The person I like most getting married
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What should i do? The girl he chose was not even good looking as me , and lower educated. In a way i feel strange now as the matter did not full come to me as a blow because of these reason. Superiority complex perhaps?
Cant deccribe my feelings now. Have i lost him forever? anywae i do not know for sure they are getting married. But i do know dat they had many fights and problems in their r/s b4. -
What you should do? So what she's less pretty than you or have lower education than you? Just a gentle reminder...you love him...but that doesn't mean he love you. If you do mention that you are prettier than her and higher education than her...then please be reminded again that there are more girls out there who are more pretty than you and have higher education than you, so which means that he should dump you for them if you are the one who happens to be with him.Originally posted by Meera Jasmine:What should i do? The girl he chose was not even good looking as me , and lower educated. In a way i feel strange now as the matter did not full come to me as a blow because of these reason. Superiority complex perhaps?
Cant deccribe my feelings now. Have i lost him forever? anywae i do not know for sure they are getting married. But i do know dat they had many fights and problems in their r/s b4.
At least from what I read...I think I know why he chose her and not you. I probably would have chose another plain looking girl with a great heart than to choose a pretty girl with no heart. Your first paragaph already disgust me.
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i dont know how u can have superiority complex when u just lose out to another girl.
apparently, at least the person u so-called like most, find her more superior. -
I dont mean to be bad or wat... But i thought he would have chose someone as i expected better than me....But in any way i dont mean any harm too..Just that m feeling now is hard to ddesscribe as myself i dont know how i feeling.
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Dear Meera Jasmine,
Looks & education are only superficial qualities, & don't ensure a happy relationship. The guy you like probably looked past those shallow qualities & considered her character.
No matter how bad the fights, he may love her & she, him. Better than having someone who thinks too highly of herself regarding superficial qualities & displaying a shallow view on relationships.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Meera Jasmine:What should i do? The girl he chose was not even good looking as me , and lower educated. In a way i feel strange now as the matter did not full come to me as a blow because of these reason. Superiority complex perhaps?
Cant deccribe my feelings now. Have i lost him forever? anywae i do not know for sure they are getting married. But i do know dat they had many fights and problems in their r/s b4. -
She may be better than you
character-wise. You can't dictate others' choices based on YOUR criteria.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Meera Jasmine:I dont mean to be bad or wat... But i thought he would have chose someone as i expected better than me....But in any way i dont mean any harm too..Just that m feeling now is hard to ddesscribe as myself i dont know how i feeling. -
Meera Jasmine
why did you split up with him in the first place? -
you are really good!!!Originally posted by laosu:What you should do? So what she's less pretty than you or have lower education than you? Just a gentle reminder...you love him...but that doesn't mean he love you. If you do mention that you are prettier than her and higher education than her...then please be reminded again that there are more girls out there who are more pretty than you and have higher education than you, so which means that he should dump you for them if you are the one who happens to be with him.
At least from what I read...I think I know why he chose her and not you. I probably would have chose another plain looking girl with a great heart than to choose a pretty girl with no heart. Your first paragaph already disgust me. 
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love surpasses religion,status and wealth..Originally posted by Meera Jasmine:What should i do? The girl he chose was not even good looking as me , and lower educated. In a way i feel strange now as the matter did not full come to me as a blow because of these reason. Superiority complex perhaps?
Cant deccribe my feelings now. Have i lost him forever? anywae i do not know for sure they are getting married. But i do know dat they had many fights and problems in their r/s b4.
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take it easy. a few years down the road you might find that he is not the only man around.Originally posted by Meera Jasmine:I dont mean to be bad or wat... But i thought he would have chose someone as i expected better than me....But in any way i dont mean any harm too..Just that m feeling now is hard to ddesscribe as myself i dont know how i feeling. -
X 2. 'Better' things may not always be there physically for you to observe...Originally posted by FeowFeow:She may be better than you character-wise. You can't dictate others' choices based on YOUR criteria.
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You do not have to be good looking and well educated to know how to love a guy properly.Originally posted by Meera Jasmine:What should i do? The girl he chose was not even good looking as me , and lower educated. In a way i feel strange now as the matter did not full come to me as a blow because of these reason. Superiority complex perhaps?
