In Love With A Prositute
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Finally made my decision... The Thai gal can be so nice and sweet. Even regard me as a good friend but then after serious consideration and slapping myself real hard on my head, I guess I am foolish.Originally posted by FBI:Somehow it's quite the same and i dunno hjow to explain it. Anyway i have decided the road. And that is to be friend with her and start treating her like a friend only. THis is the best decision i think. Right now i'm contented and no more 40 kind of sadness.
CHeers!
Make your decision wisely!!!
Thanks everyone here. Esp. CuriousOrange.
I felt that the whole confusion is all my ex-gf fault. I blame her for causing me pain. I blame her for leaving me when I am at the lowest point. I blame her for cheating on me. I simply hate her. She is a liar and cheater. Think she don't even love me in the first place. If u love a person, will u cheat on him/her? Confuse now. To hate or to love. I dunno. -
DOn love her if u do u will end up liking her again. HAte her so that u will forget abt her! I'm glad u choose the correct path!
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your senses are back congrats dude
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Ya blame....blame somemore and you'll never grow.
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love hooker? very rare indeed..
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What's the point? It's all OVER...Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Finally made my decision... The Thai gal can be so nice and sweet. Even regard me as a good friend but then after serious consideration and slapping myself real hard on my head, I guess I am foolish.
Thanks everyone here. Esp. CuriousOrange.
I felt that the whole confusion is all my ex-gf fault. I blame her for causing me pain. I blame her for leaving me when I am at the lowest point. I blame her for cheating on me. I simply hate her. She is a liar and cheater. Think she don't even love me in the first place. If u love a person, will u cheat on him/her? Confuse now. To hate or to love. I dunno.
LET GO so that you can be RELEASED from your PAST... -
Originally posted by M©+square:Ya blame....blame somemore and you'll never grow.
The blame game... is like so duh... 
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we cant blame anyone but ourselfs...we will do some mistakes which are not on purpose, but many the times, it results in others blaming one another...
blaming one another is an act of irresponsible...grow up and accept the way things are...get over it and start anew...
cheers to a brand new life ahead!!
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i agreeOriginally posted by klishcia:You can fall in love with her but if you're thinking of long term relartionship with her. Got to have blood test in case she may be a HIV positive. Help her get out of this industry and get a proper job for her.
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Agree what?Originally posted by huaqing:i agree -
hey man... just to inform you some stuff about girls...
we don't go for emotionally weak guys... you see, most of us have this mindset that girls are always the ones leaning on guys, but because Singaporean girls are getting stronger emotionally nowadays, (and those strong ones are those who attract guys), then it is harder to keep up with guys who are more able to withstand obstacles.
It is definitely true that confidence is beauty... (or handsomeness in this case)
So what if your gf really was the worst kind of girl that dumps you after lying and cheating on you? You are not alone. And that kind of person does not deserve to have someone like you pinning after her. She is not worth it. And you know something... You can only truly hate someone if you still love them. Because they still mean something to you. You must learn that she does not have to stay on your mind all the time, because only when you are free of her that you can find other girls and move on. Right now you still think of how you have been betrayed by her and you are looking for comfort and reassurance...
It's not hard to listen to a guy with a broken heart and feel very comfortable. I have encountered a lot of people in chatrooms who sms or call me and we talk through the night. Most of them are lonely and/or have some problems in their lives. That's why chatlines are so popular. I believe that one day you will find a girl who gives you comfort when you are with her, yet not only that, she brings you joy instead of pain. Because when you love someone, she will not want you to suffer.
I am also like you. I always hope that any small thing I do can go a long way in 'saving the world'. I still believe I can. But i'm sure you know that if you want to live long enough to continue spreading peace and joy to the world, you have to be street smart. Not everything is as simple on the surface. But I also know that if you are already swaying towards going for the Thai lady, you would forever ask yourself 'what if'. I would advise that you do what your heart (after thinking it through) tells you, but remember along the way that you do not give away your money or put your life on the line.
Jia you ba! *piang i talk so long...* -
have u watched Eric Khoo's Meepok Man? it is abt someone falling in love with a prositute..
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What's the movie abt? Tell me more?Originally posted by artistic1:have u watched Eric Khoo's Meepok Man? it is abt someone falling in love with a prositute.. -
u have the vcd or dvd of that show??Originally posted by artistic1:have u watched Eric Khoo's Meepok Man? it is abt someone falling in love with a prositute..
can burn it and pass it to me??
i'm interested to watch that show.. -
Originally posted by theoneguru:hey man... just to inform you some stuff about girls...
we don't go for emotionally weak guys... you see, most of us have this mindset that girls are always the ones leaning on guys, but because Singaporean girls are getting stronger emotionally nowadays, (and those strong ones are those who attract guys), then it is harder to keep up with guys who are more able to withstand obstacles.
This is the social problem now in Singapore. The Singaporean gals are driving us to seek marriages abroad. It is not that gals nowadays are stronger, it is they are too demanding.
It is definitely true that confidence is beauty... (or handsomeness in this case)
So what if you are pretty but your actions is otherwise. Confidence is success.
