First time I'll forgive but not the second time.Originally posted by StarPuppy:Your gf/bf went out with her friends...went to pub...got a few drinks..got drunk and ended up in bed with another person....
He/She regrets it and really loves you
Would you forgive him/her?
P.s:Just want to see the response of ppl in AA
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
damn...ouchiesOriginally posted by M©+square:It happened to me before.![]()
No need. I forgot about it.Originally posted by StarPuppy:damn...ouchies
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Sure...Originally posted by StarPuppy:Your gf/bf went out with her friends...went to pub...got a few drinks..got drunk and ended up in bed with another person....
He/She regrets it and really loves you
Would you forgive him/her?
P.s:Just want to see the response of ppl in AA
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
Totally agreed.Originally posted by browniebaobao:for me.. if my bf do this to me.. i will nv forgive him. Coz i believe even when one is drunk, he is still 30% sober. It's not a gd excuse.
when pple get drunk they realli do dumb things..whether sober or not..they'll still do it..like wad u say...30% sober?the other 70% drunkness would have overpowered his 30% sobre.Originally posted by Blueskyz:Totally agreed.
I'm quite sure that drinkers (I'm a drinker myself) should know very well that no matter hw drunk a person is, he / she is still sober n will know what they r doing... unless they want to act blur
Drinks can only make ppl or rather give them the concept or false impression of being bolder n can do things they always want to do but din have the courage to do in their normal sober self...Originally posted by yuko-ogura:when pple get drunk they realli do dumb things..whether sober or not..they'll still do it..like wad u say...30% sober?the other 70% drunkness would have overpowered his 30% sobre.![]()
I will not forgive her. No point. Dump her asap.Originally posted by StarPuppy:Your gf/bf went out with her friends...went to pub...got a few drinks..got drunk and ended up in bed with another person....
He/She regrets it and really loves you
Would you forgive him/her?
P.s:Just want to see the response of ppl in AA
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
u did not forget...u mentioned that it happened to u... if u have forgotten, u would not have said it happened to u...Originally posted by M©+square:No need. I forgot about it.![]()
I remembered that it was done to me.Originally posted by sgboy2004:u did not forget...u mentioned that it happened to u... if u have forgotten, u would not have said it happened to u...
but, sorry to hear that
Originally posted by StarPuppy:Your gf/bf went out with her friends...went to pub...got a few drinks..got drunk and ended up in bed with another person....
He/She regrets it and really loves you
Would you forgive him/her?
P.s:Just want to see the response of ppl in AA
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
not true for most cases...according to a psychologist from New Zealand..drinks do make pple do things they wouldn't want to do...the conscious part is alrdy flooded by the poisons of the drinks..can't think properly..as a result..reflexes can be come so bad,stated in a British newspaper medical report few yrs back,that even if u hit him on the left..he would react to face and hit the right instead.it is that serious.Originally posted by Blueskyz:Drinks can only make ppl or rather give them the concept or false impression of being bolder n can do things they always want to do but din have the courage to do in their normal sober self...
It happened to me before when I'm with my ex. Worse is they did it right beside me when I'm sleeping, almost dead drunk.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Honestly, I can't answer this question. Due to personal experience, friends have told me before, "I won't ever forgive him/her if he/she does this to me" but ultimately when it happens, some of them choose to forgive outta love. Some only need to forgive once because the partner was genuinely sorry. Some had to break up because the partner continued to sleep around.
We may all say we won't forgive now, but how would we know how we react when it really happens? I can't say that I'll Not forgive, but it'll take me a long time to trust him again.
FeowFeow
................Originally posted by laosu:It happened to me before when I'm with my ex. Worse is they did it right beside me when I'm sleeping, almost dead drunk.
Three of us were drunk. I'm dead drunk. Yeah, I forgive her the first time cause I tot it's the first time and it's the first time I know she had sex with another person when they both are drunk.Originally posted by curiousOrange:................
and you forgave her for that? (You said you will forgive if it's the first time.)
You are the one who is dead drunk...she's not.
I will give her ten times the pain I feel before i move on if I were you.
I don't know what to feel about your case...naive? noble?
I think that was the point when she totally lost her respect of you.Originally posted by laosu:Yeah, I forgive her the first time cause I tot it's the first time
/me pat patOriginally posted by M©+square:I remembered that it was done to me.
I chose to forget about it and move on.![]()
Originally posted by laosu:It happened to me before when I'm with my ex. Worse is they did it right beside me when I'm sleeping, almost dead drunk.