Sad Story by Starfish07
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Recently I broke up with my boyfriend. I dun wish to break with him but he left me with no choice.
Things are smooth when we started to become steadies. Both sides of our parents had seen both of us and they quite like us.Everything is very happy for us until one day his friend ask hime to join him in the trading company and my boyfriend is super light ear and he joined this trading company in Singapore and most of the time he spend with his friends and training in the company.
Things started to change and I quarrelled with him a lot that he dun have time to spend with me. It slowly drain us away and until one fine day, he request to break off with me.. Until then I realised that I should be more understanding towards him and try to be more considerate. So I promised him that I will change to suit him.Just for him.. He agreed to patch back with me and I am so happy and I changed ever since that break up.. Of cos things will be different so as feelings as the tear is there but I am trying all my energy to save this relationship.
But in the end I end this relationship with him as loving a guy that is totally empty inside and no longer the same anymore..
Not that I dun understand him at all.
After our patck back, I am trying all means to save this relationship by understanding him and be considerate when he is busy with his work and studies. He is studying in one of the Poly in Singapore and also doing his part time business with his friends in a trading company..
When he have no time I do everything on my own.Like go shopping on my own, go out by myself and etc..
His parents like me a lot and his dad had treated me like his daughter-in-law and he ever say to me that I am the most presentable girlfriend that he bought home after bringing 2 past girlfriends. I am more respect to elders and treasure family values.I often have dinner at his house and I am not that type that sit and watch tv after finished eating dinner I still wash every plates for them even though is not my plates and as well as the basin as well..
Am I not good enough?
How to find good guys out there? Is all the good guys are been attached, married, dead or still finding the other partner??
Sad Starfish on a break-up that she doesn't wish to break..... -
Have you tried ???Originally posted by Starfish07:Recently I broke up with my boyfriend. I dun wish to break with him but he left me with no choice.
Things are smooth when we started to become steadies. Both sides of our parents had seen both of us and they quite like us.Everything is very happy for us until one day his friend ask hime to join him in the trading company and my boyfriend is super light ear and he joined this trading company in Singapore and most of the time he spend with his friends and training in the company. Things started to change and I quarrelled with him a lot that he dun have time to spend with me. It slowly drain us away and until one fine day, he request to break off with me.. Until then I realised that I should be more understanding towards him and try to be more considerate. So I promised him that I will change to suit him.Just for him.. He agreed to patch back with me and I am so happy and I changed ever since that break up.. Of cos things will be different so as feelings as the tear is there but I am trying all my energy to save this relationship.
But in the end I end this relationship with him as loving a guy that is totally empty inside and no longer the same anymore.. How to find good guys out there? Is all the good guys are been attached, married, dead or still finding the other partner?? -
Tried. Hard to find..
Frankly speaking I can't forget him.. I am faithful in relationship but yet.....Sigh -
I think you're in a confused situation.Originally posted by Starfish07:Tried. Hard to find..
Frankly speaking I can't forget him.. I am faithful in relationship but yet.....Sigh
Why not take time off from thinking of relationships and men. Enjoy yourself.
I see contridiction here. Shan't comment too much yet. -
I dun know is there any good guys out there ... If have let me know??
hehe.. I am feeling fine but I will still cry over the break up by listening to the sad songs that is played in my computer... -
alamak....i think i'll let the mushy gang give you therapy. You'll be fine in no time.Originally posted by Starfish07:I dun know is there any good guys out there ... If have let me know??
hehe.. I am feeling fine but I will still cry over the break up by listening to the sad songs that is played in my computer...
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YOu looking for me, bro?Originally posted by M©+square:alamak....i think i'll let the mushy gang give you therapy. You'll be fine in no time. 
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looking for your gang.Originally posted by Mao x 2:YOu looking for me, bro? -
How can we help wor??Originally posted by M©+square:looking for your gang. 
Calling for all Mushy Gang Members........ please fall in now..
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You will find your good guy soon.Originally posted by Starfish07:I dun know is there any good guys out there ... If have let me know??
hehe.. I am feeling fine but I will still cry over the break up by listening to the sad songs that is played in my computer...
But in the meantime, don't think about getting a new guy soon la.
Sometimes, it's a bliss to be single.
Try listening to happy songs instead.
And join us in our Mushy Gang Thread daily and you will be fine soon. -
Im still nursing my heartbreak after 9 mths..or am i? haha..
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i know that feeling...Originally posted by universe:Im still nursing my heartbreak after 9 mths..or am i? haha..
i'm confirmed over mine now... -
give urself time off..... my ex went off wif another guy...worse still rite.. haha.. are there no good girls ard? =x lol jk ... dun think too much la keep urself occupied...Originally posted by Starfish07:Recently I broke up with my boyfriend. I dun wish to break with him but he left me with no choice.
Things are smooth when we started to become steadies. Both sides of our parents had seen both of us and they quite like us.Everything is very happy for us until one day his friend ask hime to join him in the trading company and my boyfriend is super light ear and he joined this trading company in Singapore and most of the time he spend with his friends and training in the company. Things started to change and I quarrelled with him a lot that he dun have time to spend with me. It slowly drain us away and until one fine day, he request to break off with me.. Until then I realised that I should be more understanding towards him and try to be more considerate. So I promised him that I will change to suit him.Just for him.. He agreed to patch back with me and I am so happy and I changed ever since that break up.. Of cos things will be different so as feelings as the tear is there but I am trying all my energy to save this relationship.
