How to differentiate true love from crush?
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Stop Visiting foodcourt 6.Originally posted by Mariner:I believe many people inexperienced people will have this problem...so any advices?
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Win liao... anyway, you highlighted the grey areas.Originally posted by Fatum:It's very very simple really, if you were successful in your chase and got to be with your crushee, it's true love ....
if you didn't .... it's a crush .....
'love at first sight' = crush? If it's true, then it will also sound like 'crush at first sight'. Then is 'puppy love' = crush too? Maybe also similar to 'puppy crush'. Perhaps the word 'love' sounds better than 'crush' lar...
Why is there 'true love'? Are our previous lovers or crushees based on "false love" then? I also heard that love is categorized into 3 types: Agape (spiritual love), Philadelphia (brotherly love) and Eros(physical or sexual love).
Too many types of love... I don't know which is which...
I like it simple. Mum says to marry someone who I cannot live without, not i can live with. Ok, now I think that's love made simpler...
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I agree with the above.Originally posted by drx:True love
1) True love comes from the heart and its shows by actions not words.
2) Everytime you do something for her and you ask for nothing in return.
3) You are wilingly to give up your life to protect the simple faith that you believe that she will be well and she is happy. Even to the extend that she marries someone else and had a very happy family with the guy.
4) Actually is the simple things in life like taking care of her when she is sick and loving her when she grows old.
5) True love is not hard to find but you must work hard for it.
Crush
1) you say you love her but you keep staring at the boobs off other gals and wish your crush has a boobs like other gals.
2) Wish that she will accept you as a gf asap and start treating you like a king.
3) hoping that she will remain the sweet gal always and she will never change.
4) Lust after her looks and always find ways and means to bed her.
5) Demand that she will go out with you when u call her .
Basic difference between 'Love' and 'Crush' is
Love - all intentions are for the good of the 'crusher'
Crush - all intentions are to satisfy the 'crushee''s own needs -
i also agreed with wat drx said.....Love should be unconditional....
But love is both ways de...which means both persons have feelings 4 each other....while crush is one sided n mostly is from outside de...which means u like the person's looks n is attracted by that....
Love takes a longer time after both persons knoe each other liao...but love is still veri the complicated n it has no definite ans.... -
Love = You can give up almost anything in life for the person.Originally posted by Mariner:I believe many people inexperienced people will have this problem...so any advices?
Lust = You do anything to get that person..physically
crush = You think you wanna give up almost anything in life and do anything to get that person physcially but no action taken.
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This three are essential to get the one you love.Originally posted by laosu:Love = You can give up almost anything in life for the person.
Lust = You do anything to get that person..physically
crush = You think you wanna give up almost anything in life and do anything to get that person physcially but no action taken.
Grey issues.