Life after 3rd-party appears

• M©+square

  6 Dec 05, 13:45

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  I need $... Can PM YOU..??

  I also in need....let's go look for Yunnie.
  
  Cheers
• babyreyes

  6 Dec 05, 15:32

  oh my....
  
  are u feeling better?
• zeny

  6 Dec 05, 17:47

  Originally posted by skiturn:

  just have a querrel with her. No mood to write. sorry forum.

  a few words of advice.
  
  Time to go. No point protecting her name becos sooner or later your friends will know what she has done and you will be laugh at behind your back by others who do not know you well.
  
  As a friend in the forums, I do not wish for you to be laugh at. Trust me it will be worst if you drag it.
  
  I am only advicing you, is up to you to chose the steps you want to lead in life. But be warn is not going to be a pleasent one but with understanding and courage, you will grow up from this relationship.
• Devil1976

  7 Dec 05, 00:45

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  I also in need....let's go look for Yunnie.
  
  Cheers

  Let's put in some good words for her.. "
  
  $ $ $ $
• Yunhaier

  7 Dec 05, 19:18

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  I also in need....let's go look for Yunnie.
  
  Cheers

  Bo lui lar!
  
  Cheers
• M©+square

  7 Dec 05, 19:20

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Bo lui lar!
  
  Cheers

  You boh lui....but you got cash cheque mah.
  
  Bu yao zhe yang la.
  
  Cheers
• gur

  7 Dec 05, 21:32

  I hate to tell you this.
  
  She deliberately let him into her life...pussy whatever.
  
  When there is once...there is gonna to be twice...thrice!
  
  Why?
  
  Coz she knows that she can get away with it.
  
  You dun belive me?
  
  This bitch teacher actaully farked 4 different men behind her bf.
  
  What did he do each time?
  
  He forgive her time & time again.
  
  But she still screwed around and finally left my fren to marry off the bastard barely 3 mths afther the breakup.
  
  You should learn from his mistake!
  
  

  Originally posted by zeny:

  a few words of advice.
  
  Time to go. No point protecting her name becos sooner or later your friends will know what she has done and you will be laugh at behind your back by others who do not know you well.
  
  As a friend in the forums, I do not wish for you to be laugh at. Trust me it will be worst if you drag it.
  
  I am only advicing you, is up to you to chose the steps you want to lead in life. But be warn is not going to be a pleasent one but with understanding and courage, you will grow up from this relationship.

• skiturn

  8 Dec 05, 00:40

  I LOST. I caught her cheating me again. We BREAK UP LIAO.
• skiturn

  8 Dec 05, 02:04

  Since It's over, i need to get over the whole thing. Anyone have any idea what should i do during this post breakup period. I am feel very sad, cheated and lost sleep. Anybody care to share your experience?
• Devil1976

  8 Dec 05, 12:00

  Originally posted by skiturn:

  I LOST. I caught her cheating me again. We BREAK UP LIAO.

  Originally posted by skiturn:

  Since It's over, i need to get over the whole thing. Anyone have any idea what should i do during this post breakup period. I am feel very sad, cheated and lost sleep. Anybody care to share your experience?

  Personally.. I don't think you've 'lost'...
  
  You should be HAPPY that THINGS ARE OVER..
  
  And now you're FREE to do what you're HAPPY WITH and DESIRES...
• zheshi

  8 Dec 05, 15:39

  Ditch her. it will do u good.. man.. i feel so pissed
• babyreyes

  8 Dec 05, 18:59

  Originally posted by skiturn:

  Since It's over, i need to get over the whole thing. Anyone have any idea what should i do during this post breakup period. I am feel very sad, cheated and lost sleep. Anybody care to share your experience?

  Hi skiturn. hang in there. If u wanna cry..pls cry. dont bottle things up. Dump her mentally.
  
  i know the feeling of betrayal. The one whom u felt most close and hte one whom u trusted ur life with is actually the one who hurt u most. My ex played my heart out too.
  
