A Reason to everything
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Is there really a reason/explanation/motive to everything and anything in this world??
Must there be a reason to love someone??
Please share your views. Thanks -
would u love someone if there is nothing for you to love about him/her? 
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Actually there is none in the world of true love becos is hard to explain why you love that someone special.Originally posted by falling_stars:Is there really a reason/explanation/motive to everything and anything in this world??
Must there be a reason to love someone??
Is only people who are blinded by the colourful world out there then they need a reason to love. They need to lie to themselves and give themselves some reason to go on believeing so that the could go on with life . -
Of course there mux be a reason... but cant it jux be a feeling??
mux there be a reason like mayb the other party is pretty, is rich or the likes?? -
Originally posted by falling_stars:
So when the other party is no longer pretty nor rich, the love ends?
Of course there mux be a reason... but cant it jux be a feeling??
mux there be a reason like mayb the other party is pretty, is rich or the likes??
Besides, there are many other people who are rich or pretty, why aren't they loved as well?
Is there a reason to seek a reason for love? If you truly love someone, does it really matter to know the reason? Of course the "reason" could be a feeling like "Well, I just love him (or her)", if you consider the circular argument good enough to explain why you love the person.
"Hate has a reason for everything.
But love is unreasonable. "
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hmm.. Yah.. i think there're at least a reason for everything... u do good things.... there's reason.. to have good life..... u do bad things.. reason: to get easy money or other self satisfaction...... u work..reason: for money... even also in so called "true love"... A couple may tell the world they 'love each other for nothing... we just meant to be together.. we just soulmate.. etc etc' but surely there's at least A REASON for choosing him/her.. maybe becoz he thinks she's pretty/sexy and she thinks he's a future millionaire... PPL also can say "I LOVE to work/I LOVE my job"....do u think any person in this work really LOVES to work? there's a reason... money... IF not.. all ppl will work for free... Dunno.. everything happening must be becoz of something... ppl keeps changing... and maybe now only religion can control ppl's rationale.. whether it's toward good or bad..
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So trajet jux contradicted what Tautau has said...Originally posted by trajet:hmm.. Yah.. i think there're at least a reason for everything... u do good things.... there's reason.. to have good life..... u do bad things.. reason: to get easy money or other self satisfaction...... u work..reason: for money... even also in so called "true love"... A couple may tell the world they 'love each other for nothing... we just meant to be together.. we just soulmate.. etc etc' but surely there's at least A REASON for choosing him/her.. maybe becoz he thinks she's pretty/sexy and she thinks he's a future millionaire... PPL also can say "I LOVE to work/I LOVE my job"....do u think any person in this work really LOVES to work? there's a reason... money... IF not.. all ppl will work for free... Dunno.. everything happening must be becoz of something... ppl keeps changing... and maybe now only religion can control ppl's rationale.. whether it's toward good or bad..
But love is different from things like a job and everthing else....
Love is not something that can jux be defined with a few phases...
There are too many defination to love and all this may not exactly be what love is....
What one perceive may not be seen as by another party -
There is always a reason to everything and a consequence for everything also.
Reason can be in a rational or irrational form, depending on the indivduals.
However, to love someone maybe be unconditional. -
1) Our finite mind does not allow us to understand and explain everything in the world.
2) You have to choose to love your ai ai. If people focus so much on the reasons (which are variable as time goes by), relationship won't last. This explains why more and more break-ups occur. Blinded by the world.....
True love endures all things. -
actually i would believe that these are the few reasons(pretty, cute, rich, charismatic, talented etc) why people fall in love with someone in the first place. the feelings are there because one of these reasons exist in the first place.Originally posted by falling_stars:Of course there mux be a reason... but cant it jux be a feeling??
mux there be a reason like mayb the other party is pretty, is rich or the likes??
However, most people won't admit or accept that they love a person because of these reasons as they think that these reasons are superficial. -
Yup, first you have to feel attracted to her/him to know her/him further. When go steady liao, it is your choice to love her/him. Any reasons that first makes you love her/him will change as time goes by. So ultimately, it is a choice to love - to love deeply.
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Think i am agreeing with what you said... probably explains what i am thinking...Originally posted by UandMe:actually i would believe that these are the few reasons(pretty, cute, rich, charismatic, talented etc) why people fall in love with someone in the first place. the feelings are there because one of these reasons exist in the first place.
