Life after 3rd-party appears
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Sometimes you can make it HAPPEN TOOOriginally posted by unknown_member:sometimes when a guy do stuff, they don't know what the girl is feeling.
we are diff kind of species so girls dun understand guys and guys dun understand girls.
i always argue with my bf coz of attention as he dun really bother giving attention to small matters like saying romantic stuff once in a while.
we girls do need romance in life. not just spending time together but also once in a while try sweeping the girls off their feet. We would think you're very sweet. but in this case its the girl's fault not the guy's.
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Seriously is it justifiable to cheat even if you are unhappy in a relationship? If the girl is unhappy then she should just break up with him, not give him a false sense of love while cheating behind his back?
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noted.will act accdgly.i learnt sthg new..Originally posted by unknown_member:sometimes when a guy do stuff, they don't know what the girl is feeling.
we are diff kind of species so girls dun understand guys and guys dun understand girls.
i always argue with my bf coz of attention as he dun really bother giving attention to small matters like saying romantic stuff once in a while.
we girls do need romance in life. not just spending time together but also once in a while try sweeping the girls off their feet. We would think you're very sweet. but in this case its the girl's fault not the guy's. -
You take a look at my thread.Originally posted by megatron:noted.will act accdgly.i learnt sthg new..
Kudos to you for being smart to walk away from her. Dun be a stupid dick and spend all your money marry someone who cant keep the cu*t to herself. -
Hi,
Thank you guy/gal for all your comment. Some updateÂ…Â….
What happen to me now?
One week after our second break up. I still could not get over the whole thing; feel so cheated. She cheated me twice. Imagining being stab twice on the same wound. She never put in any effort to save our relationship. Really have no mood to work in office, 0% work done everyday while my colleagues have 150% more work to do. I feel so sorry for my colleague. I intended to resign from my job tomorrow, I donÂ’t think that I am suitable to work now and I donÂ’t want to colleagues to suffer with me together.
How about her?
She probably went back to that guy. Enjoying her life. She is just enjoying her life now but I know one day she will suffer in the future. Normally when gal change boyfriend, the new boyfriend should be better, however this is not the case for her. I feel that she is downgrading. He looks like an Ah Beng to me, (why gal always fall for ah beng?), no money (no saving at all), owe a lot credit bills (in debt), no career (customer support officer at age 27), no future, no character (visit prostitute). It never makes sense to me why she chooses him. He only know how to sweet talk only. Anyway hope she wonÂ’t regard her decision.
ItÂ’s over between us.
No trust means No love.
Time will healÂ…Â…Â…Â…Â… -
Maybe he is better endowed than u down there? that is one of the attraction point u know.
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YO bro take a long leave leh, resign for a sl-ut like her ?Originally posted by skiturn:Hi,
Thank you guy/gal for all your comment. Some updateÂ…Â….
What happen to me now?
One week after our second break up. I still could not get over the whole thing; feel so cheated. She cheated me twice. Imagining being stab twice on the same wound. She never put in any effort to save our relationship. Really have no mood to work in office, 0% work done everyday while my colleagues have 150% more work to do. I feel so sorry for my colleague. I intended to resign from my job tomorrow, I donÂ’t think that I am suitable to work now and I donÂ’t want to colleagues to suffer with me together.
How about her?
She probably went back to that guy. Enjoying her life. She is just enjoying her life now but I know one day she will suffer in the future. Normally when gal change boyfriend, the new boyfriend should be better, however this is not the case for her. I feel that she is downgrading. He looks like an Ah Beng to me, (why gal always fall for ah beng?), no money (no saving at all), owe a lot credit bills (in debt), no career (customer support officer at age 27), no future, no character (visit prostitute). It never makes sense to me why she chooses him. He only know how to sweet talk only. Anyway hope she wonÂ’t regard her decision.
ItÂ’s over between us.
No trust means No love.
Time will healÂ…Â…Â…Â…Â…
Come on is only one gal who sleeps around thats all so why should u care?
Yeah love love thats why it hurts. Take it as a lesson learn and move on. Come on you are a man liao no need for someone to hug u ba?
