How to ask someone out
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tok cock online.. den tok bout a particular movie.. den tok cock.. den ask if she intending to watch... and finally, shall we watch together?
if u cant even bypass the virtual world.. it's harder for u to ask thru voice. -
That's if u called earlier?Originally posted by stellazio:actually the closer to her bedtime the better..can wish goodnight,sweet dreams etc..
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nvm.. i've given my advice... my job is done. amen.Originally posted by stellazio:likewise can say u tired wana sleep..but don't say its her voice that make u sleepy la.. 
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I'd agree...for me, 8-9 larOriginally posted by starblue:erm... not my recommendation anyway. u can try like... 6-7. that way, if things get awkward, u can always excuse yourself for dinner. -
you know chatting till the wee hours of the morning is romantic?Originally posted by deathscythe99:I'd agree...for me, 8-9 lar
or rather more of a achievement..cause sometimes even when tired,if the other party is interesting you'll stay awake just to talk to him/her longer.. -
erm... like i said, it's not recommended for a first phone chat. dude, try to listen more carefully next time can?Originally posted by stellazio:you know chatting till the wee hours of the morning is romantic?
or rather more of a achievement..cause sometimes even when tired,if the other party is interesting you'll stay awake just to talk to him/her longer.. 
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i know i know..but seriously whats the difference between the first and the subsequent phone chats?i mean no doubt the first few mins will have awkward moments but after awhile its normal already right??or at least from my past experiences..Originally posted by starblue:erm... like i said, it's not recommended for a first phone chat. dude, try to listen more carefully next time can? -
sure or not?Originally posted by stellazio:i know i know..but seriously whats the difference between the first and the subsequent phone chats?i mean no doubt the first few mins will have awkward moments but after awhile its normal already right??or at least from my past experiences.. -
depends on how you take it..cause it all boils down to individuals..like starblue said some might not prefer late night talk..but some do..soo there's no fixed method for all..Originally posted by Hocklez:sure or not? -
it is biologically linked. all i am saying is there are optimum times for a first phone chat. but i never say its against the law to call late at night.Originally posted by stellazio:depends on how you take it..cause it all boils down to individuals..like starblue said some might not prefer late night talk..but some do..soo there's no fixed method for all.. -
Hmm... I don't hav problem making calls but... i think i'm a little toooooo serious sometimes maybe because of my ex-job and what i did is... i talked too long on the phone and its always the female side who asked to stop the conversation.... is that a failure?
Oh god.... sometimes i'll talk from the ground to the sky and from local to global geographical. Maybe i'm a too serious guy le... what to do? becoz i really dunno what to say wor.....
I don't realy like to go out alot de, usually surfing internets, watching movies(not in cinema) and gaming~ So... quite boring to gals i believe...
What do you think i shld do instead? -
okie,if its science den thats that..i never said u were wrong la..i was just listing out the pros of a late night chat..Originally posted by starblue:it is biologically linked. all i am saying is there are optimum times for a first phone chat. but i never say its against the law to call late at night. -
Nah....there's a difference deOriginally posted by stellazio:i know i know..but seriously whats the difference between the first and the subsequent phone chats?i mean no doubt the first few mins will have awkward moments but after awhile its normal already right??or at least from my past experiences.. -
ok nvm.. somehow talking to u drains me.Originally posted by stellazio:okie,if its science den thats that..i never said u were wrong la..i was just listing out the pros of a late night chat..
good luck dude, with that first phone call. -
aiyah how i know got scientific explanation behind it?i was never and never will be a science person..Originally posted by starblue:ok nvm.. somehow talking to u drains me.
good luck dude, with that first phone call.
i was just speaking from my own experience na.. -
Hmm, I just chatted on the phone with a girl from 12 to 5 the day before..
I think its personal preference bah.. -
first phone chat with her?Originally posted by Pitot:Hmm, I just chatted on the phone with a girl from 12 to 5 the day before..
I think its personal preference bah..
if answer is no, i wanna smack my forehead liao. -
like i said, there is a reason behind my suggestion, i just dun wanna elaborate nia... then people start doubting my advice.Originally posted by stellazio:aiyah how i know got scientific explanation behind it?i was never and never will be a science person..
i was just speaking from my own experience na.. 
ok nvm...
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Yes.Originally posted by starblue:first phone chat with her?
if answer is no, i wanna smack my forehead liao. -
haha my first phone call was actually full of pauses. but then we decided that when one person becomes lost for words, the other starts to say 'wei wei wei' haha ended up we were wei-ing throughout. but around an hour only my first chat.
haha just heck and call lah. more hesitation and you'll regret like me sigh. -
Find some activities which both of you might be able to do if works don't turn out too fine, so as to kill embrassment if such a need arises?Originally posted by Hocklez:ok i admit i am a introvert like she said but i really didn't have the courage to call her and sort. i am scare that i will not talk properly when i were to call and talk to her, it might be weird and the situation will be so embarassing... -
haha i also experiencing the same thing as you hocklez. haha. i asked for her permission to call that girl before...but she always said not now, not free. or she just no reply until she got home when i sms her. hocklez once you succed liao, let me know what you did hor...my situation exactly same as you. haha. except that i only saw this girl twice in school...and we are not having holidays now...haha
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huh? i am younger than u leh, i no experience in love one... u say me until i very pro like tt...Originally posted by bladez87:haha i also experiencing the same thing as you hocklez. haha. i asked for her permission to call that girl before...but she always said not now, not free. or she just no reply until she got home when i sms her. hocklez once you succed liao, let me know what you did hor...my situation exactly same as you. haha. except that i only saw this girl twice in school...and we are not having holidays now...haha
guys, i had decided to call her one of these days. well, lucky i din call her cuz she was really tired yesterday. and another good thing is that her birthday is coming yeah. still must pluck up my courage to call her if not everything is as still is before. -
Advice for you try not to think so much about first call or any calls.Originally posted by Hocklez:huh? i am younger than u leh, i no experience in love one... u say me until i very pro like tt...
guys, i had decided to call her one of these days. well, lucky i din call her cuz she was really tired yesterday. and another good thing is that her birthday is coming yeah. still must pluck up my courage to call her if not everything is as still is before.
A call is only a starting step in a relationship. What happens after is more important. -
first call best if make it around 8pm or 9pm...
subsequent call, up to u lor...