AIR SPACE...
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Anybody like me? Sometimes you've got something or some things bottled up in you, and yet you don't feel like telling them out loud nor sharing them with anyone...?
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DEVIL IS GAY!!!!!!!!!!!
phew...enuf of bottlin it in -
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I realised i haven't been writing essay for a long time, don't feel like doing it also.
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Originally posted by alexkusu:DEVIL IS GAY!!!!!!!!!!!
phew...enuf of bottlin it in
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Sometimes it works better this way...?Originally posted by M©+square:I realised i haven't been writing essay for a long time, don't feel like doing it also.
All the thoughts are in my mind.
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Same here.Originally posted by M©+square:I realised i haven't been writing essay for a long time, don't feel like doing it also.
All the thoughts are in my mind.
Sometimes I felt worse...it's like deciving myself. Occassionally I do write blogs but then most time I find myself not able to do that. Sometimes I felt so rotton that I don't even dare to write that in my diary.
I guess it's just part and parcel of life. Most people simply just can't face the truth even if in privacy. Nothing can be worse than self deciving I guess.
But I do admit that writing does help sometimes. It gives a clearer picture of the whole situation. Another way for me is to reply to people seeking advises in AA. I'm not saying I'm an expert in consoling or I'm a good adviser, but I do find that while I'm helping others to find the answers they seek I found the solution to my own problems too. -
to my boss:
feel better nw
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If it's something unpleasant, I tend to brood about it on my own. Telling close ones will have them worried or frantic or whatever, OR they'll try to gimme advice which I'm Not asking for. It irks me even more lorr...
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Devil1976:Anybody like me? Sometimes you've got something or some things bottled up in you, and yet you don't feel like telling them out loud nor sharing them with anyone...?
This thread is for you people likewise... -
Me too.
you feel like shouting and telling someone, but when you look at them,
you just can't say tell them.
WHen its all bottled up, Sometimes, just wanna have someone to know what you have bottled up without telling them. -
Hahaha...it's worse when they totally don't understand and just give you a slam on the face with this sentence "Aiya...you always like that one lah..think so much for what?" I think it hurts more than ever to hear something like that. So I guess it's better to shuddupOriginally posted by FeowFeow:If it's something unpleasant, I tend to brood about it on my own. Telling close ones will have them worried or frantic or whatever, OR they'll try to gimme advice which I'm Not asking for. It irks me even more lorr...
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Yah, or they'll go, "It's like that what, what can you do? Brood also No use".
Yah right, if they're faced with the same situation, see whether they brood or Not
So I'd rather keep quiet
FeowFeowOriginally posted by laosu:Hahaha...it's worse when they totally don't understand and just give you a slam on the face with this sentence "Aiya...you always like that one lah..think so much for what?" I think it hurts more than ever to hear something like that. So I guess it's better to shuddup -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:Yah, or they'll go, "It's like that what, what can you do? Brood also No use".
Yah right, if they're faced with the same situation, see whether they brood or Not
So I'd rather keep quiet
FeowFeow
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Sounds like ME...Originally posted by FeowFeow:Yah, or they'll go, "It's like that what, what can you do? Brood also No use".
Yah right, if they're faced with the same situation, see whether they brood or Not
So I'd rather keep quiet
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Sometimes...having friends are good...at least they keep you company when you need someone by your side...but sometimes...you just wished that everyone will disappear right before you.Originally posted by Devil1976:Sounds like ME...
I just realised that to a certain extend...I seemed to be starting to isolate myself from friends. Not that they are lousy friends...they are really very great friends but I think I need some quiet moments alone. -
Misunderstood.
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Ok, you're 1 of those people I wouldn't talk to
Usually, I'll only talk about it after the problem has been resolved
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Devil1976:Sounds like ME... -
Nay... It can be normal for some people... I used to be quite a solitary guy too... ALWAYS NEED TIME by myself...Originally posted by laosu:Sometimes...having friends are good...at least they keep you company when you need someone by your side...but sometimes...you just wished that everyone will disappear right before you.
I just realised that to a certain extend...I seemed to be starting to isolate myself from friends. Not that they are lousy friends...they are really very great friends but I think I need some quiet moments alone. -
Originally posted by M©+square:Misunderstood.
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Yeah.. Often for you, the many thoughts just confuse and irritates you...Originally posted by FeowFeow:Ok, you're 1 of those people I wouldn't talk to
Usually, I'll only talk about it after the problem has been resolved
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I love solitudes, but people see it as reserved and problematic.Originally posted by Devil1976:
Hurmmm.
Actually i'm fine with it, i've lost many friends because they do not understand me. And because i didn't bother to explain myself, i lost them. :: They are my friends, if they don't understand and accept the way i work, then they're not my friends.
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/me pat pat McsquareOriginally posted by M©+square:I love solitudes, but people see it as reserved and problematic.
Hurmmm.
Actually i'm fine with it, i've lost many friends because they do not understand me. And because i didn't bother to explain myself, i lost them. :: They are my friends, if they don't understand and accept the way i work, then they're not my friends.
Hurmm
I need a good balance: I wouldn't mind being alone when the occasion arises, but generally, I prefer people to be around me.
When I retreat mentally, it is usually something critical to think about and I need some quiet space. In aftermath, I prefer discussion over silent brooding.
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looks like a threads for modsOriginally posted by Devil1976:Anybody like me? Sometimes you've got something or some things bottled up in you, and yet you don't feel like telling them out loud nor sharing them with anyone...?
This thread is for you people likewise...
i get that bottled feeling often.. it's like i have so many thoughts i can go through, but when i decide to pen it out or type it in notepad, most of the stuf just won't come out.
i don't really trust online blogs for very personal stuff... so i type in notepad and save it in a hidden folder. when i'm feeling down, i look back and it reminds me why i'm feeling like that.. i don't think i'll be able to accept that fact in this life..
i feel like ending it, but i don't dare to. i'm afraid of change... and i feel disgusted for myself because of the reason. i shouldn't have started this all. now i regret, trapped in a one-way ticket to hell..