Lies.....
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What can u say abt a guy who lied 2 u abt wher he stays?
He told u which area,wat kinda housing etc but never the name(it's a condo).
Despite the fact dat u both alwayz hang ard dat area he's stayin and he told u it's within walkin distance....he never pointed out wher he stays...not even which direction.
When u finally decide 2 ask him the name out of curiousity,he lied.
Given the above...pls tell me the indications and then......answer this qns again when I tell u...
tis person is ur BF.
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Wat ShLd Ya Do WhEn D OnLy PeRsOn WhO cAn MaKe U sToP cRyInG iS d PeRsOn WhO mAdE u CrY? -
wah, i hear your pain...
maybe when he 1st got to know you he wanted to give you a good impression so he told he lived there?
er.... actually i dunno wat to say lah, more like dunno how to put it nicely...
he wanna be a poser to give you a good impression loh. coz u said b4 u 2 just went stead recently only mah. but then usually if ppl do this they do not intend for the relationship to last long and regard it as just a fling.
ask him lah. that's the only thing i can say.
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haiz..really pity u.. i agree wif kof-guy that this guy onli wan a fling n not serious wif u, so i suggest that u leave him as u nv noe wat else he lied to u abt.. last time i had a bf who also lied to me abt small small minor things...i just pretended as if i dunno anything loh, but in the end guess wat? i realise he actually zao sai me.. haiz.. that one cannot tahan, so break loh.. i mean haiz.. he lied to u once, surely there's a second third n fourth time...
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even if it's juz a fling,is ther a need 2 lie abt d name of ur home?I juz dun understand...
from d start...there were many things which I doubt..but i juz dunno y..I chose 2b naive.
When i tink of how he devoted all his weekends to me(he's in NS) & how he called me for more than 2hrs on his hp everyday without fail,I kept tellin myself it shld be real.I'm dat easily contented.
In fact,there r other guys who did MUCH MUCH more..but I dunno wat went wrong in me..dat I onli had strong feelings 4 him. I've never compared him 2 them or wished he could b like them.I've only asked for 1 thing so far..for my no. to be sticked onto the helmet he bought 4 me.
Kof..u shld noe how easily dat could b done..but yet,my wish was not granted. My ex actually got my no. sprayed onto his bike & I didn't even asked 4 dat!
Was i wrong 2 trust him?Was I wrong 2 follow my feelings?Wat more do I need 2 do 2 make him appreciate me more??
If onli he would answer me......
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Wat ShLd Ya Do WhEn D OnLy PeRsOn WhO cAn MaKe U sToP cRyInG iS d PeRsOn WhO mAdE u CrY? -
cheer up........u r still in honeymoon period....and u find out this and that...tt spells t.r.o.u.b.l.e i m not saying anything laR...but gurls r always at the losing end...my urge to u....becareful....
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yah..lucky still honeymoon period...I won't use the word "LOVE" to describe my feelings for him,I juz like him alot..but I've done quite alot for him..doin wat i shld be doing as a gf..mayb even 2 much...
I had plans 2 study overseas in my dream sch..but he asked me to stay.Eventually,I chose 2 stay.For him.Now,I hav 2 wait a yr more for the next intake.A yr more!!Dat was such a foolish mistake.
why make a girl do such a big sacriface when u knew it would onli be a fling...
it jus hurts dat I realli feel i've done nothing wrong but this is wat i've got in return....
Lost my trust for guys ....
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Wat ShLd Ya Do WhEn D OnLy PeRsOn WhO cAn MaKe U sToP cRyInG iS d PeRsOn WhO mAdE u CrY? -
Maybe u can ask him why he lie to you.
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he got guts 2 hav a fling,but bo chee 2 tok to me.Originally posted by ShunLi:Maybe u can ask him why he lie to you.
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hi snowball.. from wat i think its bcos he juz wanna fling wif u and dun wanna let u noe his add bcos hes afraid tat u will pester him and go to his hse everyday to ask 4 forgiveness when he breaks off wif u...so he has to lie abt his hm to prevent u fr cuming to his hse to pester him..i thinks this is the ans y he lied to u..u can ask him..its a definate ans 4 sure... dun b sad anyway... cheer up
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seriously speakin..if u were the one have a fling....would u dare to tell him? its not like i'm supportin or helpin him..its the truth lorz....but when he didn't tell u where he stays u could smelled a rat alreadi...anyways wats over is over juz cheer up eh..there r tons of good folks around ;POriginally posted by snowball72:he got guts 2 hav a fling,but bo chee 2 tok to me. -
Sorry that you have to go through the agony of finding your love 1 is lieing to you...
