Do you feel as if you are not a good boyfriend/girlfriend?
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If you feel like this something muz be not rite... means u and ur parnter are nt communicating enough... ask yourself y u feel this way.. career? looks? or third party?Originally posted by rainee:As in like you dun think you deserve your partner?
You know he/she treats you better than you treat him/her, you want to love him/her more...but maybe due to time constraint or other reason, you couldn't give as much attention to him as he has been giving to you.
Anyone felt this way before?
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i've been told by one of my besties that i'll make a bad boyfriend but a good husband...still have no idea what she means by that...
maybe that's why i'm still single...
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Congras rainee your thinking shows that you love your bf a lot and is willing to put in the extra effort to fight for the relationship. You are one of the few of the rare kinds around. Most gals I have seen cannot even care about their bf or want to put an effort in their relationship at all.Originally posted by rainee:As in like you dun think you deserve your partner?
You know he/she treats you better than you treat him/her, you want to love him/her more...but maybe due to time constraint or other reason, you couldn't give as much attention to him as he has been giving to you.
Anyone felt this way before?
If your bf loves you, he will understand your hardship and love you even more for the effort you have put in. Just remember to give him a love sms or call once in a while when you are busy. It works for me. -
just argued with him last night because of this...Originally posted by zeny:Congras rainee your thinking shows that you love your bf a lot and is willing to put in the extra effort to fight for the relationship. You are one of the few of the rare kinds around. Most gals I have seen cannot even care about their bf or want to put an effort in their relationship at all.
If your bf loves you, he will understand your hardship and love you even more for the effort you have put in. Just remember to give him a love sms or call once in a while when you are busy. It works for me.
maybe cos I felt everything is starting to feel kinda routine?
or maybe cos I was really stressed out lately, cos of my work, coming exams and everything...
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Dear Rainee,
Sure, many people have these feelings, & if you're having them, you're Not alone. Even though my relationship is very much roses, I still get that feeling once in a bluuuuueeeeeee moon. It arises from an insecurity, that you can't make your partner as happy as he makes you. I guess there's always that nagging feeling of inadequacy now & then.
In my relationship though, I do let my darling know how I feel, & he's quick to reassure me that he's very happy with what he's got
We hafta realise that in relationships, what matters most is what our partners feel. If they're happy, then don't ruin a relationship by your own feelings of insecurity. Let your partner reassure you, & BELIEVE him.
After awhile, with positive reinforcement & views about yourself, you'll feel alot more confident.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by rainee:As in like you dun think you deserve your partner?
You know he/she treats you better than you treat him/her, you want to love him/her more...but maybe due to time constraint or other reason, you couldn't give as much attention to him as he has been giving to you.
Anyone felt this way before? -
pats pats at least when both of you argued you let out pat up feelings. My relationship is on the rocks becos i give in to my gf a lot for the past 2 years. We never quarrel and is always me who is the one who is pampering her. In the end, I got so fed up with her princess ways and let it all out at her. I give her and me 1 week to think it over.Originally posted by rainee:just argued with him last night because of this...
maybe cos I felt everything is starting to feel kinda routine?
or maybe cos I was really stressed out lately, cos of my work, coming exams and everything...
you are just too stress out lar. no worries girls tend to that all the time is normal lar..
sayang rainee..
Just give yourself sometime alone like go shopping alone or take a slow walk to relax your mind. -
Hmm...
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Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm...
something to say? -
Knowing that something is not right is a first step, perhaps its time to take some action?
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No
I am the queen. He should serve me
And feel honored to do so. LOL! -
HaaaOriginally posted by choco B:No
I am the queen. He should serve me
And feel honored to do so. LOL! 
I hope you're not serious.
Cheers -
Sometimes enough is never enough.
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elaborate?Originally posted by sweetevil:Sometimes enough is never enough. -
Humans are never contented people.Originally posted by sweetevil:Sometimes enough is never enough.
One way or another, they are hungry for more.
cheers -
When i had my first gf which was years ago, i had to think of new ideas each year to celebrate my gf birthday cos i want each n every year with her to be special. Lol spent sleepless nights thinking just before her birthday.
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Finally one different reply.Originally posted by choco B:No
I am the queen. He should serve me
And feel honored to do so. LOL!
Cheers -
If U r the queen then he is the king...Originally posted by choco B:No
I am the queen. He should serve me
And feel honored to do so. LOL! -
alwaysOriginally posted by rainee:As in like you dun think you deserve your partner?
You know he/she treats you better than you treat him/her, you want to love him/her more...but maybe due to time constraint or other reason, you couldn't give as much attention to him as he has been giving to you.
Anyone felt this way before?