In Love With A Prositute
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Originally posted by dinky1409:You like this thai girl because she looks like your ex and her character is somehow better then your ex? Everytime you look at this thai girl and your ex will comes back to your mind so I think you still have feelings for your ex except that you hate her character.
I don't think I look at her, I think of my ex... This Thai gal is so much better than her in terms of looks and character. The more refined version of my ex...
I have to admit I still have feelings for my ex. But then I am able to distinguish between who is who?
I mean if your ex comes back to you with a different character, a better one, will you still take her back?
Will she come back? She is the one who initiated the breakup. She says I am not good for her... So I dun think she will come back.
If you really think you really want this thai girl, ask her change her profession first. If she's genuinely willing, then its a start. If not she's just like your ex, a liar...
She is contract bonded. Unless after her bond, if she is really genuinely, then maybe she really love me... -
More refined version? So there is still elements of your ex you find in this girl. Love in your heart has been taken away when you broke up with your ex leaving behind an empty space desperately to be fill up by love again and when someone who possess these certain elements which you had once loved before in your ex comes along, you just feel like loving once again. In short, you might not be attracted to this thai girl for who she is but for what she have in her, the 'good' pieces of your ex in her.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I don't think I look at her, I think of my ex... This Thai gal is so much better than her in terms of looks and character. The more refined version of my ex...
I have to admit I still have feelings for my ex. But then I am able to distinguish between who is who?
If you like her a lot, you can stand the fact that she's still going to 'service' other people? I mean you don't mind her 'servicing' other people until she finish her contract? What contract is this? If she breaks the contract, she breaks the law? No? If you really like her you would do all you can to stop her from doing what she's doing. Similarly, if the feeling is mutual she would do the same.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:She is contract bonded. Unless after her bond, if she is really genuinely, then maybe she really love me...
But whatever it is be very careful. There are so many types of people in this world, some are good at acting and some are not. Don't fall into a trap which you can never get out of. -
The Thai Lady may be trying to decieve u to. Words are like wind these days. Dun fall for their trap. What kind of love will u get from her?Originally posted by dinky1409:If you like her a lot, you can stand the fact that she's still going to 'service' other people? I mean you don't mind her 'servicing' other people until she finish her contract? What contract is this? If she breaks the contract, she breaks the law? No? If you really like her you would do all you can to stop her from doing what she's doing. Similarly, if the feeling is mutual she would do the same.
But whatever it is be very careful. There are so many types of people in this world, some are good at acting and some are not. Don't fall into a trap which you can never get out of.
Go look for other Thai Lady in Thailand. Look at Sam Leong (Tun Lok Director of Kitchens). His wife is a Thai. Why bother looking at these gals from Geylang? There are better ones ard. -
Good move !
Get a prostitude to become ur girlfriend is better than get a girlfriend to become a prosititude .
It's okay one la , relax , afterall , we're human being ma , nothing wrong .
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U r one of the supportive one.Originally posted by Poolman:Good move !
Get a prostitude to become ur girlfriend is better than get a girlfriend to become a prosititude .
It's okay one la , relax , afterall , we're human being ma , nothing wrong .
Why worry about what others say ?
But then, I think I have made up my mind now. She is not in love with me. I know that fromher little gestures and everything else. -
But some people feel that I should go where my heart is telling me too.
neber go where your heart is telling you BLINDLY...that's my phiso...
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goes with open eyes!
the heart is in our body cannot see what's going on outside....
by the way...many good advice eg orange, yuhai...(i only read two or three pages..etc..) do take them...
all the best....
broken heart is more painful than a real cut but it can be heal...don't dwell in your pain further.... -
Finally I am awake from all the disillusions. The Thai gal is practically "charming" me to go back to see her time and time again.
What a good deal when a customer like me comes and finds her and do not ask for sex with her. I am a very good bait. I got this final wake up call, surprising from another Thai lady. She scolded me saying that they are very good in acting to lure their customers back.
I have not visited her for quite some time and we still talk on the phone. Finally, when I told her I will stop seeing her, she got so piss off that she slam the phone. I tried to test her back by calling her back to apologise. But she refuse to pick up and and sms me not to call her ANYMORE.
Sian. She is not even treating me as a friend.
All my good deed has gone down to the drains. I am not sad but very disappointed. -
Can someone pls advice?
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Forget her and get on with your life. Thats all there is to it.
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i known someone who brought home a prostitute from thailand and planned to marry her. he always lament on how her life is sad and how her parents didn't take care of her, and how he will show her a better life by bringing her to spore. to tell you the truth, i feel it's because he is luckless with the ladies, getting too old for his own good, desperate because he has undesirable demeanor, and need to justify his "reasonable" actions when he introduces her to his family.
Then again, it could be love... what do i know right? -
Originally posted by Michaeled:i known someone who brought home a prostitute from thailand and planned to marry her. he always lament on how her life is sad and how her parents didn't take care of her, and how he will show her a better life by bringing her to spore. to tell you the truth, i feel it's because he is luckless with the ladies, getting too old for his own good, desperate because he has undesirable demeanor, and need to justify his "reasonable" actions when he introduces her to his family.
Then again, it could be love... what do i know right?
wat is demeanor??
