A Reason to everything
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yea man... that's wat i m doing now... i said it's ok if she's not comfortable with it... we could take it easy from there....Originally posted by rainee:ask her what she is not comfortable with?
but if she says she is not ready, dun push her. love cannot be forced. she might need time to know you more and get more comfortable around you, etc...
so spend more time with her as frens, but dun force her to be in a r/s with you if she says she is not ready for it
bt she said it was kinda fast n i may not reali noe her well enough yet???
bt i felt it was the other way round that she meant though.... -
True man.... guys and gals thinking are different... which makes it that guys can never truely understand gals and vice versa...Originally posted by Tuatau:There can be a reason for attraction, but do not equate it as a reason for love. For attraction may lead to love, but is not love.
In fact, you could tell the girl all the physical and tangible reasons why you like her, you could even list them out in an essay, a poem or a song, but one doubts she would ever be satisfied.
Why? The reason is because in most cases when a girl asks you why you like her, the point is not to find the reason why you like her, but to find the reason why she asked the question.
Guys like to think straight, they like to solve problems with direct answers, even when it comes to matters of the heart. Unfortunately, that's not usually how girls think, which makes the differences between Mars and Venus so ever tricky. -
actuali it's not me here.... it's her who's posing this question which i cant seem to give an answer to....Originally posted by angelfairy:well....seems to be shes trying to find an excuse, but ill tell u something, and tts beauty is in the eye of the beholder...its all subjective maybe u just luv the way she looks and her personality is close to urs etc -
There're really people who enjoys working... Just that we cannot live on an empty stomach...Originally posted by trajet:hmm.. Yah.. i think there're at least a reason for everything... u do good things.... there's reason.. to have good life..... u do bad things.. reason: to get easy money or other self satisfaction...... u work..reason: for money... even also in so called "true love"... A couple may tell the world they 'love each other for nothing... we just meant to be together.. we just soulmate.. etc etc' but surely there's at least A REASON for choosing him/her.. maybe becoz he thinks she's pretty/sexy and she thinks he's a future millionaire... PPL also can say "I LOVE to work/I LOVE my job"....do u think any person in this work really LOVES to work? there's a reason... money... IF not.. all ppl will work for free... Dunno.. everything happening must be becoz of something... ppl keeps changing... and maybe now only religion can control ppl's rationale.. whether it's toward good or bad..
About the part in BLUE, don't bother yourself too much over it for now.. I think it's still beyond your level for such understandings.. It's really such an in-depth thing... -
hmm, a topic worthy dor discussion...serious..Originally posted by falling_stars:Is there really a reason/explanation/motive to everything and anything in this world??
Must there be a reason to love someone??
Please share your views. Thanks
i think there need not be a reason to love someone....its the chemistry that is working behind relationship and not reason.
If everything needs to have a reason, then below, i can list a few stupid questions that you can take into consideration.
1) why am i born into this world? Motive of my parents?
2) why do we need education - coz govt said so; taking into consideration some great discoveries are made by estein who was kicked out of sch at pri 3
3) why do we need to breath??
4) if you and ur state happen to share the same bed and quarrelled, she/he ask you to wake her/he up, will you?? By calling her verbally or writing a piece of paper with the words "wake up" (bear in mind your still angry at each other)
can this things be explained??
if this things can, then what about ghost?? can you explain how they are formed?? got any equation or scienticfic edvience?? USA don't have explainations for ghost, but they did capture this on tape...Can we explain this...NO definately -
thanks everyone for all your views and contribution....
guess it's the person that i m facing that i had to come up with such a question...
Reason or no reason, love is still love... just gona be sure that one differentiate it from lust or even crush...
Cheers
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There's a reason for attraction. Your words, your behaviour and body language says it all. Attraction is not a choice but it's either the other party will be attracted to you or not attracted to you at all. But there's contributing factors and reasons as to why people are attracted to you.
As for love, it cannot be defined simply because it is the longest-lasting power ever known in this universe. It was around since way beyond the beginning of time. So, to define why you love someone is a little hard to explain through words, but rather it will proven by actions and the condition of the heart instead. Unlike attraction, love is a choice.
Feelings, are never accurate. They cannot be trusted. Trust only in wisdom and understanding so that by them, you will see the true meaning of what love is really all about.
