In Love With A Prositute
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I think I am falling in love with a prositute. She is a Thai and she resembles my ex-gf.
Somehow, I dun go there for sex but I just went there to see her.
I spend the time talking to her.
Help me.
I am confuse. -
You can fall in love with her but if you're thinking of long term relartionship with her. Got to have blood test in case she may be a HIV positive. Help her get out of this industry and get a proper job for her.
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Please wake up!!!
Tat girl is not ur ex. I think u must have been disillusioned. sigh. She is not ur ex. Please open ur eyes to see.
dont treat tat girl as a substitute. Its not right to do so... -
I think she maybe using some kind of blackmagic to control your mind. Be careful. God bless.
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dun take her as substitute.......
and oso, are u thinking long-term or short-term? -
Killer,Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I think I am falling in love with a prositute. She is a Thai and she resembles my ex-gf.
Somehow, I dun go there for sex but I just went there to see her.
I spend the time talking to her.
Help me.
I am confuse.
A relationship with a Tirak is dangerous. You are putting yourself into a screwed up situation here.
Sarge with your d!ck. Not your heart! Pay the money, get what you want and you bail straight away. DonÂ’t even look back. Keep the deal professional.
IÂ’m not saying all of these girls are bad. But you have to consider why they are in the industry in the first place!
You will take up a lot of her burdens when you want a relationship with her. Girls in the industry usually have some family issues or drug problems, drinking problems and some are just gold diggers.
I know you will tell me how she is not like that because you talked to herÂ…
Ask yourself all these questions KillerÂ…
Have you actually found out anything else about her except what she has been telling you? Now, IÂ’m not trying to treat you like a 3 year old kid who takes everything at face value. But a lot of these girls donÂ’t know much in life but one thing they are good at, is saying what men like to hear. ItÂ’s their job and they excel in it.
Have you seen her family yet?
How do you know you can adapt to her world?
Why do you have to burden yourself with her problems? You love her because she looks like your ex?? Emotional people like you should not be hanging around the commercial sex scene.
If you do get her…will you hate her for past? Easy for you to say “no” now…you have to think long term. Will you be able to forget her past?
The Government does not allow a tirak to marry a Singaporean and stay here. You will have to leave this place for good with herÂ…can you cope with that?
Seriously, think about it. -
Originally posted by Manager433:I think she maybe using some kind of blackmagic to control your mind. Be careful. God bless.
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u dun have to be confuse. the answer is just right in front of u.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I think I am falling in love with a prositute. She is a Thai and she resembles my ex-gf.
Somehow, I dun go there for sex but I just went there to see her.
I spend the time talking to her.
Help me.
I am confuse.
u r taking ur ex as ur substitute! give urself some time to calm down from all these. i believe u r in a period of getting over ur ex... so try to avoid all these distractions and illusions from drawing you deeper into something which will hurt u further.
i suggest u stop going to all these places. i'm not against prostitutes but i think that going to night clubs is not going to solve ur problem. u need a healthy activity and a proper lifestyle.
start building urself up in ur own character and confidence. life has to go on. all u need to do is just to continue breathing. dun give up! there're better opportunities waiting for u in future.
but before going into any future relationships, u'd need to first deal with ur hurts FIRST, because time CAN NEVER heal ur wounds, it's only U URSELF that have to resolve the hurt and clean up the mess.
cheers!
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im in love with my computer.
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Originally posted by Ito_^:im in love with my computer.
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marry the computer.Originally posted by Ito_^:im in love with my computer.
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u totally correct~ i hope that the thread starter do consider all these though. everyone needs love, even prostitudes.. they are human too.. but.. some things must have a clear line~Originally posted by The Emperor:u dun have to be confuse. the answer is just right in front of u.
u r taking ur ex as ur substitute! give urself some time to calm down from all these. i believe u r in a period of getting over ur ex... so try to avoid all these distractions and illusions from drawing you deeper into something which will hurt u further.
i suggest u stop going to all these places. i'm not against prostitutes but i think that going to night clubs is not going to solve ur problem. u need a healthy activity and a proper lifestyle.
start building urself up in ur own character and confidence. life has to go on. all u need to do is just to continue breathing. dun give up! there're better opportunities waiting for u in future.
but before going into any future relationships, u'd need to first deal with ur hurts FIRST, because time CAN NEVER heal ur wounds, it's only U URSELF that have to resolve the hurt and clean up the mess.
cheers!
good luck~ -
bring her to me 1st.
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Certainly they are not the same person. A different headache / relationship occurs only if you continue to think of them as one...Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I think I am falling in love with a prositute. She is a Thai and she resembles my ex-gf.
