Love vs Marriage
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ultimately of course, I've been saying for awhile now, that, Modern marriage is a sham.
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Do u remember the vow u made when you marry her?Originally posted by HougangBoy:I am married and i fall in love with a married woman. Dont want to go into the detail. But in this situation, am i selfish to give up my marriage just to be together with my love? Or rather is it better off if she and i go back to our respective legal partner?
shouldn't u be committed and faithful to her your whole life? -
Why not ask your current wife on this and see what she will do if she was in your shoe. I think that is the best for now. Anyway, i think u suck.
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In the first place you treated marriage as nothing? A game? Look like you have got to face the consequences yourself instead of asking for help from us
You got to learn the true meanings of marriage vows you took and keep to them throughout the rest of your life. You are being selfish! If you are uncertain about your feelings initially you shouldn't have propose to the girl who is your current wife. I really hope you can really think over it and realise who matters most to you, the one who is always besides you and supporting you all along. Learn to cherish her and the hold on to the love share between you and her last but not least all the best to yr marriage life -
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Generalisation & stereotype.
Despite your human-bashing antics, aren't you doing the same kinda thing you're so angry at others about?
No offence intended. Just wondering whether the thought entered your mind when you're making such comments.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by HENG@:ultimately of course, I've been saying for awhile now, that, Modern marriage is a sham. -
haizzz.....what is love seriously?? didn't u love your wife at the earlier stage?? can't find the love now?? must hv drop into the toilet bowl!!
many good advises given...then again...when the love 'dies' or should it be when new excitement found....there are hundred and one excuse to find to get out of the old stale r/s.....
well do seriously give the whole thing a thot and like one say, u also have to see if the 'third party' is willing to face the society with you....(haizzz, y u want to marry your wife in the first place....hai si lang!!)
cut the pain short for your wife...don't drag the issue......better spare her the agony lah.....u go do wat u want with that love of yours...
i hope both family no kids yet....
hope your wife can be strong and start new life....hope someone better comes along and may she have better life than you!!
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There is no right or wrong in a relationship. You know the answer on who d you want to be with for the rest of your life. No point being harsh on yourself as that will jeopardise your decision making process. If you clearly do not love your wife, there's no point of the two of you stay together. I would really suggest that you and your wife to see a relationship counsellor, if you really want to work on your relationship with your wife.Originally posted by HougangBoy:I have hear most of the comment that most of you mention.
Comment such as...
1) Im a selfish person
2) Im too emotional...i should be rational
3) I should go back to my wife
4) I dont know that gal well
All these comments are all direct to choosing my wife.
Very minor, would tell me to choose the one who i really like now. Hence i very confuse as to the importance of love over responsibility.
In the context of love, nobody could be accused of being too selfish, only irrational. Only face it truthfully, then you will know which path you ought to take.