He has no right to dictate who the girl sees, as a friend.Originally posted by Itachi:How would u feel?
I want some description abt the feeling.. as my ex's bf wasn't happy about me seeing/msging/finding her.. so we cut off the contact/friendship.
this thread is somehow link to my previous one "Do u contact ur ex" tt one i tink.
To her bf.. the message he sent me was like.. he felt that this was Li Suo Dang Ran(dunno hw to express in english) lidat.. he wasn't even guilty that we broke off this friendship for him so that he wun be unhappy.. wth.
So i just wanna find out how bad does it feels seeing ur stead wif their ex.. coz i nv had such feeling beforeIs it really that bad?
I know there's no point insisting on keeping this friendship since she chose to give up friendship for him.. sarkz
Thanks in advance for your replies..
that means he dun have faith in his gf.Originally posted by Itachi:He told me he trust the girl and had faith in her.. the person who he dun trust is me![]()
that means he dun have faith in his gf. indirectly also reveal his own insecurities..Originally posted by Itachi:He told me he trust the girl and had faith in her.. the person who he dun trust is me![]()
dunno.. then i asked "what do u tink i will do.. or what do u tink i can do?"Originally posted by qooorange:that means he dun have faith in his gf. indirectly also reveal his own insecurities..
U don't completely trust ur stead.. do u?Originally posted by applesweetgirl:if my stead is still in contact with his ex, of course i would be upset. more often than not, this kind of relationship will be kept secret/hidden. so it's very sad to find out de lor. even though there may not really be any 'ai mei guan xi' between them, but because of the need to hide, it makes everything really...unpleasant.
the stead may give reason like, "if i tell you, won't you be unhappy?" which is true la. but don't tell also unhappy. so best is, once u break off with your stead, please just forget about him/her la. i do not believe in plain guy/girl friendship. esp if they were together before.
Then you have a long way to go I think..based on your last statement.Originally posted by applesweetgirl:if my stead is still in contact with his ex, of course i would be upset. more often than not, this kind of relationship will be kept secret/hidden. so it's very sad to find out de lor. even though there may not really be any 'ai mei guan xi' between them, but because of the need to hide, it makes everything really...unpleasant.
the stead may give reason like, "if i tell you, won't you be unhappy?" which is true la. but don't tell also unhappy. so best is, once u break off with your stead, please just forget about him/her la. i do not believe in plain guy/girl friendship. esp if they were together before.
Originally posted by Itachi:How would u feel?
I want some description abt the feeling.. as my ex's bf wasn't happy about me seeing/msging/finding her.. so we cut off the contact/friendship.
this thread is somehow link to my previous one "Do u contact ur ex" tt one i tink.
To her bf.. the message he sent me was like.. he felt that this was Li Suo Dang Ran(dunno hw to express in english) lidat.. he wasn't even guilty that we broke off this friendship for him so that he wun be unhappy.. wth.
So i just wanna find out how bad does it feels seeing ur stead wif their ex.. coz i nv had such feeling beforeIs it really that bad?
I know there's no point insisting on keeping this friendship since she chose to give up friendship for him.. sarkz
Thanks in advance for your replies..
i do trust my stead.Originally posted by Itachi:U don't completely trust ur stead.. do u?
is it?Originally posted by LazerLordz:Then you have a long way to go I think..based on your last statement.![]()
Originally posted by applesweetgirl:is it?
i think ppl who say they are fine with their stead still in contact with their ex are bullshitting. wait till you experience it. ha!
i'm fine with him doing that.Originally posted by applesweetgirl:is it?
i think ppl who say they are fine with their stead still in contact with their ex are bullshitting. wait till you experience it. ha!
I think shinta can explain how I feel.Originally posted by shinta:i'm fine with him doing that.
i can't possibly tell him no female frenz hor!
I believe tat he will never do anything to upset me.. if that trust is not there, i guess, i won't have agreed to walk the rest of life's journey with him![]()
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However, there was once he went out with a female fren and he refused to reveal who she is.(i asked cos i'm curious... i dunno most of his frenz.. maybe tats why....) except that i'd be jealous if i knew..
heck.. the min he goes out with a female i'd be jealous
jealousy is 1 issue, but no trust is a different issue altogether, and a worse issue i believe.