She is now your ex, wants to f around is her choice, no worries ah beng bf is useful for one thing and i am sure she will kena same thing from him. U had better not touch her again, this type of girls should suffer from the pains that follows from too much f-ing . haha watch with your own eyes how this ah beng will make her suffer and u better not be soft hearted cos always remember the pain she has cos you. Remember this insult and be sure to be there to witness her downfall.. He who laughs last laughs the best. -
Hmm.. Agree with Drx on the long leave thing... Really no point to just resign like that..? You can always do that after your long leave and you're still VERY UNHAPPY with things..?Originally posted by skiturn:Hi,
Thank you guy/gal for all your comment. Some updateÂ…Â….
What happen to me now?
One week after our second break up. I still could not get over the whole thing; feel so cheated. She cheated me twice. Imagining being stab twice on the same wound. She never put in any effort to save our relationship. Really have no mood to work in office, 0% work done everyday while my colleagues have 150% more work to do. I feel so sorry for my colleague. I intended to resign from my job tomorrow, I donÂ’t think that I am suitable to work now and I donÂ’t want to colleagues to suffer with me together.
How about her?
She probably went back to that guy. Enjoying her life. She is just enjoying her life now but I know one day she will suffer in the future. Normally when gal change boyfriend, the new boyfriend should be better, however this is not the case for her. I feel that she is downgrading. He looks like an Ah Beng to me, (why gal always fall for ah beng?), no money (no saving at all), owe a lot credit bills (in debt), no career (customer support officer at age 27), no future, no character (visit prostitute). It never makes sense to me why she chooses him. He only know how to sweet talk only. Anyway hope she wonÂ’t regard her decision.
ItÂ’s over between us.
No trust means No love.
Time will healÂ…Â…Â…Â…Â…
Hmm...
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But sometimes the thread just won't snap....?Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Seriously is it justifiable to cheat even if you are unhappy in a relationship? If the girl is unhappy then she should just break up with him, not give him a false sense of love while cheating behind his back? -
yeah thats why i said it's the girls fault in this situation......
neway you take care, do not quit coz of a girl coz i wont destroy my life if a guy broke up w me.
So be strong and a new girl would be there for you. -
What happen to me now?
I intended to resign from my job tomorrow, I donÂ’t think that I am suitable to work now and I donÂ’t want to colleagues to suffer with me together.
Where's the link? Is life really that good for you that you don't need to care about the consequences of your actions? Wouldn't you at least think for your parents, how disappointed & upset they'll be; how insensible?
How about her?
She probably went back to that guy. Enjoying her life. She is just enjoying her life now but I know one day she will suffer in the future.
If a girl is bad, it need not take 6 years to decide leaving you for another guy. Doubt that any party in your story will enjoy life; anyone of you would have a shadow casted behind you. Why is there the hope to see her suffer; it only reflects how much love you have for her.
Normally when gal change boyfriend, the new boyfriend should be better, however this is not the case for her. I feel that she is downgrading. He looks like an Ah Beng to me, (why gal always fall for ah beng?), no money (no saving at all), owe a lot credit bills (in debt), no career (customer support officer at age 27), no future, no character (visit prostitute). It never makes sense to me why she chooses him. He only know how to sweet talk only.
ThereÂ’re only two things that a girl can ask for from a guy; happiness & security. Guess youÂ’ve given only the latter. The girl may have left you but that doesnÂ’t mean sheÂ’ll be with the Ah Beng. She may be just trying to be truthful to you and herself, at this point of time that she no longer love you, thatÂ’s all; and thus no point of being together..
Anyway hope she wonÂ’t regard her decision.
If the Ah Beng turn out to be able to give her both happiness & security; give her your blessing.
If he doesnÂ’t, itÂ’s none of your business either; bÂ’cos in any case, you should set yourself and her free. -
I agree with you.
It's wrong to cheat. But humans, being humans, make mistakes. Who's to say that you & I 1 day won't do the same?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by DriftingGuy:Seriously is it justifiable to cheat even if you are unhappy in a relationship? If the girl is unhappy then she should just break up with him, not give him a false sense of love while cheating behind his back? -
Originally posted by FeowFeow:
Yeah you have a point there.
