when u know your bf is not honest, what do u do?
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thats is not exactly what i mean.. nvm.. sorry~Originally posted by M©+square:We are more concern that the 'joke' is the actual thought you've been believing.
But then again, it's your life. We say what we can to help.
Cheers
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ok ok.. i saw that..Originally posted by Devil1976:Not 'so serious' lah.. Just stating some facts... I have the HABIT of 'capping' some words which I wish to emphasize in case people miss my point...
True that humans tend to repeat history... So just 'talking things out' this time round without making some important things CLEAR, would only result in another 'talking things out' the next time round... On the long run it's often bad for a relationship... When it's taking repeated 'tear and wears'...
i know what u mean.. although relationships do have its ups and downs, but i feel that it will be too business-like to come to that.. On the long run, it will probably strain the relationship and eventually a break up.
But my point is, if talking it out cant make the other party understand and he or she commit the same thing again, if im in tat position, i will probably overlook it another time and remind again.. But after tat, if he or she does it again, i wont waste time in leaving. this just show that the fellow bo chap and dun care how i feel. or else he or she wont do it again and again. 
i nv been in a relationship myself. But i do see a lot of those around. Almost every batch of men i handle got this sort of problem de.
Cheers! me go pom pom liao! let her sort it out herself bah~~~ i got enough problems of my own
c ya, dude~ 
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WELL.. It would really depends on what issues of CONCERN you're talking about then...? Some things can be tolerated or ignored... While others probably either quite impossible or just STRAIN THINGS on the long run...?Originally posted by binZ:ok ok.. i saw that..
i know what u mean.. although relationships do have its ups and downs, but i feel that it will be too business-like to come to that.. On the long run, it will probably strain the relationship and eventually a break up.
But my point is, if talking it out cant make the other party understand and he or she commit the same thing again, if im in tat position, i will probably overlook it another time and remind again.. But after tat, if he or she does it again, i wont waste time in leaving. this just show that the fellow bo chap and dun care how i feel. or else he or she wont do it again and again.
i nv been in a relationship myself. But i do see a lot of those around. Almost every batch of men i handle got this sort of problem de.
Cheers! me go pom pom liao! let her sort it out herself bah~~~ i got enough problems of my own c ya, dude~ 
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roger! hmmm.. when u free, lets go for a coffee~~ pei wor liao tian yi xia!Originally posted by Devil1976:WELL.. It would really depends on what issues of CONCERN you're talking about then...? Some things can be tolerated or ignored... While others probably either quite impossible or just STRAIN THINGS on the long run...? -
what will u do if your girlfriend cheat you?
castrate her? this modern ages got a lot of bad girls too. u know? -
slap him.Originally posted by smallcloud:is confrontation the best way out? i'm so tempted to tell him
"hello -.- i know wat u haven't been very honest with me!"
and see his reaction.
but at the same time, i wan to give him a chance and wait out to see if he's ever gona tell me about it.
wat should i do...
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Originally posted by binZ:
"If a girl loves a boy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys."
roger! hmmm.. when u free, lets go for a coffee~~ pei wor liao tian yi xia!
Who is so always on your mind that you can't wait to have coffee with him? -
haha. nice quote.Originally posted by Tuatau:"If a girl loves a boy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys."
Who is so always on your mind that you can't wait to have coffee with him?
hmmm... knowing another smart guy like me?
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DUMP HIM!Originally posted by smallcloud:is confrontation the best way out? i'm so tempted to tell him
"hello -.- i know wat u haven't been very honest with me!"
and see his reaction.
but at the same time, i wan to give him a chance and wait out to see if he's ever gona tell me about it.
wat should i do... -
really depends on what sort of lie la!
For. eg. An ex received a phone call while I was driving and he was next to me. The caller was very loud and was obviously a lady though I could not hear the contents. His side of the conversation was stilted and uncomfortable. so OF course I became suspicious la.
So after I put down, I just asked casually "who was that? issit xxx ah? we havent met up with him for long liao leh"
His reply was "ya.. will arrange to meet up soon."
[silence... whereupon i was thinking how to respond to him]
Finally I just said "u know, the caller was so loud I could hear HER voice?"
[silence.. whereupon I think he was thinking how to respond to me]
Anyway... the conversation went downhill rapidly.
On the other hand... my hubby is forever "lying" to me - ABOUT working or not working on that day - cos I get annoyed with him often cannot wake up then keng MC la!
But he's a horrible liar... and in abt 5 secs I would be asking him archly how come if he leaves for work at 8.30 am.. he can actually go down, buy newspapers, come up, read finish newspapers (enough to tell me excitedly abt the tours section) then go to work haaaaaa?
Then he will just end up with a sheepish smile and guilty giggle... - shake head - like a little kid kenna caught ponteng schoo la. I also lie to him la. LIke how many hours I've been surfing the net and not doing housework at home. -
It starts with one thing
I don't know why
It doesn't even matter how hard you try keep that in mind
I designed this rhyme
To explain in due time
All I know
Time is a valuable thing
Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings
Watch it count down to the end of the day
The clock ticks life away
It's so unreal
Didn't look out below
Watch the time go right out the window
Trying to hold on, but didn't even know
Wasted it all just to watch you go
I kept everything inside and even though I tried, it all fell apart
What it meant to me will eventually be a memory of a time when
I tried so hard
And got so far
But in the end
It doesn't even matter
I had to fall
To lose it all
But in the end
It doesn't even matter
One thing, I don't know why
It doesnÂ’t even matter how hard you try, keep that in mind
I designed this rhyme, to explain in due time
I tried so hard
In spite of the way you were mocking me
Acting like I was part of your property
Remembering all the times you fought with me
I'm surprised it got so (far)
Things aren't the way they were before
You wouldn't even recognize me anymore
Not that you knew me back then
But it all comes back to me (in the end)
You kept everything inside and even though I tried, it all fell apart
What it meant to me will eventually be a memory of a time when I
Chorus
IÂ’ve put my trust in you
Pushed as far as I can go
And for all this
There's only one thing you should know (2x) Chorus -
eat himOriginally posted by smallcloud:wat should i do... -
Originally posted by Tuatau:"If a girl loves a boy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys."
Who is so always on your mind that you can't wait to have coffee with him?