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You have to understand some things. It is very difficult for you when you fall in love. You have no control over your thoughts. It is like you are possesed. You are are not, there is no black magic involved. Everybody goes through it. It can be a wonderful feeling, falling in love.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I think I am falling in love with a prositute. She is a Thai and she resembles my ex-gf.
Somehow, I dun go there for sex but I just went there to see her.
I spend the time talking to her.
Help me.
I am confuse.
It is probably the only time when people become selfless. People in love regularly say things like, I want to give him/her everything and anything.
Enjoy it while you can, this particular girl is not after your money. She makes enough from prostitution. She does not need your money. If you want her to stop earning a living like that then you have to make up for the short fall. Can you afford that?
Otherwise just go with the flow and enjoy it while it lasts. After a while, I don't know how long it will take for you but eventually, the feelings will subside and you will go on with your life and she hers.
You will think back of this girl when you are older. It can be a beautiful thing or result in disaster, it is up to you. It can be a wonderful memory or a bad nightmare, it is up to you.
You are not the first and will not be the last. One Thai prostitute told me that a Spore army boy asked her to marry him. He wanted to bring her back to visit his parents in Spore. She told me: "How can that be? I am in this profession."
You see, the girls are not stupid and they know their place and they have no illusions. Just enjoy it while you can, It will not last. -
What 'good deed'...?Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Finally I am awake from all the disillusions. The Thai gal is practically "charming" me to go back to see her time and time again.
What a good deal when a customer like me comes and finds her and do not ask for sex with her. I am a very good bait. I got this final wake up call, surprising from another Thai lady. She scolded me saying that they are very good in acting to lure their customers back.
I have not visited her for quite some time and we still talk on the phone. Finally, when I told her I will stop seeing her, she got so piss off that she slam the phone. I tried to test her back by calling her back to apologise. But she refuse to pick up and and sms me not to call her ANYMORE.
Sian. She is not even treating me as a friend.
All my good deed has gone down to the drains. I am not sad but very disappointed.
Since you've been having so much doubts previously, isn't this a good time to drop everything and just move on...? Sometimes it's not that life is making things difficult for us or leave us with not much choice... Now that it has praved a way for you, why still carry so many of the thinkings on your head...?
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Demeanor means behavior toward others.Originally posted by Michaeled:i known someone who brought home a prostitute from thailand and planned to marry her. he always lament on how her life is sad and how her parents didn't take care of her, and how he will show her a better life by bringing her to spore. to tell you the truth, i feel it's because he is luckless with the ladies, getting too old for his own good, desperate because he has undesirable demeanor, and need to justify his "reasonable" actions when he introduces her to his family.
Then again, it could be love... what do i know right?
I dun even know whether those prostitutes knows what is love?
Sometimes, I think some of them are very pitiful. All they want is a better life. -
I have heard that some thai prostitutes are having army boys as their bfs. I dun think they are allowed to marry in Singapore becos of their profession.Originally posted by casino_king:You have to understand some things. It is very difficult for you when you fall in love. You have no control over your thoughts. It is like you are possesed. You are are not, there is no black magic involved. Everybody goes through it. It can be a wonderful feeling, falling in love.
It is probably the only time when people become selfless. People in love regularly say things like, I want to give him/her everything and anything.
Enjoy it while you can, this particular girl is not after your money. She makes enough from prostitution. She does not need your money. If you want her to stop earning a living like that then you have to make up for the short fall. Can you afford that?
Otherwise just go with the flow and enjoy it while it lasts. After a while, I don't know how long it will take for you but eventually, the feelings will subside and you will go on with your life and she hers.
You will think back of this girl when you are older. It can be a beautiful thing or result in disaster, it is up to you. It can be a wonderful memory or a bad nightmare, it is up to you.
You are not the first and will not be the last. One Thai prostitute told me that a Spore army boy asked her to marry him. He wanted to bring her back to visit his parents in Spore. She told me: "How can that be? I am in this profession."
You see, the girls are not stupid and they know their place and they have no illusions. Just enjoy it while you can, It will not last.
Enjoy till its end. Why must good things come to an end? -
The good deeds are to be her sponsor for all these well. She still has the cheek to call me and say I miss u. Lies lies lies. I think she miss my $$$ more than anything.Originally posted by Devil1976:What 'good deed'...?
Since you've been having so much doubts previously, isn't this a good time to drop everything and just move on...? Sometimes it's not that life is making things difficult for us or leave us with not much choice... Now that it has praved a way for you, why still carry so many of the thinkings on your head...?
LEARN to LET GO.... -
Back to finger pointing again?Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:The good deeds are to be her sponsor for all these well. She still has the cheek to call me and say I miss u. Lies lies lies. I think she miss my $$$ more than anything.
I see vicious Cycle???
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What done cannot be undone... How long would it take before you learn how to live out of yesterday...?Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:The good deeds are to be her sponsor for all these well. She still has the cheek to call me and say I miss u. Lies lies lies. I think she miss my $$$ more than anything. -
If u felt this manner, u should not answer the call.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:The good deeds are to be her sponsor for all these well. She still has the cheek to call me and say I miss u. Lies lies lies. I think she miss my $$$ more than anything.