  Maybe gather some of ur frens. have a chat. watch some movies. sign up for holidays. ggo sing ktv. go chalet. sign up for courses.
  
  dont end ur life.
• Saint`

  8 Dec 05, 23:50

  oh my .. sry to hear tat bro .. she cheated u with the same colleague again ??or some other guy .. which ever is it .. i think at least u got to see her true colours b4 marriage
• FeowFeow

  9 Dec 05, 15:49

  Dear Gur,
  
  There're many reasons why a girl cheats. In some circumstances (Not necessarily this 1 involving Skiturn), both parties may be equally at fault. We shouldn't generalise here : )
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by gur:
  I hate to tell you this.
  
  She [b]deliberately let him into her life...pussy whatever.
  
  When there is once...there is gonna to be twice...thrice!
  
  Why?
  
  Coz she knows that she can get away with it.
  
  You dun belive me?
  
  This bitch teacher actaully farked 4 different men behind her bf.
  
  What did he do each time?
  
  He forgive her time & time again.
  
  But she still screwed around and finally left my fren to marry off the bastard barely 3 mths afther the breakup.
  
  You should learn from his mistake!
  
  [/b]

• FeowFeow

  9 Dec 05, 15:52

  Well, when I was very upset over a breakup previously, I'd blast the music very loud & sing into my hairbrush. I went for a haircut, updated my wardrobe (AND purposely included dressy things that my ex wouldn't let me wear because he was the sloppy type) & hung out with my friends.
  
  Sure, it was lonely for awhile, but I preferred it that way than to quickly enter a rebound relationship. My friends helped pull me back up. And now? I'm happily fulfilled & more in love than ever with my darling
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by skiturn:

  Since It's over, i need to get over the whole thing. Anyone have any idea what should i do during this post breakup period. I am feel very sad, cheated and lost sleep. Anybody care to share your experience?

• ^mR.yellow^86

  9 Dec 05, 18:11

  shut up. dunamis. all your advises are not reliable, not credible and are only based on your personal point of view.
• Starfish07

  9 Dec 05, 19:36

  I feel like crying when I read your story...
  
  It make me recall of my break-up ...
  
  (Sob) (Sob) (Sob) (- _ -)
• weijie1985

  9 Dec 05, 21:46

  dude.. u are lucky... my gf got snatched away man..
  
  but however.. lookin at ur case.. i think u shd let go liao...
  
  can hold the person.. but not the heart..?
• subarugal

  9 Dec 05, 22:04

  Originally posted by Starfish07:

  I feel like crying when I read your story...
  
  It make me recall of my break-up ...
  
  (Sob) (Sob) (Sob) (- _ -)

  me too..
  we sob together..
  
  my thoughts is even end up she choosen you so what.
  likelyhood will ended up break up, coz one will fill bad n guilty abt the whole etc..
  The other will feel insecure. so ....
• unknown_member

  12 Dec 05, 10:10

  hi,
  
  i'm a girl and i understand what your going through..
  
  i have a relationship 4 3 yrs already and i agree to a certain extent that a girl would cheat if you dun give her attention or stuff..
  
  But in this case, its all the party's fault.
  
  if that guy did not intend to woo her, she would not have cheated on you.
  
  if you had actually called her or see her more than that guy, there should be no problem in her falling in love with that guy. ( i know you're busy but hell, it cost you your relationship)
  
  if you had confronted the guy, i think it should have resolved the problem earlier.
  
  but all of this depends on your gf as she knows she's committed to you and could have just pretended that the guy was not there or something..
  
  hmm... this is just my suggestion..
  
  hope you get through this k...
  
  good luck..
• The_Legend_Killer

  12 Dec 05, 23:24

  Hi,
  
  I understand how u feel. I got cheated twice by my ex-gf. Mind u. Its 2 different guys.
  
  Same scenario, the first time she came up wif lies after lies until I found out the truth.
  
