How to ask someone out
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that's the easy part, the hard part is asking her to be ur steadyOriginally posted by TwinTurbo_Supra:i just went out with a girl that i like and it was suprisingly not as difficult to talk face to face as i expected.
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im not thinking so far yet.Originally posted by enemychaser:that's the easy part, the hard part is asking her to be ur steady
i just want to keep going out with her and keep chatting with her, im satisfied with that at the moment. -
I always wanted to know this. Thanks!Originally posted by starblue:talk about her. here are some questions u can ask to prompt her to talk. that way, u wun have to.
1) do u have pets?? wad pets u like to have?
2) any plans for the hols?
3) i heard gals are (insert wadever u wanna kanow here), is it true?
4) did u watch HP4???
5) hey.. do u like lilies? (no matter wad she says, just say, oh, i thought you sound like a lilies sort of gal. then see where the conversation goes)
I'm always not so good at handling girls.
Also at times other people.
If I misunderstand people, I get blamed. If people misunderstand me, I get blamed even more.
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a smile of smooth sailing moment we spend together. even though the time is short, but the moment seems enternity...
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Can you recall the conversation on the phone you had with her?Originally posted by Hocklez:hmm let me carry on the story, i called and asked her out in the morning, i took up all of my courages just to make this call.
The few seconds of waiting for the phone to be picked up seems like i could hear noting except for the ringing of the dialing tone. she picked up. shocked and we were like err, ahh, yaa... in the end she is not prepared to meet me this afternoon....
to be continued until our next move...
Try writing it out so that the others can give you suggestions about what you can do or say the next time to control the flow of the conversation better.
The most important thing you must focus on besides making her talk, is to LISTEN and pick up cues to expand the conversation.
Concentrate on making her talk about her feelings in issues or about things she likes...
Eg.
WHY she likes or dislikes her present job instead of just asking what is her job.
WHY she likes a movie instead of just asking which movie she likes?
She could be a romantic, emotional and passionate person who likes sad love stories or she could be an easy going girl who will just watch what her friends want to watch.
Listen and pick up all these cues...you can use them later in the conversation. So always pay attention and LISTEN.
Her replies wlll be longer when she talks about her feelings.
And keep your conversations short. 20 mins is enough to leave an impression.
End the call before she does and stop initiating contact for the rest of the day (to gauge her interest and how well you did when you talked to her). If she gives you a call later in the day or send you a sms...you know you are on the right track.
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thanks guys, i had tried and guess what is next!!~~~
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I see you happy until your face turns green...got a date liao huh?Originally posted by Hocklez:thanks guys, i had tried and guess what is next!!~~~ -
should say the date is already past tenseOriginally posted by curiousOrange:I see you happy until your face turns green...got a date liao huh? -
whoa...took a glimpse of curious orange's post.... sounds like david angelo
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huh? am i breathing the same air on earth as u? catch no ball leh wahahaOriginally posted by Angel†:whoa...took a glimpse of curious orange's post.... sounds like david angelo -
Kj.
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Well jus rem, make e 1st date v v memorable. The first 2 dates with my ex were quite memorable. Well, first impression do really counts.