There're reasons for everything. But there're some reasons which words alone cannot be spoken or defined. There're some reasons which only God Himself knows and us man will never get to know them. -
This is a question between the idealists and the rational..
If she keep giving excuses, it's clear she isn't ready.. So you might want to just keep your current status duo...
Or you can ask her back. "Why don't you like me?"
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its fated.
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haha... ya shld have did so tat time....Originally posted by binarynwitz:This is a question between the idealists and the rational..
If she keep giving excuses, it's clear she isn't ready.. So you might want to just keep your current status duo...
Or you can ask her back. "Why don't you like me?"
bt too late... had chose the former option so guess gona stick wif it for now -
Love = You can give up almost anything in life for the person.Originally posted by falling_stars:thanks everyone for all your views and contribution....
guess it's the person that i m facing that i had to come up with such a question...
Reason or no reason, love is still love... just gona be sure that one differentiate it from lust or even crush...
Cheers
Lust = You do anything to get that person..physically
crush = You think you wanna give up almost anything in life and do anything to get that person physcially but no action taken. -
think about this, having no reason to something, is already a reason for something
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Originally posted by coffeeortea:
Now that is "something" mental. Got to spend some time to think about that.
think about this, having no reason to something, is already a reason for something -
If you think about it, there usually is a reason/explanation for doing things or for loving someone. When all other words fail, you did it because you wanted to.
And if you care to share why you're so sad, perhaps those in AA will be more than willing to help you.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by falling_stars:Is there really a reason/explanation/motive to everything and anything in this world??
Must there be a reason to love someone??
Please share your views. Thanks -
WEll i did asked this question sometime back.Originally posted by falling_stars:thanks everyone for all your views and contribution....
guess it's the person that i m facing that i had to come up with such a question...
Reason or no reason, love is still love... just gona be sure that one differentiate it from lust or even crush...
Cheers
And i've got my answer.
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=81136 -
u did??? so wat did u get??Originally posted by M©+square:WEll i did asked this question sometime back.
And i've got my answer.
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=81136
Care to share some wif me?? -
Actualli i m not very sad la....Originally posted by FeowFeow:If you think about it, there usually is a reason/explanation for doing things or for loving someone. When all other words fail, you did it because you wanted to.
And if you care to share why you're so sad, perhaps those in AA will be more than willing to help you.
FeowFeow
Just a bit xiang bu tong...
ok think i will share some details here...
So there's this gal whom i got to know at my workplace...
We gt to know each other thru another colleague... Gt her number after a group date...
So we started going out together...
At first i didnt think i felt that much for her.... but as they say re jiu sheng qin.
Well at least i felt that way... and some how or rather i think... think la... that she's also more or less there....
then i was less than a month of knowing each other... then came my birthday... guess she gave me a surprise that day....
And on that day i asked her would she be willing to my gf.... so came her question back at me... y??
Well at least she's the first gal who didnt say no.... bt she sound confused to me at that point of time... well there are certain complications involved as well -
Hmm...i did post my thread url. You didn't read right?Originally posted by falling_stars:u did??? so wat did u get??
Care to share some wif me??
Some selective reading there.
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There's bound to be an explaination somewhere for something, doing things or for loving someone. The thing is, do we have to seek for a reason to everything? Again, what's the purpose of seeking for a reason when something already happen?Originally posted by FeowFeow:If you think about it, there usually is a reason/explanation for doing things or for loving someone. When all other words fail, you did it because you wanted to.
And if you care to share why you're so sad, perhaps those in AA will be more than willing to help you.
FeowFeow -
there is this word "because" in order to defeat the word "why"..
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Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm...i did post my thread url. You didn't read right?
Some selective reading there.
Cheers -
why are we here?
how come theres human?
whats the reason to us human being here?
why there are stars, planets blah blah blah... -
Originally posted by falling_stars:Is there really a reason/explanation/motive to everything and anything in this world??
Must there be a reason to love someone??
Please share your views. Thanks
what kind of question is this? -
What's your point here??Originally posted by digicharat:why are we here?
how come theres human?
whats the reason to us human being here?
why there are stars, planets blah blah blah... -
This is simply put a question of why?? why mux there be why??Originally posted by matrixeg:
what kind of question is this?