Cant deccribe my feelings now. Have i lost him forever? anywae i do not know for sure they are getting married. But i do know dat they had many fights and problems in their r/s b4.
a girl can have all the looks and certs and still be a b!tch.
Just like a guy who can have everything and still be a jerk. got it?? 
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solutions ? 2 obvious one. Tell me which one u want n i give u the ultimate way of winning the man back
1) Be a bitch
2) be like Ghandi.
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U're gal rite? Then it should be no problem breaking them up...
Go up to them while they're together... rub ur boobs against him... say some slutty things... and Ta daa~ It'll break them up...
I wish I could do that too... -
Once he is married, it means you really have lost him...... you have to accept the truth ... his wife will be his priority.....Originally posted by Meera Jasmine:What should i do? The girl he chose was not even good looking as me , and lower educated. In a way i feel strange now as the matter did not full come to me as a blow because of these reason. Superiority complex perhaps?
Cant deccribe my feelings now. Have i lost him forever? anywae i do not know for sure they are getting married. But i do know dat they had many fights and problems in their r/s b4. -
Do u know that the person u marry might not be e one u love most?
It is common for a guy to want to go for someone who is more suitable for marriage....eg...know how to cook ,can look after e kids etc.... girl fren is girl fren...wife is wife...... u dun always go for the one who is the best looking or qualified in terms of qualifications.u go for the one u feel can be with u for life. -
I sense something about the poster. Hmm.
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be happy for them and show some grace...
you are dripping of jealousy and unhappiness
r/s has nothing to do with looks or smarts -
you higher educated n good looking so he must wipe backside for u ar?Originally posted by Meera Jasmine:What should i do? The girl he chose was not even good looking as me , and lower educated. In a way i feel strange now as the matter did not full come to me as a blow because of these reason. Superiority complex perhaps?
Cant deccribe my feelings now. Have i lost him forever? anywae i do not know for sure they are getting married. But i do know dat they had many fights and problems in their r/s b4.
btw problems are learning processes that makes a couple more stronger for your info -
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Wah sei. Bet she'll be hurt by you. But well say!Originally posted by laosu:What you should do? So what she's less pretty than you or have lower education than you? Just a gentle reminder...you love him...but that doesn't mean he love you. If you do mention that you are prettier than her and higher education than her...then please be reminded again that there are more girls out there who are more pretty than you and have higher education than you, so which means that he should dump you for them if you are the one who happens to be with him.
At least from what I read...I think I know why he chose her and not you. I probably would have chose another plain looking girl with a great heart than to choose a pretty girl with no heart. Your first paragaph already disgust me. -
ya lor. must pray to all the gods that he chose the other one. im happy for the couple woohoooOriginally posted by laosu:What you should do? So what she's less pretty than you or have lower education than you? Just a gentle reminder...you love him...but that doesn't mean he love you. If you do mention that you are prettier than her and higher education than her...then please be reminded again that there are more girls out there who are more pretty than you and have higher education than you, so which means that he should dump you for them if you are the one who happens to be with him.
At least from what I read...I think I know why he chose her and not you. I probably would have chose another plain looking girl with a great heart than to choose a pretty girl with no heart. Your first paragaph already disgust me. -
Originally posted by laosu:What you should do? So what she's less pretty than you or have lower education than you? Just a gentle reminder...you love him...but that doesn't mean he love you. If you do mention that you are prettier than her and higher education than her...then please be reminded again that there are more girls out there who are more pretty than you and have higher education than you, so which means that he should dump you for them if you are the one who happens to be with him.
At least from what I read...I think I know why he chose her and not you. I probably would have chose another plain looking girl with a great heart than to choose a pretty girl with no heart. Your first paragaph already disgust me. +1 -
zhen ke lian. wad to do.. forget him lor.
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SHE IS PREGNANT, and you're not.Originally posted by Meera Jasmine:What should i do? The girl he chose was not even good looking as me , and lower educated. In a way i feel strange now as the matter did not full come to me as a blow because of these reason. Superiority complex perhaps?
Cant deccribe my feelings now. Have i lost him forever? anywae i do not know for sure they are getting married. But i do know dat they had many fights and problems in their r/s b4.