AIR SPACE...

• NekoRin

  15 Dec 05, 12:29

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Let's STAT WITH YOU...
  
  $$$

  I'm poor sad to say = =+
• Missing

  18 Dec 05, 12:57

  Originally posted by Delta 5:

  Wah! Modest!

  No i didnt. hehehe..
• Missing

  18 Dec 05, 13:03

  Originally posted by laosu:

  Same wise pal.
  For my gf, I know sometimes she doesn't want to upset or burden me with her problems that's why she usually will not tell me at that point until either she can't deal with it alone or it's already over.
  
  I just try to be supportive and let her know that I'll always be around anytime she feels like talking about it. There are times when I know she's bothered by something and when I ask her, she just deny that she's bothered. I'll just give her a hug and a kiss and you really can see from her face that she felt more relieve and relax cause she knew that no matter what happen she'll always have me by her side.

  You are a nice guy for ur gf, but why some guys can't understanding his gf when saw her unhappy or someth? I know some guys very cool(da nan ren), when his gf got problem also dont wanna asking or care about her. so sad....
• laosu

  18 Dec 05, 16:44

  Originally posted by Missing:

  You are a nice guy for ur gf, but why some guys can't understanding his gf when saw her unhappy or someth? I know some guys very cool(da nan ren), when his gf got problem also dont wanna asking or care about her. so sad....

  Ermmm...I'm not exactly a nice guy tho. There are also times whereby I'm insensitive towards my gf's feelings. Everyone are born differently, I'm just lucky to be born a bit more sensitive than others, but there are times I wished I'm not that sensitive either.
  
  I don't believe in being egoistic although I do admit that I do have certain pride in me. But believe me, being sensitive towards gf's feelings/emotions has nothing to do with pride or ego at all (your so call da nan ren).
• Devil1976

  18 Dec 05, 18:39

  Originally posted by Missing:

  You are a nice guy for ur gf, but why some guys can't understanding his gf when saw her unhappy or someth? I know some guys very cool(da nan ren), when his gf got problem also dont wanna asking or care about her. so sad....

  
• soggy87

  18 Dec 05, 20:39

  here goes... i like some1 in my club... but my fren oso like her... so i decided to back off... till now i still havent express my love to her...
• laosu

  19 Dec 05, 05:53

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  

  Devil...why this expression?!?!
• laosu

  19 Dec 05, 05:57

  Originally posted by soggy87:

  here goes... i like some1 in my club... but my fren oso like her... so i decided to back off... till now i still havent express my love to her...

  If you have decide to back off for the sake of your friend, then back off totally and stop thinking about it.
  
  but I don't see the reason why you have to back off just because your friend likes her too. I think it's the girls choice to who she wanna be with right? Back to the end, she might not even be with either of you!!
  
  Ok, be serious here. I still think you should tell your friend that you like her too and let her be the one to choose who she wants to be with. If your friend is really a friend, then it shouldn't hurt the friendship much. If it does, then nothing to lose cause this kind of friend not worth your efforts.
• M©+square

  19 Dec 05, 15:50

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Let's START WITH YOU...
  
  $$$

  you want me to remind you of the bonus?
  
  Cheers
• Devil1976

  20 Dec 05, 13:03

  Originally posted by laosu:

  Devil...why this expression?!?!

  Machiam like saying me like that...? I better BUCK UP..??
• Devil1976

  20 Dec 05, 13:03

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  you want me to remind you of the bonus?
  
  Cheers

  NEXT YEAR's BONUS??
• soggy87

  20 Dec 05, 20:50

  I very sian liao... got rejected for the third time... I really wan to cry liao... what can i do?
• M©+square

  20 Dec 05, 21:12

  Originally posted by soggy87:

  I very sian liao... got rejected for the third time... I really wan to cry liao... what can i do?

  What happened? What's with the crying?
• SGpork

  20 Dec 05, 21:32

  me..
  
  
• soggy87

  20 Dec 05, 22:53

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  What happened? What's with the crying?

  lately i under a lot of stress plus kana rejected.. then i feel so helpless.. this wasnt wat i was expecting.. i even haf suicide thought.. haiz
• laosu

  21 Dec 05, 03:26

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Machiam like saying me like that...? I better BUCK UP..??

  Nah.
  There's always someone better and someone worse.
  But if you think you aren't good enough...that's quite a good news..
  Bless your gf
• laosu

  21 Dec 05, 03:28

  Originally posted by soggy87:

  I very sian liao... got rejected for the third time... I really wan to cry liao... what can i do?

  Getting rejections is normal.
  Don't mean to throw blankets but who in the world never get rejected before?
  I know it's easier said than done but convert that rejected feelings to strength.
• soggy87

  21 Dec 05, 23:18

  haiz damn sian...
• NekoRin

  22 Dec 05, 10:27

  soggy i share the same feelings =X
  
  got turned down yet again.....
• soggy87

  22 Dec 05, 13:15

  now i can see that she dun even wan to tok to me... cant even be frens... haiz... feel very pek chey toking to her
• M©+square

  22 Dec 05, 13:19

  Originally posted by soggy87:

  now i can see that she dun even wan to tok to me... cant even be frens... haiz... feel very pek chey toking to her

  Then you can choose to walk away from it and start living a life of your own?
  
  Remember: You make the decision. You do the selection.
  You do not wait for others to pick you up.
  
  Cheers
• Devil1976

  22 Dec 05, 14:09

  Originally posted by soggy87:

  lately i under a lot of stress plus kana rejected.. then i feel so helpless.. this wasnt wat i was expecting.. i even haf suicide thought.. haiz

  Separate out the issues...
  
  If you're very stressed already, what for still go after her to add on to your STRESS BESIDES... What makes you think that you're gonna perform well in courting her when you yourself is already under alot of pressure...? Take care and handle your own life well 1st before deciding whether you wanna approach her again
• Devil1976

  22 Dec 05, 14:15

  Originally posted by laosu:

  Nah.
  There's always someone better and someone worse.
  But if you think you aren't good enough...that's quite a good news..
  Bless your gf

  Bad thing is I think I ain't good enough, and yet I'm not doing anything much about it...?? < "
• laosu

  22 Dec 05, 18:42

  Originally posted by soggy87:

  now i can see that she dun even wan to tok to me... cant even be frens... haiz... feel very pek chey toking to her

  Why still rush forward when you already see a concrete wall in front? Why complain so much when it's you yourself who sees the wall and still bang yourself against it?
  
  I'm not trying to shun you but then I simply can't understand why people love to bang themselves against a wall that they already see and worse...bang at the same wall few times.
• laosu

  22 Dec 05, 18:45

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Bad thing is I think I ain't good enough, and yet I'm not doing anything much about it...?? < "

  how good is enough?