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5^!Originally posted by thousandisland:high 5 binz! hmm sometimes just going out and catching a movie alone is the best way to really feel better. or at least that's why i do.
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Yeah i can undertand when ppl dont like their lover keep asking wht happen? Why unhappy? Can tell me? etc....Originally posted by laosu:Sometimes, it's just not about sharing. Some stuffs are simply just too hard to share especially when you know it'll effect your partner too when they learn of it.
Certain things I'll choose to keep it to myself and unless I find it apporiate to talk to her then I will. Maybe it's just a matter of time that I'll tell it to her. She understands that and never really pressure me to say things that I dun feel like talking about it at the moment. Same for me, if I sense that something is bothering her, I'll try to ask but if she prefer to keep quiet about it then is ok with me cause I know she will tell it to me when she feels comfortable about it.
For me? Just give she/he hv their own time. If she/he really dont wanna share their problem we also cant do anyth right? Let she/he freedom. but sometimes i dont wanna see my lover unhappy. -
hehe...pretty hw r u? Dont worry i'm fine here.Originally posted by FeowFeow:*Sayang sayang Missing*
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No need to depends lah, one lover u no need to sharing wif, becos ur lover dont wann know everyth better.. ehehe...Originally posted by Devil1976:Depends...
At this point, I just wanna share THIS...
YOU ARE A GREAT GF
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Sorry i'm not, i'm not a great GF. -
ops... sry didn't check into sgforum these few days..Originally posted by Devil1976:Actually there's this pen pal of mine who's somehow experiencing quite the same or sort?
We finally sort of agree that since we're all trapped here in a tunnel which is dark and might looks miserable, why not just throw a PARTY and ENJOY OURSELVES..
er.. so long as the ending it = a relationship, i.e he has similar relationship problems then i guess it's the same..
why do i bother about people's past.... it's my problem.. i juz like things 'perfect'. everything i do, even washing the car, i try to make sure no detail is overlooked. i can't stand it when things are not straight.. pictures hung up, hp screen protector, stickers on anything... stuff like that
of course there are happy times, just once inawhile i get reminded and it totally sucks. I posted before in AA, but i couldn't get myself to accept the past... maybe suppress it i guess. sry, i forgot the nick i posted as and couldn't find it.. so i created another nick.
how to throw a party n enjoy? lolx.. 1 person can't be considered a party.. -
Haha... But there are ALWAYS PEOPLE AROUND YOU nowadays in this world what... The rest is just depending on how far away ya wanna stand from them...?Originally posted by thingy:ops... sry didn't check into sgforum these few days..
er.. so long as the ending it = a relationship, i.e he has similar relationship problems then i guess it's the same..
why do i bother about people's past.... it's my problem.. i juz like things 'perfect'. everything i do, even washing the car, i try to make sure no detail is overlooked. i can't stand it when things are not straight.. pictures hung up, hp screen protector, stickers on anything... stuff like that
of course there are happy times, just once inawhile i get reminded and it totally sucks. I posted before in AA, but i couldn't get myself to accept the past... maybe suppress it i guess. sry, i forgot the nick i posted as and couldn't find it.. so i created another nick.
Alas... I used to be quite like you... Until at a point of my life, I starts to realise that everyone's just different... I can't always use my standard and demands people to meet up to it or always agree with me...
Being 'perfect' is 'cool', but somehow many a time not really practical and tends to distant people away from you..
how to throw a party n enjoy? lolx.. 1 person can't be considered a party.. -
Originally posted by Missing:No need to depends lah, one lover u no need to sharing wif, becos ur lover dont wann know everyth better.. ehehe...
Sorry i'm not, i'm not a great GF. -
Wah! Modest!Originally posted by Missing:No need to depends lah, one lover u no need to sharing wif, becos ur lover dont wann know everyth better.. ehehe...
Sorry i'm not, i'm not a great GF. -
Used to... Now it depends on what matters...?Originally posted by binZ:hmmm.. i nv tell lanyone anything de..
i rather keep things to myself and be sad alone.. no point implicating people..
im an introvert!
