Originally posted by glossy_matte:
I tried asking tonight. The conversation went :
Me: Hi, can I ask you something?
Him: What?
Me: Did you hear anything about me?
Him: ... emm (mumbles)
Me: hello?
Him: ya.
Me: You understand what I'm trying to get across?
Him: yes.
Me: and so ...?
Him: aiya..dunno la.
Me: okay, its okay. bye.
I conversed with a close friend who knows everything about it who happens to be HIS close friend too.
I called him tonight as I guessed someone probably told him something about me which wasn't nice? And I wanted to know the truth.
And from HIS tone, I can be very sure that's what happened.
Every sign of liking HE used to show sounds lost.
Everything sounds gone.
It might not seem like an issue worth discussing to some? But it is really very saddening. I feel sad, disappointed, angry and embarrassed. I've already confronted him nicely, giving a call to ask why and yet that's what I get for an answer.
It's not gaming anymore.
It is so depressing...
I think he might be playing games when you called...hence his irritated tone.
In my opinion, unless you can tolerate this kinda behavior for a long time, it is better for you to move on and look for other guys who will pay more attention to you than to the games he is playing.
One doesn't know how to appreciate until it is gone. Let him have a feel of that.