Somehow, I dun go there for sex but I just went there to see her.
I spend the time talking to her.
Help me.
I am confuse.
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there's a general rule for pros..F&F..
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hmm... Myabe she does look like your ex but its an entirely diff person.
so please think about this through..
You dun want yourself to be stuckin a very difficult situation..
take care. -
But I am willingly to preach her how to get out of the industry. U see she is a Thai and definitely there is a communication barrier.Originally posted by curiousOrange:Killer,
A relationship with a Tirak is dangerous. You are putting yourself into a screwed up situation here.
Sarge with your d!ck. Not your heart! Pay the money, get what you want and you bail straight away. DonÂ’t even look back. Keep the deal professional.
IÂ’m not saying all of these girls are bad. But you have to consider why they are in the industry in the first place!
You will take up a lot of her burdens when you want a relationship with her. Girls in the industry usually have some family issues or drug problems, drinking problems and some are just gold diggers.
I know you will tell me how she is not like that because you talked to herÂ…
Ask yourself all these questions KillerÂ…
Have you actually found out anything else about her except what she has been telling you? Now, IÂ’m not trying to treat you like a 3 year old kid who takes everything at face value. But a lot of these girls donÂ’t know much in life but one thing they are good at, is saying what men like to hear. ItÂ’s their job and they excel in it.
Have you seen her family yet?
How do you know you can adapt to her world?
Why do you have to burden yourself with her problems? You love her because she looks like your ex?? Emotional people like you should not be hanging around the commercial sex scene.
If you do get her…will you hate her for past? Easy for you to say “no” now…you have to think long term. Will you be able to forget her past?
The Government does not allow a tirak to marry a Singaporean and stay here. You will have to leave this place for good with herÂ…can you cope with that?
Seriously, think about it.
But I enjoy talking to her. She just keep me the comfort. She noes she looks like my ex-gf. I even show her my ex-gf pics.
I dunno much abt her background except I noe she was once a lesbian. And she is older than me by 2 years.
I understand the burden she will give me. I understand what u r trying to tell me. Mayb its fated that I met her. I am willingly to transform her.
U see... They are very pathetic especially her. They are here to earn a living. Can u imagine what is their lifestyle? Very routine... And they dun eat much. Its like a jail. And I can see she is being forced into this industry.
Yes, I am emotional. I wonder what's wrong wif hanging ard this commercial industry as long I dun do anything wrong.
I will not hate her for the past. At least, she is not as bad as some gals who cheated on their bfs.
If there's a way to get her out of this industry, I am willing to give it a try... -
I feel the chemisty is there. I am not taking her as a subsitiute. I feel character wise, she is better than my ex although she is into this industry.Originally posted by The Emperor:u dun have to be confuse. the answer is just right in front of u.
u r taking ur ex as ur substitute! give urself some time to calm down from all these. i believe u r in a period of getting over ur ex... so try to avoid all these distractions and illusions from drawing you deeper into something which will hurt u further.
i suggest u stop going to all these places. i'm not against prostitutes but i think that going to night clubs is not going to solve ur problem. u need a healthy activity and a proper lifestyle.
start building urself up in ur own character and confidence. life has to go on. all u need to do is just to continue breathing. dun give up! there're better opportunities waiting for u in future.
but before going into any future relationships, u'd need to first deal with ur hurts FIRST, because time CAN NEVER heal ur wounds, it's only U URSELF that have to resolve the hurt and clean up the mess.
cheers!
But u see, sometimes,not many people are as fortunate like us. U look at some of the local gals, so spoiled and pampered. Taking things for granted.
For prositiutes, they do haf their integrity. Ask yourself, who likes to be screwed in the ass. Look at Annabel Chong. Look at her feat. What drives her into doing the feat. Everyone noes it. I thinking I am falling for her but yet I dunno whether it is socially acceptable. -
Just do whatever you feel it's right for yourself....Blame no one for any bad consequences will to arise in the future...Just be responsible to yoruself for whichever decision you're going to make..Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I feel the chemisty is there. I am not taking her as a subsitiute. I feel character wise, she is better than my ex although she is into this industry.
But u see, sometimes,not many people are as fortunate like us. U look at some of the local gals, so spoiled and pampered. Taking things for granted.
For prositiutes, they do haf their integrity. Ask yourself, who likes to be screwed in the ass. Look at Annabel Chong. Look at her feat. What drives her into doing the feat. Everyone noes it. I thinking I am falling for her but yet I dunno whether it is socially acceptable. -
If I say that one day the thai lady change her apparence to be someone else will you still like her?Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I think I am falling in love with a prositute. She is a Thai and she resembles my ex-gf.
