its over.. everything..
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Hint : Void.
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what's void?
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GO READ WHAT YOU'VE TYPED.Originally posted by sunpastilles:ytd or 2 days ago, he just msged me asking me hows life.. so we chatted abit.. about our 'failed' r/s.. den we talked about how possessive and tight we held onto each other. then these few days i already sorta.. wake up everyday and not think about him le.. but after what we chatted.. it SEEMS to me like.. he kinda changed.. and he gives me the feeling back like he wants me back.. i dunno..
cos all along in the past he's been smsing this girl, the one whom he always sms those "love u miss u" stuffs.. saying "i miss my keai de ____ alot" such things.. den.. i was asking him he really like her issit.. why don go for her.. den he's like "aiya i know she wont wan flirt de, so wat for i waste my time on her"
then i think back.. that time when we broke up, i said things like "i really thot u changed le, but still so flirt" den he was pretty pissed, "ya lah i flirt lah, everything also i flirt" den now he admit he flirt.. haha really dunno wat he thinking..
den i asked "why u nvr msg ur ke ai and cute de girl.. ytd u just said I LOVE YOU to her again right.. haha" den he said "dunno la.. don say her le can. i also don love her wat, sms for fun cannot ah, bro n sis only ma. think i wont msg her again le ba" aiya, GUYS ARE WEIRD. what you all thinking huh..... hais...
anyway back to track.. uhh... i know its my life, i've to make my own decisions.. u guys are just here to advise me, right?? well... but now.. seems like again im stuck.. i dunno... he's been msging me, askin me help him run errands and meet him and stuffs like that. he said he miss me.. sighs... now wat do i do........
Like I've said, sit in ONE CORNER and RECOLLECT THINGS. Think of what HAD HAPPENED. NOT what he's doing NOW and what he WANTS you to do...
If you keep 'playing' along with him, your thoughts probably would never really have a chance to settle down... -
I doubt she'll settle down?Originally posted by Devil1976:GO READ WHAT YOU'VE TYPED.
Like I've said, sit in ONE CORNER and RECOLLECT THINGS. Think of what HAD HAPPENED. NOT what he's doing NOW and what he WANTS you to do...
If you keep 'playing' along with him, your thoughts probably would never really have a chance to settle down... -
usually when someone asks a question, he/she already knows/ expects the answer and is just seeking confirmation or someone to 'back' them up...
so if he/she hears what he/she doesn't want to hear.... most likely he/she wld dismiss it.. -
dun reali...Originally posted by sunpastilles:should i wait for a patch or something???
this kind of guys sucks big time...
i'm a guy,but i dun like this kind of guys,as in if he's two-timing u... -
Can never be sure...Originally posted by M©+square:I doubt she'll settle down?
But at least my purpose is to let her know what direction she should be heading.. The rest is really up to her...? -
well, move on.
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have you ever think why he is like that to you? you not having enough confient to not make him flirt? is the problem always with the guys? is the problem with people beside incite you that is this guy is bad?
maybe you never appreciate the little tings he do for you and he is dissapointed or you never do little little thing to make him appreciates. a man wont flirt for no reasons. not a crazy man would. i am a man and i like to filrt cos not of fun but the girl makes me dissapointed and angry. but deep down i am good and repented to you. i hope the man read this realise miss pastilles is serious about you or if is not then i dun know wat to do. if you are really flirt for fun then you are fak! if not miss pasti will forgive you and treat you bettar next time. -
Yupz !! thumbs up !!Originally posted by Honda_Xr4:dun reali...
this kind of guys sucks big time...
i'm a guy,but i dun like this kind of guys,as in if he's two-timing u...
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ahh i cant take it. he's been smsing me.. telling me stuffs like he miss me.. and how he removed the key chain i gave him and now put it back... and when we chat about the old times when we were still together.. he kept saying he regretted doing these and that.. and that he still feels alot for me.. he's asking me out.. but i dunno whether i should go anot..
nowadays i wake up.. i don feel as sad anymore.. and did i tell u guys, i didnt shed a tear when we broke up.. but few days later, i miss him terribly.. but now?? the feeling is different.. when i think abt him, i feel... disgusted?? i dunno.. he's still like the past, when he found out i actually went out with one of his guy frens, he was angry with me.. he said he hated it. he asked why am i still with guys.. and i was like "huh, but im no longer ur gf.. why should u care who im out with.." then he says he's very confused.. he apologised for every incident.. every wrong he did..
i know myself.. i think. i don miss him as much anymore.. i know i've given up hope on this r/s.. i know i wont feel safe with him even if we patch.. but.. seeing him like this.. makes me.. feel.. ahh i dunno how to say.. but.. what do i do now??? wat if i fall for him the second time?? -
all along in this r/s.. i've been the one doing all the little things and he jus appreciates. i gave 3 surprises, each i had to wait for at least an hour before he shows up at his place. every month i spend the effort to buy a lil gift.. and spend some time doing a card with msgs from my heart.. and give him. sometimes he thanked me, sometimes he didnt. all that was in my mind when i was doing those things, i jus wanted to put a smile on his face. i didnt care what or how he didnt even do anything to make me happy. the only thing i ever received from him.. was only a watch, and that was for my birthday. now i dunno whether i should thank him or wat, becos he didnt give me any huggable stuffs.. and thus i dont think abt him cos i hav nth to remind me of him..Originally posted by froz:...
maybe you never appreciate the little tings he do for you and he is dissapointed or you never do little little thing to make him appreciates. a man wont flirt for no reasons.. -
hey,
hang in there k, iam experiencing the same shit, n it hurts to see how she can recover so fast, and b so coooollll abt ending a 3 yr long relationship.
i wake up every morning with a heavy heart, eveywhere i go, iam reminded of her, everydae wait patiently 4 her name to appear on my hp, but dunhave, i kp hanging on to all this false hopes den maybe we gt back somdae.
u noe wad u shld do? be strong and show him tht life goes on with or without him and he will strt realising tht maybe he made a mistake.
dun eva let him feel tht he can hav u back anytime, dun let him hav the upper hand.
it really sux wen u feel tht u put up with all his shit n put in sooo dam much effort, den in the end u find urself being the only one hu suffers.its like hes the one hu sets it up n now hes the one to make it stop.
its unfair, but u cant change smeone elses feelings.
move on k, life has a funny wae of bringing someone special in ur life again.
regards, tke cre
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Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
Always remeber that.