A Qstn For The Ladies: Being a Third Party
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Married men and teenage girls..Originally posted by M©+square:Oh well. The news prefers 'this' kind of subject esp to the Chinese papers.
Not surprised.
Middle aged men and teenage girls were already common since the 90s.
Anyway, gaining its popularity too...?
Personally, I feel that it's rather unfair to overturn the boat based by just a piece of 'news'...
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Married Man and teenage girls cases are around all the while. Maybe until recently, people/media decided to look closer.Originally posted by Devil1976:Married men and teenage girls..
Anyway, gaining its popularity too...?
Personally, I feel that it's rather unfair to overturn the boat based by just a piece of 'news'...
News is always trying to stir unwanted commotions and emotions. Sick of them. -
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FeowFeowOriginally posted by sharked:To the ladies of this forum:
Doing you think its alright to get involve with a married/attached man even if its just purely physical and that you knew he was married/attached right from the beginning? -
i know it has been around... but from what i can observe of youths nowadays are that they are becoming more and more open-minded... .... gals as young as 14,15 are offering themselves up for little reasons..... their bf's love, curiosity, money etc
times sure changed...
irony is im quite open minded myself, but hey i'm not young (nor tt old). It just appals me that some young gals nowadays lack self preservations
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Seemingly so. But nothing wrong with that.Originally posted by sharked:i know it has been around... but from what i can observe of youths nowadays are that they are becoming more and more open-minded... .... gals as young as 14,15 are offering themselves up for little reasons..... their bf's love, curiosity, money etc
times sure changed...
irony is im quite open minded myself, but hey i'm not young (nor tt old). It just appals me that some young gals nowadays lack self preservations
am i ranting???
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... ... the deteriorating sense of moralof our ppl.........Originally posted by M©+square:Seemingly so. But nothing wrong with that. 
but oh well...... why bother with moral when we should just enjoy life right? -
What i meant was. You seemed to be ranting, but ranting is nothing wrong.Originally posted by sharked:... ... the deteriorating sense of moralof our ppl.........
but oh well...... why bother with moral when we should just enjoy life right?
deteriorating??? Maybe, yeah i suppose it's getting worse.
Another side of the coin moral declination?
A spouse abuser hates people who commits affair.
A person who enjoys one night stands, is a very trustworthy friend to his social circle.
We are one way or another hypocrites in our own standard.
It is hard to quantify what is morally 'right'. Because we see,'right' in different aspect and those angle varies.
What may seem 'right' to you may not to me. Likewise for the 'wrongs'.
Yes, experience life and enjoy it.
Share the burden of a friend, but do not carry the burden for your friend.
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Well.. It's always the same with alot of things... Cook them HOT and sell themOriginally posted by M©+square:Married Man and teenage girls cases are around all the while. Maybe until recently, people/media decided to look closer.
News is always trying to stir unwanted commotions and emotions. Sick of them. -
Live & let live? There's Nothing we can do about the lack of morals in other people. But I choose to make sure I don't lack these morals. So that I can look back on life without cringing.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by sharked:... ... the deteriorating sense of moralof our ppl.........
but oh well...... why bother with moral when we should just enjoy life right? -
wow!!well said!! wat mature & sensitive attitude u hav.I agree we shud not judge..be a friend.
Merry Christmas.Originally posted by M©+square:I agree with you that it's wrong.
I also agree with your friend that it's(the affair) a small matter.
There are several categories of people in this world that have differing perspective and mindset in work, ethics, relationships social life and private life.
We are always judging situations by our value system.
You may have seen this issue at your point of view and made certain comments.
Your friend may differ, because she have completely different value in life. Likewise what you deemed right may not be right to many people.
How right is right and how wrong is wrong? It is all up to individuals to comment and judge.
You need to open your mind about this matter; be open minded or just leave the topic alone till she wants to talk about it.
Cheers