How do i let go

• trajet

  13 Dec 05, 15:38

  Originally posted by aknoo123:

  i have recently broke up with my gf of 1 1/2 yrs, and we got off to realli bad terms, now i juz wanted to let go but every time i look back, i am filled with pain n regrets of the relationship unable to work out. i loved her lots but she left me for a new guy.i tried everything giving her wad ever she wanted, even having to put up with her being unreasonable and demanding. i know i had to let go, but i juz cant n i dunno how.. can u guys help?

  Hmm.. must be v sad and frustating for u... anyway, what had happened already happened.. and u cant change her... the only thing u can change is yourself. maybe beside all the sadness u can still think positively... like u should glad that u havent been longer with her yet. Imagine if you have already engaged or even married to her... Then all of sudden... She's leaving u for another guy. Remember guys, even from ten cruel girls that have cheated a guy, there must be one or two that teach him a lot of life lessons and make him smarter than others... Cheers and carry on with ur life man...
• Queztarr

  13 Dec 05, 22:00

  Time really do heals a broken heart. Trust me. I've been through it.
  
  U may still keep her photos if u want, and it will be unavoidable that u will think of her once in a while. Afterall, the both of u had good wonderful memories together before.
  
  Get involve in activities, get busy with work/studies, etc. I know it is hard to being single again. But do remember that u were single once before the relationship and u had got on fine. So u can make it through this period.
  
  However do take time to search ur own feelings. Since ur ex had left u for another guy, if there is an instance whereby she comes looking for u to patch up, would u take her back? Or would u take a stand and just be normal frenz? Keep in mind that if she can 'run off' with another guy, she might do it again.
  
  The answer lies with u afterall. So search ur heart and avoid her for the time being (if she still contacts u). Let ur feelings settle down first because u would be in a very confused state now and u wouldn't want to jump into some silly relationship right now.
• Ecxentrique

  13 Dec 05, 22:24

  cliche as it will sound.. but time will hopefully erode the memory and think of it that you are one step closer to the one that you are truly meant to be with..