I agree with you.
It's wrong to cheat. But humans, being humans, make mistakes. Who's to say that you & I 1 day won't do the same?
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Bro,
Sorry to hear about what happened to you...
It isnt worth it to give up your job for a girl. I know you are trying to be responsible in not affecting your colleagues, but resigning wont take down their workload at all, a new colleague on the job needs time to learn, it wont reduce their 150% workload at all... give yourself a long break, 1 week or 2, go on a holiday, self travel or with some friends, just get yourself away from this island for a while, trust me, i've been through something similar like you, time will seem the longest and worst friend of yours now, seconds pass like days, extra loads of time and you dont know what to do with it, but no worries, its the healing process at work, i took 3 years to completely put everything down, so its only a matter of time... you have my best wishes and the only thing i hope from you is that you wont change your character and beliefs about relationships... stay the faithful way you've been always.
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1. Why quit your job?
This is a test for you. Remember we all go through problems to improve ourselves. Einstein found 100 ways how not to create the light bulb before he found that one way. He sticked to his dreams, let go of his despair and kept trying. Do the same. Take maybe a week's leave. Go some exercise, pamper yourself with some cool gadgets.
2. Post breakup period.
Get a piece of paper and a pencil. those normal ones. draw whatever you can think off. F*** her, F*** you, whatever. Let it all out. She cheated on you, and you would know better than feel sad because of her.
One last quote for you: No one can make you inferior without your consent. -
he is a customer support officer and if u quit = u are unemployed.
dun be foolish~~
just take a long break and find some friends to go out, tok cork sing song... open a new chapter in life after that !!
i felt very dui for you.... -
skiturn,
Im currently in a relationship of 4 years. Recently, i got to know this lady. We had opportunities to work together for a number of project and in one way or another, i kinda feel myself falling for her (to a certain extent, i guess).
Frankly, im trying really hard to stay focus on my current relationship and be professional while i work. But its really difficult.
If your relationship really ends for whatever reasons, pls remember the good times. DUn blame her (too much).
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Erm, I don't think you should take it too literally lah
Would you wanna have a partner who doesn't even pay you attention, doesn't make you feel wanted, simply heck cares your feelings, makes you feel small, insignificant, INVISIBLE?
No, right?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by megatron:HI. wow..im learning stuff here..so girls actualli dig attention & stuff & TLC..n all these shud be increased in view of "competiiion?"..
Cheers babe.
SKiturn..hang inthere bro...time heals..I know. -
Erm, Zogel...
Whilst I said that humans, being humans, make mistakes, & therefore, shouldn't be judged to the extreme, you falling for another woman is still a No-No, ok?
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Zogel:skiturn,
Im currently in a relationship of 4 years. Recently, i got to know this lady. We had opportunities to work together for a number of project and in one way or another, i kinda feel myself falling for her (to a certain extent, i guess).
Frankly, im trying really hard to stay focus on my current relationship and be professional while i work. But its really difficult.
If your relationship really ends for whatever reasons, pls remember the good times. DUn blame her (too much). -
yayay..i know... Everyday is a torture..Originally posted by FeowFeow:Erm, Zogel...
Whilst I said that humans, being humans, make mistakes, & therefore, shouldn't be judged to the extreme, you falling for another woman is still a No-No, ok?
FeowFeow
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FF, i dun know man..but I can tell u..it hurts..!! e pain & complexity tat is L.O.V.EOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Erm, I don't think you should take it too literally lah
Would you wanna have a partner who doesn't even pay you attention, doesn't make you feel wanted, simply heck cares your feelings, makes you feel small, insignificant, INVISIBLE?
No, right?
FeowFeow
Anyway..Merry Christmas to one n all..u r not lonely lar...God luvs u all! -
same situation as me man but this time u fought with him over it. But i gave in. I believe that if it happens then it might happen again. SO take care over her and have total control ove rher.
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Originally posted by FBI:same situation as me man but this time u fought with him over it. But i gave in. I believe that if it happens then it might happen again. SO take care over her and have total control ove rher.
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i hamji one. got competition, i back out first.
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lol.. that was funny. SO u allow others to reap the fruits u planted?