Sorry, but I'm a little of track, how do you know he's having a fling with you? Most guys would do crazy things to impress a gal they like you know.... etc: lie about status and stuff.... So it may not necessory mean he treats this as a fling.
But then again, a guy that wants his stead to give up a chance to furthur her studies... is wellll...... selfish and unworth dieing over for. Juz my opinion....
Hope all clouds clear over your head soon.
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tell this guy to go to hell!!!!
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i cross my heart and dare 2 say I had never did anythin wrong which needs his forgiveness.On wat grounds is he goin to initiate a breakup wif me?He juz *poof* and disppeared like dat.Patchup has never crossed my mind,a heartless guy is not wat I wan.I onli wanted a tok..2 ask him why.Originally posted by Christopher Tan:hi snowball.. from wat i think its bcos he juz wanna fling wif u and dun wanna let u noe his add bcos hes afraid tat u will pester him and go to his hse everyday to ask 4 forgiveness when he breaks off wif u...so he has to lie abt his hm to prevent u fr cuming to his hse to pester him..i thinks this is the ans y he lied to u..u can ask him..its a definate ans 4 sure... dun b sad anyway... cheer up
He liked a song but couldn't find the album cos it's an old old song.I searched high and low and I finally found it after close to 2 wks.I intended 2 hav the album sent 2 his home..wher he least expected it, as a surprise for our first month anni.
That was when I found out,the address he gave me doesn't exist.
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U must b really hurt, this I knw, but did u ever questioned him why he lied to u, mayb his parents want him to keep it frm u loh, or some other reasons which could b forgiven. But if he did it on purpose, it's no use to trust him anymore and it's better if both of u part. Mayb I'm too direct, but it's reality loh...Originally posted by snowball72:i cross my heart and dare 2 say I had never did anythin wrong which needs his forgiveness.On wat grounds is he goin to initiate a breakup wif me?He juz *poof* and disppeared like dat.Patchup has never crossed my mind,a heartless guy is not wat I wan.I onli wanted a tok..2 ask him why.
He liked a song but couldn't find the album cos it's an old old song.I searched high and low and I finally found it after close to 2 wks.I intended 2 hav the album sent 2 his home..wher he least expected it, as a surprise for our first month anni.
That was when I found out,the address he gave me doesn't exist.
Can u feel my pain?
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
cheer up girl.
at least you know the truth now.
if u really wanna get things to settle, get a few friends to search for him, his camp, unit blah blah, in NS almost everyone is connected.
can even ask me, 99% of my frens are in NS now. some quite tua ki too.
but, that's still pointless. you wanna ask him out and hear his reason, you're actually hoping that it's not because he wants to hurt you, that maybe you'll hear a good explaination and so you can forgive him.
not worth it.
even if you do manage to find him, and get him to talk with you, what then? whatever he say would hurt you, be it the truth or just more lies.
i know you'll feel very bei gum wan to just let it pass like this, to let him disappear without even a word, but it's better this way. better than being hurt even more. -
wat u tried to do for him was very sweet... be glad that u found tis out early...could u imagine wat if tis drags even longer? i knoe wat tis pain feels like..... but i think u should not ask him further since he alreadi did tis to u.....dun bother findin him it would cause more lies to surface and causin more pain.....juz take tis as a lesson learnt.......Originally posted by snowball72:i cross my heart and dare 2 say I had never did anythin wrong which needs his forgiveness.On wat grounds is he goin to initiate a breakup wif me?He juz *poof* and disppeared like dat.Patchup has never crossed my mind,a heartless guy is not wat I wan.I onli wanted a tok..2 ask him why.
He liked a song but couldn't find the album cos it's an old old song.I searched high and low and I finally found it after close to 2 wks.I intended 2 hav the album sent 2 his home..wher he least expected it, as a surprise for our first month anni.
That was when I found out,the address he gave me doesn't exist.
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tat's sad... very sad... i remember the time when i was younger, when i had a gf, she and i would just sit at the void-deck and talk all day. i never dare to ask her for her address becos i knew i would be going to drop little presents outside her door or something...
Hey, by the way, why you all girls so anxious to know where your stead is staying? DUn worry lar, i telling you now. Confirm one, when you all steady and stable liao, he sure bring you go one, you know why? There no better place for sex. <- It's the cold hard truth.
