compiling the signs that she is interested in u
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hehee.. interesting topic.
A sign I know is when a friend of mine (female) told me so n so was interested in me. Reason was that so n so wrote it down in her diary.
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I wouldn't say that. Nowadays, there're increasing no. of guys who assume & think too much. Perhaps previously they kept those thoughts to themselves, & are now becoming more open.
Moreover, I think we're Not talking about who assumes more. The general feel I've gotten from the thread is that people shouldn't rely on so-called signs to conclude that a person is interested in them.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Ito_^:actually.. i think gals assume more than guys.
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Come on gimme a break this is not just for all gals... haha...Originally posted by FeowFeow:1. Willing to talk to you till late at night
Just keeping you company.
Not all gals like tat ma...
2. Willing to go out with you alone Close friend see movie together got wrong meh?
Some don't consider this close.
3. Smiles everytime she sees you Don't you smile when you see a friend?
Not always there is a reserved smile that a girl does for someone she likes.
4. Likes to tell you about herself You mean you don't tell your friends anything about yourself?
Things that wouldn't tell other friends//
5. Likes to SMS you when she's bored or doing something Of course I'll find someone to bug when I'm bored.
Normally the person u bug is someone u like....
6. Concerned about you whenever anything happens Wah Biang, I'd better Not show concern for friends anymore if that can be mistaken as liking a friend 
The level of concern shows is more then what u show ur friends.
FeowFeow
Besides.. its the sum of all hints...
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Ok, point noted. Still, do note that we're living in the noughties, Not a few decades ago. Ladies are less reserved than they used to be, & we gotta move with the times
Otherwise, the guys risk broken hearts, & don't say we ladies didn't warn them hor
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Sekundes:
Come on gimme a break this is not just for all gals... haha...
Besides.. its the sum of all hints...
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You can DO THAT. But the list should be BASICALLY 'QUITE USELESS'...??Originally posted by htc:i know that this topic is kinda over asked, but if any ladies out thr is kind enuff, i'll be grateful -
1. She blush when she looks into ur eyes.
2. calls u often.
3. sms u often.
4. when u said u are cold, she holds ur hands.
5. talk note of wat u say to her.. like u mention wat u like..she will remember.
6. gives u handmade stuff?
7. tries to date u.
8. for those outspoken girls..when she face u..she tongue tied. -
which school were u from?Originally posted by FeowFeow:Yeah, it's never safe to assume lorr... There was 1 guy who did when I was in JC, & he freakin' spread it around the school that I was interested in him He was considered good-looking in the school, & ended up being a model later on, but I was NOT interested! Got so damn fed-up with him that I stopped talking to him after that.
Interested in him ah? Wait long long. Who did he think he was?
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i think u are right, we have been waiting for signs from god for many year already... and everytime.. we were wrong!Originally posted by FeowFeow:I wouldn't say that. Nowadays, there're increasing no. of guys who assume & think too much. Perhaps previously they kept those thoughts to themselves, & are now becoming more open.
Moreover, I think we're Not talking about who assumes more. The general feel I've gotten from the thread is that people shouldn't rely on so-called signs to conclude that a person is interested in them.
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just take note that the signs provided by some people are not necessary true for all people..
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True but also true for close female friends.Originally posted by babyreyes:1. She blush when she looks into ur eyes.
2. calls u often.
3. sms u often.
4. when u said u are cold, she holds ur hands.
5. talk note of wat u say to her.. like u mention wat u like..she will remember.
6. gives u handmade stuff?
7. tries to date u.
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Erm, for privacy purposes, I won't reveal lah : ) Anyway, I think it wouldn't be relevant since I'm probably much older than you, alas
FeowFeowOriginally posted by leddy:which school were u from? -
FeowFeowOriginally posted by leddy:i think u are right, we have been waiting for signs from god for many year already... and everytime.. we were wrong! -
bottom line n the morals of this reasearch is... that anyone can assume anything. There is now way to know.. it will come down to ur own experiences and judgement. I agree.. every single girl is different. There is not one that is the same.. BUT after a handful of variety experience, i can sum up that certain signs work for certain girls. But u must be able to identify which category does she belong to. Once u have succefully identified her category , u will use the exact method and she will reveal the exact signs like her predecessor. If u were successfully in making the predecessor feel n love u.. then she is of not problem. So its Observe , identify then exploit.
