compiling the signs that she is interested in u
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From my own experience and the friends I know.Originally posted by M©+square:Hee....you have to see them to believe.
I believe you've met a few???
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this is quite possible.Originally posted by huiz:inviting him out to a gathering wif the gal's fren & her bf.
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thats is too cruel!!
i'll prefer if the ladies will just tell straight away that she is attached or doesn't wish to step beyond the boundary of friendship.
yep some guys out there defininatly wouldn't quit.
but for me, short suffer better than long suffer(chinese phrase?) -
Signs :
Willing to talk to u late till late night.
Hmm willing to go out with u alone.
Smiles everytime she sees you.
Likes to tell u about herself and starts telling u her expectations of Guys.
like to sms u when she's bored or doing somethings.
Concern about you when ever anything happen. Small probs to big probs.
Then again some girls sometimes exhibit this behavior.
Though they just treat u as friends.
A gal really likes you will be shy sometimes. haha..
tats for my experiance. -
How you know???
Is that how you conned Auntie Yun into falling in love with you? 
FeowFeowOriginally posted by M©+square:You'll be shocked if i tell you that a fraction of girls in forums prefer gong gong category. -
=( wish i know
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Erm
Machim say until it's the girls' fault like that What about the guys who zi zuo duo qing? There're some guys who read too much into friendly actions, & think a girl likes them simply because she wants to talk? Or simply because she's being friendly?
If that's the case, then I must have been interested in over 1000000000 guys already, & counting, even though I'm HAPPILY attached!
FeowFeowOriginally posted by ChEeSeLover:There's no sure way of knowing without asking her. Don't try to read too much into her actions because usually you'll not be correct. Females are complex creatures. There have been cases of guys here in SgForums having their hopes high, 'cause some girl start calling him or smsing him often. But later they find out she's just playing and they get pretty sad after that. Not all girls are like that but don't rush into anything or try to interpret her actions. Take it slow, or just ask her. -
1. Willing to talk to you till late at night
Just keeping you company.
2. Willing to go out with you alone Close friend see movie together got wrong meh?
3. Smiles everytime she sees you Don't you smile when you see a friend?
4. Likes to tell you about herself You mean you don't tell your friends anything about yourself?
5. Likes to SMS you when she's bored or doing something Of course I'll find someone to bug when I'm bored.
6. Concerned about you whenever anything happens Wah Biang, I'd better Not show concern for friends anymore if that can be mistaken as liking a friend
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Sekundes:Signs :
Willing to talk to u late till late night.
Hmm willing to go out with u alone.
Smiles everytime she sees you.
Likes to tell u about herself and starts telling u her expectations of Guys.
like to sms u when she's bored or doing somethings.
Concern about you when ever anything happen. Small probs to big probs.
Then again some girls sometimes exhibit this behavior.
Though they just treat u as friends.
A gal really likes you will be shy sometimes. haha..
tats for my experiance. -
haha...these days ppl seems so friendly...everyone is everyone good or best friends
everytime when u tot he/she is interested in u...turn out is not but when u tot dat person wun ever likes u...turn out is opp way... -
so, in that case, there are no signs to watch mah?Originally posted by FeowFeow:1. Willing to talk to you till late at night Just keeping you company.
2. Willing to go out with you alone Close friend see movie together got wrong meh?
3. Smiles everytime she sees you Don't you smile when you see a friend?
4. Likes to tell you about herself You mean you don't tell your friends anything about yourself?
5. Likes to SMS you when she's bored or doing something Of course I'll find someone to bug when I'm bored.
6. Concerned about you whenever anything happens Wah Biang, I'd better Not show concern for friends anymore if that can be mistaken as liking a friend
FeowFeow
like that how to know if a gal like a guy leh?
biggest hint, i guess:
when u invite a gal to ur house alone, she agrees... -
I suppose there are, maybe she looks into your eyes a whole lot more, & it's Not only when she's speaking to you, it's every so often, even when you guys are quiet?
