a gd course. But unpleasant things are inevitable. I'm really scare that my poly life would b no better. Can ya'll (big brothers and sisters!) tell me if ya also face the same prob with me in sec schs? Would poly/JC life b better? How's life in poly and JC like? o.0 I need some hope..really!. =)