Somehow, I dun go there for sex but I just went there to see her.
I spend the time talking to her.
Help me.
I am confuse.
Seriously do you really think is a good idea to like someone becos she looks like her ex?
Bro if you like her seriously look beyond the looks. If you can do that, then by all means go ahead. You are still stuck with the love for your ex why make another gal suffer when in your heart you still in love your ex? -
I can say that the love for my ex-gf has gone. She is the one who destroyed it. Not me.Originally posted by zeny:If I say that one day the thai lady change her apparence to be someone else will you still like her?
Seriously do you really think is a good idea to like someone becos she looks like her ex?
Bro if you like her seriously look beyond the looks. If you can do that, then by all means go ahead. You are still stuck with the love for your ex why make another gal suffer when in your heart you still in love your ex? -
Seriously, isit socially acceptable. What are the consequences if i chose this path?Originally posted by dcx:Just do whatever you feel it's right for yourself....Blame no one for any bad consequences will to arise in the future...Just be responsible to yoruself for whichever decision you're going to make.. -
Why you care so much abt whether it's socially acceptable or not when you're so much in love with her?Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Seriously, isit socially acceptable. What are the consequences if i chose this path?
Seriously, you're very afraid of getting into a wrong n regretful decision which you'll to make...
I do not know of the consequences you'll to face if such a decision will to be made...no one knows...will only know when it happens (Common sense)..
Only presumptions can be made, but consequences will not be known... -
Personally I think it's not only the society thing you're facing...Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Seriously, isit socially acceptable. What are the consequences if i chose this path?
You're somehow confused over things... And possibly 'blind'... I know some of them can be pityful... But how many can you save...
If you're REALLY SURE about what you FEEL for her and know how LONG and DEEP it would last... I'll say GO FOR IT...? -
Killer,
Now you got me emotionally involved as well. IÂ’m not questioning how strong you feel for this girl. You realized there is risk involved in pursuing this relationship but have you really assessed how HIGH is the risk?
ListenÂ…IÂ’m a lousy story teller but you need to listen to this story.
At least, take it as I'm telling you to make myself feel better. Read it and please relate it to your case.
X broke up with his girlfriend 3 years ago. They almost got married. But a week before the ROM, this girl chickened out on him and ran away with another guy. This girl hurt him so bad that he vows never to be serious about women again. He started to frequent the houses in GL whenever he needed companionship.
He told his friends, “At least the girls there are more honest than a lot of girls out there. They just want your money but they are honest about it. You pay and get something in return…fair deal.”
Then he met a Thai girl in one of the houses. This working girl (WG) frenched him the way a working gal usually will not. So he got confused again…”If I’m just a customer to her, why would she kiss me like that.” He was curious, he went to the WG’s house a few more times, they talked, they transacted. WG told him her story.
WGÂ’s father is a massive gambler. Right now, WG is trying to pay off the debts. WG told him her dream to go back to school again, how she always dreams of having a happy family of her own. WG showed him her family photo and said that she donÂ’t hate her father for what he has done. WG also said that she is returning to Thailand very soon. Her fatherÂ’s debts are almost fully cleared.
X started to spend a lot of time with the girl. Before he knew, he was in love again. He bought a necklace for her on her last nite. WG told him that he shouldnÂ’t spend that kind of money on her. But WG admitted that she has strong feelings as well.
X asked her what she wants as a parting gift. WG told him that all she wantsÂ…is a photo to remember him by.
At that moment of time, X melted. He decided to take the risk. He told his friends, “I will never find someone like her again…if all of you are true friends, don’t stop me from getting happiness.” His friends gave him their blessings and WG made plans to go to Thailand together. They intended to get married there and settle down.
1 year later, X came back to Singapore.
He was in a sorry state.
A big hole in his pocket.
Emotionally wrecked.
He simply told his friends, “I nearly got myself killed.”
I later found out that WG already has a husband in Thailand and the girl is following what the husband suggested to lure X into Thailand so that they work on their plan. I didnÂ’t ask X for the details. IÂ’m too ashamed to ask because I failed him as a friend, I should have done more to help him.
Killer,
You see why IÂ’m telling you not to listen to what she says at face value? They are programmed to say the things you want to hear. ItÂ’s almost mechanical because they do it everyday to any men.
A smart man learns from other peopleÂ’s experience and avoids making the same mistake.
A smart man takes calculated risks in life. But when the stakes are too high and the odds are against him. He bails himself out of the situation before he gets too emotionally involved.
BE THE SMART MAN, KILLER.
There is an important reason why people called it a commercial sex industry.
Turn back before it is too late.
Think about it.