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Tired of being sick and tired
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we different mah~ i can alsobe very nice and not so nice at the same time de.Originally posted by Devil1976:Used to... Now it depends on what matters...?
well.. tats what make us special~ we have individualised characters! -
Same wise pal.Originally posted by Missing:Yeah i can undertand when ppl dont like their lover keep asking wht happen? Why unhappy? Can tell me? etc....
For me? Just give she/he hv their own time. If she/he really dont wanna share their problem we also cant do anyth right? Let she/he freedom. but sometimes i dont wanna see my lover unhappy.
For my gf, I know sometimes she doesn't want to upset or burden me with her problems that's why she usually will not tell me at that point until either she can't deal with it alone or it's already over.
I just try to be supportive and let her know that I'll always be around anytime she feels like talking about it. There are times when I know she's bothered by something and when I ask her, she just deny that she's bothered. I'll just give her a hug and a kiss and you really can see from her face that she felt more relieve and relax cause she knew that no matter what happen she'll always have me by her side. -
Originally posted by binZ:we different mah~ i can alsobe very nice and not so nice at the same time de.
well.. tats what make us special~ we have individualised characters! 
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I have thoughts to pen down
I have words to say
I have advice to post
I have....things which i want to do
but except to do...i stop at the thought of doing it.
Everytime when i come close to finish typing a post in AA. I'll just click on 'Newest topics'
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I have days when I don't even wish to advise at all, knowing that there're many who'll only hear what they wanna hear.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by M©+square:I have thoughts to pen down
I have words to say
I have advice to post
I have....things which i want to do
but except to do...i stop at the thought of doing it.
Everytime when i come close to finish typing a post in AA. I'll just click on 'Newest topics'
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I guess that's quite normal.Originally posted by FeowFeow:I have days when I don't even wish to advise at all, knowing that there're many who'll only hear what they wanna hear.
FeowFeow
Sometimes it applies to me too although most of the time I rather hear the truth even though it'll hurt more.
Sometimes you just shut out everything. Don't even want to hear the good stuffs or bad stuffs. withdraw back to my own world and sink. -
Originally posted by M©+square:I have thoughts to pen down
I have words to say
I have advice to post
I have....things which i want to do
but except to do...i stop at the thought of doing it.
Everytime when i come close to finish typing a post in AA. I'll just click on 'Newest topics'
Hai.
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Originally posted by binZ:
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not good to stop at doing it wat~ >.<Originally posted by M©+square:
Why? -
Hi it's my first post here, been a lurker here for 8months plus finally decided to post
Yeah I do need some air-space but on the other hand am afraid that someone whom I know also lurks here and in turn worsens the situation =X -
Well... I can talk to my friends bette on my problem, but problem is, I have very few friends I can share my problem with. If I can't find them, I'll just sleep on my trouble and hope it goes away.Originally posted by Sekundes:Me too.
you feel like shouting and telling someone, but when you look at them,
you just can't say tell them.
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Welcome!Originally posted by NekoRin:Hi it's my first post here, been a lurker here for 8months plus finally decided to post
Yeah I do need some air-space but on the other hand am afraid that someone whom I know also lurks here and in turn worsens the situation =X
Feel free to post your stuff when you're sure that people here can help or hear you out.
Alternatively, you may Private message whoever you think could give you proper advice. Since you've been in here for 8months(lurk) you should know who is good.
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Thanks, I can foresee that I will post my problems here in near future as I find that i'm losing my sense of where i'm heading graduallyOriginally posted by M©+square:Welcome!
Feel free to post your stuff when you're sure that people here can help or hear you out.
Alternatively, you may Private message whoever you think could give you proper advice. Since you've been in here for 8months(lurk) you should know who is good.
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Originally posted by NekoRin:Thanks, I can foresee that I will post my problems here in near future as I find that i'm losing my sense of where i'm heading gradually Meanwhile do contribute to those who are needy.
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Let's START WITH YOU...Originally posted by M©+square: Meanwhile do contribute to those who are needy.
Cheers
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