How to differentiate true love from crush?
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I believe many people inexperienced people will have this problem...so any advices?
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hmm .. it mayb crushes r ppl u have a liking towards ..
love .. its tat u feel tat u could do almost anything for the person .. no matter wat it takes .. wish for the best for the person .. enjoy the company .. feel relieve n comforted whenever the person is ard or hears the voice .. sudden urge to see the person out of the bolt .. n always or sometimes flashes in ur mind
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mayb time will differentiate everything.
crush usually after a few mths will die dwn... -
Nowadays,if crushes can last for days,very good liao loh.Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:mayb time will differentiate everything.
crush usually after a few mths will die dwn...
If u truly love someone,no matter where she is,where she go,what she do,U love her for who she is. -
Originally posted by Saint`:love .. its tat u feel tat u could do almost anything for the person .. no matter wat it takes .. wish for the best for the person .. enjoy the company .. feel relieve n comforted whenever the person is ard or hears the voice .. sudden urge to see the person out of the bolt .. n always or sometimes flashes in ur mind hope i had described some basic tendenics correctly
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From my perspective,Originally posted by Mariner:I believe many people inexperienced people will have this problem...so any advices?
Love should be "I want whats best for you"
Crush is simply " I want you"
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Time will tell
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Nope. The latter is usually termed "lust".Originally posted by Xiao Jun:From my perspective,
Love should be "I want whats best for you"
Crush is simply " I want you" -
Haha! apt wordsOriginally posted by lwflee:Nope. The latter is usually termed "lust".
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The problem is you can't figure out which is which because they both bears similiar roots.
Both hurts just as bad depending how much you allow yourself to fall.
Both are just as crazy.
Both can last very long.
Both are irrationale in thoughts, actions and words.
I've realised that even time couldn't make any difference from Love and crush.
Love could easily lose it's meaning these days.
Crush could last a very long time these days!
Only by gaining maturity in these, you can distinguish between the two.
When you never experience, you'll never know. Never. -
Only by gaining maturity in these, you can distinguish between the two.
I guess you're right. -
It's very very simple really, if you were successful in your chase and got to be with your crushee, it's true love ....
if you didn't .... it's a crush .....
this may not be what you would like to hear, but i assure you, this shall be the benchmark that your "crushee/love" will judge you on ....
good luck ... -
Dear Mariner,
Love transcends experience. From what I've heard/seen/read about, there're some "inexperienced" people who'd met their 1 true love when they were young, they got married, & had a happy, long marriage. Others have gone through relationships, been in long term partnerships, but they're yet to experience true love.
Meaning: You shouldn't take advice you get from "experienced" people as the Holy Gospel.
Those with experience will probably be able to give you their point of view, but you hafta realise that life, & love, doesn't follow guidelines
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Mariner:I believe many people inexperienced people will have this problem...so any advices? -
Originally posted by Fatum:It's very very simple really, if you were successful in your chase and got to be with your crushee, it's true love ....
if you didn't .... it's a crush .....
this may not be what you would like to hear, but i assure you, this shall be the benchmark that your "crushee/love" will judge you on ....
good luck ... Like that also can. -
yeah ... harsh but true .... think about it ....Originally posted by M©+square: Like that also can.
how will your crushee view you ? ...
if she falls in love with you ... ole ! ... it's true love neh ? ....
if she doesn't quite see you that way .... you'll be "just another guy that has a crush on me", no ? .....
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Love is simple yet difficult to grasp the knowledge of it.Originally posted by Fatum:yeah ... harsh but true .... think about it ....
how will your crushee view you ? ...
if she falls in love with you ... ole ! ... it's true love neh ? ....
if she doesn't quite see you that way .... you'll be "just another guy that has a crush on me", no ? .....
Paradox.
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How many true loves are there in this world? i guess most ppl dun really know how to differentiate crush, like and love. A couple just enjoying each other company until something happen then one person realised ur partner may not be the one u need.
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When you've experienced it... And you're asking yourself this type of question...Originally posted by Mariner:I believe many people inexperienced people will have this problem...so any advices?
"What are you experiencing again
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You sounded so ZENish!!!Originally posted by Devil1976:When you've experienced it... And you're asking yourself this type of question...
"What are you experiencing again "
Chim! -
very simple de.
ill tell u 10 yrs later. -
In this modern era, love is a complicated issue. Many are too rush into a relationship, whenever they feel there's a feeling or chemistry, they will jump into one.
Crush or Lust can last over a longer time these days. Its the maturity in a relationship that determines whether it is true love.
Sadly, its hard to find true love these days. Look at the number of divorce cases. -
True loveOriginally posted by Mariner:I believe many people inexperienced people will have this problem...so any advices?
1) True love comes from the heart and its shows by actions not words.
2) Everytime you do something for her and you ask for nothing in return.
3) You are wilingly to give up your life to protect the simple faith that you believe that she will be well and she is happy. Even to the extend that she marries someone else and had a very happy family with the guy.
4) Actually is the simple things in life like taking care of her when she is sick and loving her when she grows old.
5) True love is not hard to find but you must work hard for it.
Crush
1) you say you love her but you keep staring at the boobs off other gals and wish your crush has a boobs like other gals.
2) Wish that she will accept you as a gf asap and start treating you like a king.
3) hoping that she will remain the sweet gal always and she will never change.
4) Lust after her looks and always find ways and means to bed her.
5) Demand that she will go out with you when u call her . -
I think many people confuses 'true love' with 'eternal love'...Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:In this modern era, love is a complicated issue. Many are too rush into a relationship, whenever they feel there's a feeling or chemistry, they will jump into one.
Crush or Lust can last over a longer time these days. Its the maturity in a relationship that determines whether it is true love.
Sadly, its hard to find true love these days. Look at the number of divorce cases. -
NAY... I'm suppose to sound DEVILish YOU SILLYOriginally posted by M©+square:You sounded so ZENish!!!
Chim!
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True love???
Zhen Ai???
How to differentiate my "TRUE LOVE" and your "TRUE LOVE"???
True love is just a "click" distance away from a relationship...it's either you've that "click" or not...
Why wanna find true love?? Some ppl throughout their lives have been living happily with their families, but when u ask them if they've found their true love...some will say "NO" or not yet..or maybe "Yes", but she/he's gone or left him/her for other guys/girls....
1 second of true love is also true love....
Unless u're talking about Eternal Love.....
Well...what's love? Up to individual perception/feeling to define...