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cool analysis badz.Originally posted by BadzMaro:bottom line n the morals of this reasearch is... that anyone can assume anything. There is now way to know.. it will come down to ur own experiences and judgement. I agree.. every single girl is different. There is not one that is the same.. BUT after a handful of variety experience, i can sum up that certain signs work for certain girls. But u must be able to identify which category does she belong to. Once u have succefully identified her category , u will use the exact method and she will reveal the exact signs like her predecessor. If u were successfully in making the predecessor feel n love u.. then she is of not problem. So its Observe , identify then exploit.
girls u have been very good friends with - if they get a bit more physical with you, tell you more stuff, give u more attention... u cannot assume she likes you, coz it's u guys are good friends...
girls who are bubbly act cute sort, socialite type - they are basically everybody's best friend...they are very friendly to everyone, even more so to those important people. so u cannot assume they like you. -
Originally posted by BadzMaro:bottom line n the morals of this reasearch is... that anyone can assume anything. There is now way to know.. it will come down to ur own experiences and judgement. I agree.. every single girl is different. There is not one that is the same.. BUT after a handful of variety experience, i can sum up that certain signs work for certain girls. But u must be able to identify which category does she belong to. Once u have succefully identified her category , u will use the exact method and she will reveal the exact signs like her predecessor. If u were successfully in making the predecessor feel n love u.. then she is of not problem. So its Observe , identify then exploit.
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True , there are those type of girls that get very physical at you. Those are the kind where u must confront them and tell them how u feel immediately or u will be spun around thinking otherwise so. U can know if they are physical at others. U will know she is good friends with u when she says things like 'like to be single' or stuff and that she likes ur company.. CONFIRM..she treats u like good friend n the reason she is close and all physical with you is because she trusts u. And thats when u know when to back down.. and keep this closeness and look for others chicks.Originally posted by leddy:cool analysis badz.
girls u have been very good friends with - if they get a bit more physical with you, tell you more stuff, give u more attention... u cannot assume she likes you, coz it's u guys are good friends...
girls who are bubbly act cute sort, socialite type - they are basically everybody's best friend...they are very friendly to everyone, even more so to those important people. so u cannot assume they like you. -
I will try to be as rational as possible when dealing with such gals...
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to sum it up, i think is that it is pointless to look for sign, or rather it will be better if u juz go ask her how she feels, in a sense i feel that this topic is a failure and is no much better than asking a child wad e=mc2 means
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A child wouldn't know what Mc2 means.Originally posted by htc:to sum it up, i think is that it is pointless to look for sign, or rather it will be better if u juz go ask her how she feels, in a sense i feel that this topic is a failure and is no much better than asking a child wad e=mc2 means
But if you're going to start of this thread with a case study, the topic should head off with more concrete suggestions and perspective.
There are many things which cannot be learned by words or advices.
But by experiencing.
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ah... u are indeed enlightened
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Work on it.Originally posted by htc:ah... u are indeed enlightened
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No signs can tell in my opinion.
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It is not totally pointless to look for 'signs'... But it's quite pointless to start such a kinda topic... Human behaviours and judgements can be quite COMPLEX THINGS...Originally posted by htc:to sum it up, i think is that it is pointless to look for sign, or rather it will be better if u juz go ask her how she feels, in a sense i feel that this topic is a failure and is no much better than asking a child wad e=mc2 means -
These apply more for less reserved, more initiative girls perhaps....Originally posted by babyreyes:1. She blush when she looks into ur eyes.
2. calls u often.
3. sms u often.
4. when u said u are cold, she holds ur hands.
5. talk note of wat u say to her.. like u mention wat u like..she will remember.
6. gives u handmade stuff?
7. tries to date u.
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Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:
i was in your shoes before.
You can't tell from this signs. From [b]MY experience, it's the other way round. I mean, she showed all the signs above, but in the end I found out she just treat me as friends. I have crush in her before that. I was very kind and friendly to her (or so I thought), and she found me as a very good friend. That's why she started to became very close to me, hence she showed all the signs above, so I thought it's the chance for me to confess my feelings to her, which is the mistake I did. She doesn't smile when sees me, sms me when bored, tell about herself or find me out anymore... I don't think this friendship can go back as it was before.... 
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