But in the end I end this relationship with him as loving a guy that is totally empty inside and no longer the same anymore.. How to find good guys out there? Is all the good guys are been attached, married, dead or still finding the other partner?? -
he needs 2 work & u jus have 2 b more understanding. no $ how 2 have a relationship? b more practical. unless he is actually cheating on u when he says he is working.
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there is no such thing as good or bad guy in a relationship.
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Thought most girls prefer guys that are "bad"???Originally posted by Starfish07:Recently I broke up with my boyfriend. I dun wish to break with him but he left me with no choice.
Things are smooth when we started to become steadies. Both sides of our parents had seen both of us and they quite like us.Everything is very happy for us until one day his friend ask hime to join him in the trading company and my boyfriend is super light ear and he joined this trading company in Singapore and most of the time he spend with his friends and training in the company. Things started to change and I quarrelled with him a lot that he dun have time to spend with me. It slowly drain us away and until one fine day, he request to break off with me.. Until then I realised that I should be more understanding towards him and try to be more considerate. So I promised him that I will change to suit him.Just for him.. He agreed to patch back with me and I am so happy and I changed ever since that break up.. Of cos things will be different so as feelings as the tear is there but I am trying all my energy to save this relationship.
But in the end I end this relationship with him as loving a guy that is totally empty inside and no longer the same anymore.. How to find good guys out there? Is all the good guys are been attached, married, dead or still finding the other partner??
Good guys? U looking for good guys while the girls whom i like before rejected me becoz they said i'm too good for them??? -
Originally posted by M©+square:I think you're in a confused situation.
Why not take time off from thinking of relationships and men. Enjoy yourself.
I see contridiction here. Shan't comment too much yet.
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Originally posted by M©+square:alamak....i think i'll let the mushy gang give you therapy. You'll be fine in no time.
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I don't know and i don't care...Originally posted by Starfish07:Recently I broke up with my boyfriend. I dun wish to break with him but he left me with no choice.
Things are smooth when we started to become steadies. Both sides of our parents had seen both of us and they quite like us.Everything is very happy for us until one day his friend ask hime to join him in the trading company and my boyfriend is super light ear and he joined this trading company in Singapore and most of the time he spend with his friends and training in the company. Things started to change and I quarrelled with him a lot that he dun have time to spend with me. It slowly drain us away and until one fine day, he request to break off with me.. Until then I realised that I should be more understanding towards him and try to be more considerate. So I promised him that I will change to suit him.Just for him.. He agreed to patch back with me and I am so happy and I changed ever since that break up.. Of cos things will be different so as feelings as the tear is there but I am trying all my energy to save this relationship.
But in the end I end this relationship with him as loving a guy that is totally empty inside and no longer the same anymore.. How to find good guys out there? Is all the good guys are been attached, married, dead or still finding the other partner?? -
hey,let me losoh you a bit here there is a few things you got to know 1st is that is your part of your growing up isnt it,me too have very good relationship once but people will grow up cause the need is different,so Captain assume that you are quite young too.
2nd defintion of love? How do we define it? You will not understand until you have seen much of it,me and my wife is the same,i thought my heart was dead after a few sad relationship,i have loved and been in love not easy for one guy to love,i do have happy moments very happy one but still all good things ends until i know my wife she let me see my life in a different angle,i understand love in a different level liao,i thanks her and god.
Hope you can recover soon,cheese
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actualli not all the good guys are attached.. u just need time to find.
ern.. don put too much exception 4 ur dreamboy. fate might come to u soon or later. just wait patiently ba.. -
Many still available out there, just that they are too involved to be tied down by a relationship. I also ended mine 2 years back for fear of committment.Originally posted by Starfish07:Tried. Hard to find..
Frankly speaking I can't forget him.. I am faithful in relationship but yet.....Sigh
Good points of being single - No need to explain any actions or where your off to. More energy to do things you have always dreamed of doing. No more arguing, quarelling, stressing myself how to make GF happy. Remembering when to buy gifts, presents, flowers......etc
Bad points of being single: Sometimes you just feel EMPTY or LONELY
Then you can only reminisce of the past (eliminate the ugly scenes of coz). Fearing you'll be single for the rest of your life
Ask urself what you actually want, once in a relationship, its 2 words, commitment & understanding.
So in your case, GUY lacks commitment, while GIRL lacks understanding. -
actually good guys are not hard to find...
but the problem is, girls usually dont find good guys attractive enough for them...
so even when they came across one, they also never notice them. so they say good guys are hard to find. -
freaking breakups are the worst feelings in the whole world man, i hate breakups. screw them.
if hearing sad songs make u cry den dun hear, cos wen u hear, u wallow in self pity and think abt the happy times u had with him, if u wanna hear songs go listen to bon jovi "u give love a bad name"!!! yeah
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agreed. there are many good guys out there. i got many frens who i think will be very good to their future gf, which means they are single now...Originally posted by digicharat:actually good guys are not hard to find...
but the problem is, girls usually dont find good guys attractive enough for them...
so even when they came across one, they also never notice them. so they say good guys are hard to find.
but why they dun have gf?? i dun think they all ugly, though not exceptionally handsome. at least decent, those guai guai one. the thing is, i think such type not very appealing to gers.
still, some guys can be shy also. when gers too friendly to them they feel uneasy. then the gers think they not interested in them