This is the first time I've humbled myself in such matters.
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just show your care and concern towards her more that she can notice you !
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Just be yourself pal...girls are usually very sensitive and as you mention in later post that she'll shun anyone who confess their feelings to her.Originally posted by matrixeg:I'm going on an outing with my friends the week after the next.
The girl of my dreams is going.
I never share this problems with others cos I always have it my way when it comes to relationships (the girl always askes)
This is the first time I've felt the need for outside help.
It's the first time I've felt inconfident of my skills I used on previous potential gfs...
She's the first girl to have made me felt this way.
She's the one.
I need help.
Some girls don't like the "rush" feelings and I suspect that she's one of them. There's no need to prove anything or do anything extra to impress her unless you are prepared to do those things for the rest of your life with her. If she's the one, just be yourself and if she's impressed she will be impressed for who you are and not what you do to impress her.
Show sincereity and try to bring the friendship to a deeper depth. Trust me, if she's yours, she's yours. If she's not meant to be yours, at least at the end of the day you won't be so hurt.
Maybe you can be a BIT more attentive towards her during outings but but NEVER confess your feelings to her until you are quite certain that you aren't fumbling on your own words and actions. Girls needs to feel secure. -
From your thread title, seems like you are very confident in past relationships.
Just find the confidence from those times and use it. But dont overdo it. More like 'relaxed' confidence in being yourself. She is only human, there is no need to fear her or treat her differently right? -
Looks like everyone has given you good advice
its clear...she seem more special to you thus you are nervous but still..in order to get a girl to like you...you must be a good friend to her...someone trustworthy, able to confide in when met with problems...its a long journey but it will be worthwhile if you can make it
Good luck
~+Cheers+~
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yeah thx a lot peeps.
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do let us know the outcome of ur outing
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i believe this girl is much prettier than the rest of the girls who asks u out?Originally posted by matrixeg:I'm going on an outing with my friends the week after the next.
The girl of my dreams is going.
I never share this problems with others cos I always have it my way when it comes to relationships (the girl always askes)This is the first time I've felt the need for outside help.
It's the first time I've felt inconfident of my skills I used on previous potential gfs...
She's the first girl to have made me felt this way.
She's the one.
I need help.
your problem is, you only realise how... unattractive u ar maybe?
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you are in fact, a small prepubescent boy. now, take 10 shooters of EVERCLEAR/BACARDI 151 and attempt to grab her hand. pretty girls are easily impressed by guys who can take their alcohol well. shows how strong of a liver you have.Originally posted by matrixeg:crap. past relationships with come-and-go girls whom i didn't really fancy taught me that relationships were easy.
i feel like a small prepubescent boy now...
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how old are you, may I know?
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Originally posted by yourma:you are in fact, a small prepubescent boy. now, take 10 shooters of EVERCLEAR/BACARDI 151 and attempt to grab her hand. pretty girls are easily impressed by guys who can take their alcohol well. shows how strong of a liver you have.
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Lets Compile a list of question to help him and us understand his situation.
Question :
How Old are both of you ?
Does she know you exist ?
How Often you talk/msg/chat to her ?
Have you gone out with her ? How it went if yes ?
What do you think she thinks of you as ?
Do you understand her well ?
Does she talk to you often ?
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This should help i suppose ?