So what if your gf really was the worst kind of girl that dumps you after lying and cheating on you? You are not alone. And that kind of person does not deserve to have someone like you pinning after her. She is not worth it. And you know something... You can only truly hate someone if you still love them. Because they still mean something to you. You must learn that she does not have to stay on your mind all the time, because only when you are free of her that you can find other girls and move on. Right now you still think of how you have been betrayed by her and you are looking for comfort and reassurance...
I just feel that Justice is not being done.
It's not hard to listen to a guy with a broken heart and feel very comfortable. I have encountered a lot of people in chatrooms who sms or call me and we talk through the night. Most of them are lonely and/or have some problems in their lives. That's why chatlines are so popular. I believe that one day you will find a girl who gives you comfort when you are with her, yet not only that, she brings you joy instead of pain. Because when you love someone, she will not want you to suffer.
I agree. If you love someone deeply, you will not allow him/her to suffer. Perhaps, she do not really love me deeply in the first place, else if it is true love, we will not end up like that. Cheating is a form of showing no respect to the other party.
I am also like you. I always hope that any small thing I do can go a long way in 'saving the world'. I still believe I can. But i'm sure you know that if you want to live long enough to continue spreading peace and joy to the world, you have to be street smart. Not everything is as simple on the surface. But I also know that if you are already swaying towards going for the Thai lady, you would forever ask yourself 'what if'. I would advise that you do what your heart (after thinking it through) tells you, but remember along the way that you do not give away your money or put your life on the line.
Well, she is the one calling me now and then. Somehow, I have no more interest in her. But as a friend, maybe I will continue to help her as much as I can. They are human beings after all.
Jia you ba! *piang i talk so long...* -
At times, it is not that we do not want to start anew. Sometimes, is whether we are given a chance to do so.Originally posted by weijian:we cant blame anyone but ourselfs...we will do some mistakes which are not on purpose, but many the times, it results in others blaming one another...
blaming one another is an act of irresponsible...grow up and accept the way things are...get over it and start anew...
cheers to a brand new life ahead!! -
I think you are seeing things much clearer now.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:
Well, she is the one calling me now and then. Somehow, I have no more interest in her. But as a friend, maybe I will continue to help her as much as I can. They are human beings after all.
How about that ex?
Let go or give it another shot?
The chances are slim. You know where I stand...she's a cheater...I'm biased. -
Originally posted by curiousOrange:I think you are seeing things much clearer now.
Certainly after your advices... Thanks...
How about that ex?
Let go or give it another shot?
I guess I will move on for now. No point at the moment. If we are fated to be together, then we shall be together. Let nature take it course.
The chances are slim. You know where I stand...she's a cheater...I'm biased. -
I think if the guy want to try just let him try. If, he get burn than he will truly understand.
Its just like a mom telling a kid not to touch the hot iron. But, still the kid wants to touch. Only when the kid gets burnt. would he only learn.
Killer, i think, you yourself have the only answers to your question. -
For some reasons, this topic attracted my attention and i would like to share with you a similar experience that a friend of mine had.
Same reason as you, that he fell for a prostitude which resemble his ex. Almost everyday he went to look for her. Eventually, they became very close and the lucky thing is that the thai prostitude can actually communicate in mandrin.
This continues for quite awhile, he did confessed to the prostitude but she doesnt accept him. Till one day, he went to look for her and realised shes gone. He was devasted and heartbroken that she left without bidding goodbye.
Reality strucks him only after he found out he contracted AIDS from that prostitude and he suicided.
My point is that, think twice before you actually put in feelings for her. Because of her background, there are alot of obstacles the both of you have to face together if you both started. And even if you dont mind, you got to know if shes willing or not . All the best and good luck. -
Why are gals these days so fickle minded? Why must they cheat?Originally posted by curiousOrange:I think you are seeing things much clearer now.
How about that ex?
Let go or give it another shot?
The chances are slim. You know where I stand...she's a cheater...I'm biased.
The Legend Killer, u r not alone...
Peeps, I think we need to guide him out of this shit. -
So you've found your allies?Originally posted by AnimalArmy:Why are gals these days so fickle minded? Why must they cheat?
The Legend Killer, u r not alone...
Peeps, I think we need to guide him out of this shit.
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Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:This is the social problem now in Singapore. The Singaporean gals are driving us to seek marriages abroad. It is not that gals nowadays are stronger, it is they are too demanding.
You have already claimed that it is a social problem.
So what will happen when you marry a non-local and bring her to Singapore?
You end up exposing her to the same set of social problems!
Rather than complain about it. A better option is to adapt. -
If I want to carry on with this relationship, definitely I will learn to speak Thai and move to Thailand...Originally posted by curiousOrange:
You have already claimed that it is a social problem.
So what will happen when you marry a non-local and bring her to Singapore?
You end up exposing her to the same set of social problems!
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You like this thai girl because she looks like your ex and her character is somehow better then your ex? Everytime you look at this thai girl and your ex will comes back to your mind so I think you still have feelings for your ex except that you hate her character. I mean if your ex comes back to you with a different character, a better one, will you still take her back?
If you really think you really want this thai girl, ask her change her profession first. If she's genuinely willing, then its a start. If not she's just like your ex, a liar...