Originally posted by matrixeg:
I'm going on an outing with my friends the week after the next.
The girl of my dreams is going.
I never share this problems with others cos I always have it my way when it comes to relationships (the girl always askes)
This is the first time I've felt the need for outside help.
It's the first time I've felt inconfident of my skills I used on previous potential gfs...
She's the first girl to have made me felt this way.
She's the one.
I need help.
Just be yourself pal...girls are usually very sensitive and as you mention in later post that she'll shun anyone who confess their feelings to her.
Some girls don't like the "rush" feelings and I suspect that she's one of them. There's no need to prove anything or do anything extra to impress her unless you are prepared to do those things for the rest of your life with her. If she's the one, just be yourself and if she's impressed she will be impressed for who you are and not what you do to impress her.
Show sincereity and try to bring the friendship to a deeper depth. Trust me, if she's yours, she's yours. If she's not meant to be yours, at least at the end of the day you won't be so hurt.
Maybe you can be a BIT more attentive towards her during outings but but NEVER confess your feelings to her until you are quite certain that you aren't fumbling on your own words and actions. Girls needs to feel secure.