  Just when I thought history will not repeat itself, things happen again. What is wrong wif some of these gals.
  
  Neglect?
  
  Lost of feelings?
  
  Its better to ask the gals. However,it actually varies from person to person.
  
  Sometimes, its a blessing in desguise.
  
  There are always better gals out there.
  
  Once trust is broken, its very difficult to fix it back. Why make yourself worry all the time? Learn to let go. I noe its painful. But it will be short term.
• Devil1976

  13 Dec 05, 13:41

  Originally posted by unknown_member:

  hi,
  
  i'm a girl and i understand what your going through..
  
  i have a relationship 4 3 yrs already and i agree to a certain extent that a girl would cheat if you dun give her attention or stuff..
  
  But in this case, its all the party's fault.
  
  if that guy did not intend to woo her, she would not have cheated on you.
  
  if you had actually called her or see her more than that guy, there should be no problem in her falling in love with that guy. ( i know you're busy but hell, it cost you your relationship)
  
  if you had confronted the guy, i think it should have resolved the problem earlier.
  
  but all of this depends on your gf as she knows she's committed to you and could have just pretended that the guy was not there or something..
  
  hmm... this is just my suggestion..
  
  hope you get through this k...
  
  good luck..

  People are always out there and gf has always BEEN beside you... Have you not yet notice her presence
• coolbluewater

  13 Dec 05, 14:01

  Originally posted by skiturn:

  Since It's over, i need to get over the whole thing. Anyone have any idea what should i do during this post breakup period. I am feel very sad, cheated and lost sleep. Anybody care to share your experience?

  Personally none. But my sis has a really bad experience. Her boyfriend of 7 years cheated on her, with her best friend cum niece (her mom was my cousin)of the same age. My sis was devastated, and her friends stood by her all these while. My parents were involved because of the relative issue. Me? Stuck in between because I'm very close to her brother.
  
  How she got over it? Her friends accompanied her, as long as she needs, even overnight, to cry their feelings out. It took her months to pick herself up and now, she's with this new bf whom she met in UK.
  
  It's better for you to find out early, at lease now you know both of you are not meant to be together. Confide in your friends, and crying is not shameful for a guy. It's a release of feeling and emotional stress, and you needs it. Dun bottle up. You may also want to find your support from religion and hobbies. Do something you enjoy, pamper yourself for a while, maybe involve in community services. Just some suggestions, at least it helped me go through my breaking up aftermath the last time.
  
  Take care.
• megatron

  14 Dec 05, 00:22

  HI. wow..im learning stuff here..so girls actualli dig attention & stuff & TLC..n all these shud be increased in view of "competiiion?"..
  Cheers babe.
  
  SKiturn..hang inthere bro...time heals..I know.
  
  

  Originally posted by unknown_member:

  hi,
  
  i'm a girl and i understand what your going through..
  
  i have a relationship 4 3 yrs already and i agree to a certain extent that a girl would cheat if you dun give her attention or stuff..
  
  But in this case, its all the party's fault.
  
  if that guy did not intend to woo her, she would not have cheated on you.
  
  if you had actually called her or see her more than that guy, there should be no problem in her falling in love with that guy. ( i know you're busy but hell, it cost you your relationship)
  
  if you had confronted the guy, i think it should have resolved the problem earlier.
  
  but all of this depends on your gf as she knows she's committed to you and could have just pretended that the guy was not there or something..
  
  hmm... this is just my suggestion..
  
  hope you get through this k...
  
  good luck..

• unknown_member

  14 Dec 05, 09:41

  sometimes when a guy do stuff, they don't know what the girl is feeling.
  
  we are diff kind of species so girls dun understand guys and guys dun understand girls.
  
  i always argue with my bf coz of attention as he dun really bother giving attention to small matters like saying romantic stuff once in a while.
  
  we girls do need romance in life. not just spending time together but also once in a while try sweeping the girls off their feet. We would think you're very sweet. but in this case its the girl's fault not the guy's.