However, most people won't admit or accept that they love a person because of these reasons as they think that these reasons are superficial.
Cux this gal ask me back why i like her?? she wants a reason... which i dun noe what to say really...
But anyway her theory is everything mux have a reason to it -
Originally posted by falling_stars:Think i am agreeing with what you said... probably explains what i am thinking...
Cux this gal ask me back why i like her?? she wants a reason... which i dun noe what to say really...
But anyway her theory is everything mux have a reason to it which is true...there must besomething in her that makes u like her
her behavior or her looks? etc
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StarPuppy -
Yes there is. There is a reason for everything. In fact.. there is a reason to everything that if there is not a reason for anything , then there is no reason to reason it anymore. Even stupidity is a reason..
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Looks... hmmm well she's pleasant looking... but i m not so much into looks..Originally posted by StarPuppy: which is true...there must besomething in her that makes u like her
her behavior or her looks? etc
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
behaviour .... it could be....
anyway that's what i told her but she reason back that well there are gals who are prettier than me, have better personality than me... etc... haizz -
Originally posted by falling_stars:Looks... hmmm well she's pleasant looking... but i m not so much into looks..
behaviour .... it could be....
anyway that's what i told her but she reason back that well there are gals who are prettier than me, have better personality than me... etc... haizz each has their own strength and weakness
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StarPuppy -
Ya lah... that's the thing man....Originally posted by StarPuppy: each has their own strength and weakness
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
Dun noe if she's trying to bring me round the bush or wat....
or simply she has no confident... either in me or herself... -
Why can't it be just the feelings?Originally posted by falling_stars:Of course there mux be a reason... but cant it jux be a feeling??
mux there be a reason like mayb the other party is pretty, is rich or the likes??
Afterall, god don't create us with feelings for nothing. -
i am a robot. i bot.
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Thats wat i think also...Originally posted by laosu:Why can't it be just the feelings?
Afterall, god don't create us with feelings for nothing.
bt she thinks otherwise... she says that's not a good reason loh -
erm, maybe she is just not interested in getting into a r/s at this moment?Originally posted by falling_stars:Looks... hmmm well she's pleasant looking... but i m not so much into looks..
behaviour .... it could be....
anyway that's what i told her but she reason back that well there are gals who are prettier than me, have better personality than me... etc... haizz -
Well... it's hard to say.... she did mention this as one of the many excuse she gave me... seems to me that she's not too comfortable with some thingsOriginally posted by rainee:erm, maybe she is just not interested in getting into a r/s at this moment? -
ask her what she is not comfortable with?Originally posted by falling_stars:Well... it's hard to say.... she did mention this as one of the many excuse she gave me... seems to me that she's not too comfortable with some things
but if she says she is not ready, dun push her. love cannot be forced. she might need time to know you more and get more comfortable around you, etc...
so spend more time with her as frens, but dun force her to be in a r/s with you if she says she is not ready for it -
Originally posted by falling_stars:
There can be a reason for attraction, but do not equate it as a reason for love. For attraction may lead to love, but is not love.
Looks... hmmm well she's pleasant looking... but i m not so much into looks..
behaviour .... it could be....
anyway that's what i told her but she reason back that well there are gals who are prettier than me, have better personality than me... etc... haizz
In fact, you could tell the girl all the physical and tangible reasons why you like her, you could even list them out in an essay, a poem or a song, but one doubts she would ever be satisfied.
Why? The reason is because in most cases when a girl asks you why you like her, the point is not to find the reason why you like her, but to find the reason why she asked the question.
Guys like to think straight, they like to solve problems with direct answers, even when it comes to matters of the heart. Unfortunately, that's not usually how girls think, which makes the differences between Mars and Venus so ever tricky. -
well....seems to be shes trying to find an excuse, but ill tell u something, and tts beauty is in the eye of the beholder...its all subjective maybe u just luv the way she looks and her personality is close to urs etcOriginally posted by falling_stars:Looks... hmmm well she's pleasant looking... but i m not so much into looks..
behaviour .... it could be....
anyway that's what i told her but she reason back that well there are gals who are prettier than me, have better personality than me... etc... haizz