looks like the original thread has digressed to a discussion abt christianity.... think all of us shld try to look at this objectively and refrain from posting biased and hurtful remarks. Let's all be more mature.
Like what someone said, the Bible does not force people to do anything, be it marrying a christian only etc... if God wants to force pple, then wouldn't it be easier for Him to force everyone to accept Him (by some ways which I do not know how)?Then there wouldnt be such dicussions in the first place. But He is gracious enough to give us free choice. So why does the Bible say "Do not be yoked with unbelievers"? It is bec God knows the consequences that may result if a christian n a non-christian get together. Just think abt all the practical reasons, to name a few, such as ur spouse will be spending time going for services n cellgrps etc leaving u alone... ur spouse believes in certain things but u do not... such things may (and it's MAY not will) create strife within the relationship and some point in time. This is only some of the things that may crop up... personally, I myself knew my gf when she was a non-christian and i am one. The chance of this happening is very high i think since there are only like 16% christians in Sg (something like tt, dont remember). But I truly believed that my gf will be a christian and so went ahead with the relationship.... well good thing abt my case is tt she already knew Christ before n before she met me she aredi contemplated accepting Christ, so shortly after she accepted

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I know many people like to complain abt christians behaving like jerks n hurting/cheating others. I think everyone subconsciously expects high standards fr a christian which is not wrong. To all people who have been hurt or sinned against by such christians, pls know that God sees all their actions and if they continue to blatantly do those bad things, there will be a time when there is no more remission of sins, and they too will lose their salvation.
Why do christians like to convert pple? pls try to understand their reason for it. It does not benefit them if they convert u. But it sure benefits u a lot. So they are not doing it for their own hidden agenda (okay there may be some who have gone off the str path who may do it for other reasons, but the end result is still that you get saved). Of course there are pple who do things tactlessly or w/o consideration when they try to spread the gospel to friends. Not everyone is blessed with good EQ n communication skills. So next time ur friend tries to convert u, just know tt he is doing it for ur own good. If ur really not interested just tell him. No need to get all -ve abt everything.
Last issue I want to talk abt is that yes, there are bound to be black sheeps everywhere, especially when a church congregation is large, obviously there will be more bad sheeps running abt. Do not judge the church or religion just bec of these few pple.