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Why you girls always so 'gan jong'? This type of thing also kick a big fuss. Tell you something, when you all in a relationship stable and suitable enuff, you dun need to ask, he also will you all to his house. You know why? There's no place like home for sex <- The Cold Hard Truth.
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well... can be many reasons lah, maybe one thing is he "brain spoilt", hahaha...Originally posted by Snowball@)---:What can u say abt a guy who lied 2 u abt wher he stays?
He told u which area,wat kinda housing etc but never the name(it's a condo).
Despite the fact dat u both alwayz hang ard dat area he's stayin and he told u it's within walkin distance....he never pointed out wher he stays...not even which direction.
When u finally decide 2 ask him the name out of curiousity,he lied.
Given the above...pls tell me the indications and then......answer this qns again when I tell u...
tis person is ur BF.
If he still don tell u.. maybe he wanna act rich? Skally he stays those old lousy HDB, but wants face, so bluff u he stay condo? hmmm can be many reasons lor... -
Ohh paiseh, i never read abt the "Disappear" thingy, hmm... maybe he accident? now in coffin liao? hahaha hard to say wor~ Joking nia lah, hehe
Well, not say all guys in this world is cannot be trusted. Just that why u all so devoted to lousy guys????? Good guys like me no people want, *sigh* sianz man, hehehe (OK LAR OK LAR JOKING NIA MAI FLAME MAI FLAME~~! heheheh
So he MIA ha? So u oso MIA lor... hmmm.. tough its kinda of heart broken to have someone u loved to just disappear like that, but bo bian... maybe next time u wanna go a new stead, b4 agreeing, take down all the particulars from the IC 1st, haha like that then insured mah~ -
u guys ever felt that alot of relationships r always one sided?
as in one would love and appreciate the other one more.....neber the same
one would always be bad temperred and the partner would be mild tempered, one would start to get grumpy when his or her partner neber call her for the whole day, but the other will not, and finally, there is only one giving in...at least not all,but most of the time,
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Kof: Actually I hav a good fren in the same camp as him.I did tot of askin my fren 2 find him.But I aso know given my fren's character and how much he dotes me,he confirm beat the guy up one.But wat's the point?The pain he'll be goin thru will be diff from mine...and I dun wan my fren tio charge as well.So,I decided 2 drop the idea of findin him aleadi.
ZecHs: Tiz is a bery painful lesson leh...one which i got injured & dunno why.No medic 2 help me either....
But i realised and found some realli nice ppl who r willing 2 listen 2 me,give me advices.All those very very nice ppl who's nick has appeared on tis topic,I'm very touched.
Francis: I tink a coffin is too comfy 4 him liao!! Lousy guys occupy the majority issit?Then why I so sway pick one?
Ah_Tee: u r rite...always one person who'll give more & the other take more.Here u hav a silly gal giving in 2 a lousy guy lor.
Tink of it,realli buay gum wan lor.But wat can I do?Nurture myself into a heartless person like him and forget everything lor.
But the god damn thing is,almost everything I see or hear reminds me something abt him!!
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liew~~~ read racetrack oso?? or see my post irritate u?
haiz... good guy hard to find... but... same goes for gurls... gd thing hard to find...
u relac...err don think so much laR... i think tt 'baby laffin'.gif suits u now.. i send u bk
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be stable in a relationship b4 putting your feelings in...
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cos go race track everything gotta do wif bikes..so will tink of him lor...see ur nick lagi worse...hiaz...TZM.... :p Actually I find the babylaffin bery eerie leh..Originally posted by ^TzM 53^:liew~~~ read racetrack oso?? or see my post irritate u?
haiz... good guy hard to find... but... same goes for gurls... gd thing hard to find...
u relac...err don think so much laR... i think tt 'baby laffin'.gif suits u now.. i send u bk
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hiaz...i say good guys hard 2 find..u say good gals hard 2 find....but when a girl is nice 2 a guy,the guy dun appreciate it.He only know how to say "dear,u r very sweet" when i do something for him...but say only lor...sometimes,dun even say anything.
But stil,I've not regretted wat I've done 4 him cos at least I know I'm not at fault dat tiz has 2 end such a way.Jus his problem!
ah_tee...I onli know i like him,he's my bf,I've to trust him...and I'm big girl liao..the days of "stead" is over...now is "bf".Relationshio no trust how 2 grow?I wun show how serious I am abt him cos I wouldn't wan him 2 take me 4 granted...but deep down inside my heart,I've already commited myself.I dunno how 2 talik my feelings one leh...