The previous scenarios given are kinda too risky to assume a girl likes you because she does those things which can be done with any close friend I'm really thanking my lucky stars my buddy (who's been buddies with me since like, 14 years ago) didn't mistake me for liking him the closer we got as friends I did all those things because he was like my older brother, & he's still pretty much like an older brother now.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by nightzip:so, in that case, there are no signs to watch mah?
like that how to know if a gal like a guy leh?
biggest hint, i guess:
when u invite a gal to ur house alone, she agrees... -
it is not possible. it is true.Originally posted by LazerLordz:this is quite possible. -
I am gong gong??Originally posted by FeowFeow:How you know??? Is that how you conned Auntie Yun into falling in love with you?
FeowFeow
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Not necessary?Originally posted by CSM:dating ah..must make sure the girl know what you are like la..dont be the blur type. -
That's the worse partOriginally posted by M©+square:Haha...
I guess you must be thinking they are difficult.
Esp when they are 'everybody's friend' -
It varies....from lady to ladyOriginally posted by FeowFeow:1. Willing to talk to you till late at night Just keeping you company.
2. Willing to go out with you alone Close friend see movie together got wrong meh?
3. Smiles everytime she sees you Don't you smile when you see a friend?
4. Likes to tell you about herself You mean you don't tell your friends anything about yourself?
5. Likes to SMS you when she's bored or doing something Of course I'll find someone to bug when I'm bored.
6. Concerned about you whenever anything happens Wah Biang, I'd better Not show concern for friends anymore if that can be mistaken as liking a friend
FeowFeow -
Originally posted by Sekundes:
You can't tell from this signs. From MY experience, it's the other way round. I mean, she showed all the signs above, but in the end I found out she just treat me as friends.
Signs :
Willing to talk to u late till late night.
Hmm willing to go out with u alone.
Smiles everytime she sees you.
Likes to tell u about herself and starts telling u her expectations of Guys.
like to sms u when she's bored or doing somethings.
Concern about you when ever anything happen. Small probs to big probs.
Then again some girls sometimes exhibit this behavior.
Though they just treat u as friends.
A gal really likes you will be shy sometimes. haha..
tats for my experiance. I have crush in her before that. I was very kind and friendly to her (or so I thought), and she found me as a very good friend. That's why she started to became very close to me, hence she showed all the signs above, so I thought it's the chance for me to confess my feelings to her, which is the mistake I did. She doesn't smile when sees me, sms me when bored, tell about herself or find me out anymore... I don't think this friendship can go back as it was before.... 
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that's why i say guys should not make any assume even if the girl is very friendly towards u...Originally posted by FeowFeow:Erm
Machim say until it's the girls' fault like that What about the guys who zi zuo duo qing? There're some guys who read too much into friendly actions, & think a girl likes them simply because she wants to talk? Or simply because she's being friendly?
If that's the case, then I must have been interested in over 1000000000 guys already, & counting, even though I'm HAPPILY attached!
FeowFeow
the best way to know whether she likes u or not, is when is always getting on ur nerves -
Originally posted by leddy:that's why i say guys should not make any assume even if the girl is very friendly towards u...
the best way to know whether she likes u or not, is when is always getting on ur nerves
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Meaning if she irritates you a lot..Originally posted by leddy:that's why i say guys should not make any assume even if the girl is very friendly towards u...
the best way to know whether she likes u or not, is when is always getting on ur nerves -
Some girls are really good at concealing their feelings for guys, my gf is one fine example.
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It's guys duty to learn how to observe girl's advance instead of assuming.
Many guys think too much. Until they have 'self induced' the liking for a girl.
Silly.
Cheers -
I'm saying MC is pretend pretend gong gong & conned you into falling in love with him lah
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Yunhaier:I am gong gong??
Cheers -
Yeah, it's never safe to assume lorr... There was 1 guy who did when I was in JC, & he freakin' spread it around the school that I was interested in him He was considered good-looking in the school, & ended up being a model later on, but I was NOT interested! Got so damn fed-up with him that I stopped talking to him after that.
Interested in him ah? Wait long long. Who did he think he was?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by leddy:that's why i say guys should not make any assume even if the girl is very friendly towards u...
the best way to know whether she likes u or not, is when is always getting on ur nerves -
actually.. i think gals assume more than guys.