Lies.....
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AHEM... That's MY APARTMENT you're talking about there...? SnowBall> DO RECONSIDER about this 'proposal' of FireIce..?? :pOriginally posted by FireIce:tell this guy to go to hell!!!! -
TWO thoughts came to my mind... INSECURITY or UNCERTAINTY....
Though situation MIGHT be suggestive that it could be a FLING that he's having on his mind, you can never be too sure... In other words, there're no DIRECT implications that that's what he's having on his mind...
No point 'making up' (imagining?) the other 80% of the story when you ONLY know perhaps a 20% of it...? LIKELIHOOD may not turn out to be REALITY in many instances...
I SUGGEST you getting to UNDERSTAND him better... But if you're simply tired of the relationship or find no point in it... Perhaps you would like to have a CLEAR CUT..? And as you're going along that train of thought, a 2nd thought never occur to you about it.... I GUESS the CHOICE is pretty OBVIOUS...?
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In LIGHT I shall FEAR NOT. FOR what I AM is CUT so DEEP inside of ME.
I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
DEVIL PHRASE I
I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
snowball,Originally posted by snowball72:Relationshio no trust how 2 grow?I wun show how serious I am abt him cos I wouldn't wan him 2 take me 4 granted
i know trust is important but let your trust grow as the days go by, dun one shot put it in, the same goes for feelings, go slow, he maybe be wif u for days, he maybe wif u for yrs, u wont know, if u gonna put everything in one shot, u will fall, bery bery deep, n it is harder for u to pull yourself up, he wont take u for granted if he is the right type of guy looking for a right type of relationship...
it may take seconds to get a person 's name
but it will take years to know him....deep -
Snowball72,
Really impressed by all the things that you did manz... looking for something that took almost 2 weeks. I'm not talking about the period of time lorz.. but the amount of effort... MOreover it's really sad thing to see the results turn out this way... =( Really wonder when will a girl do such things for me... think I can dream on...
Ah_tee,
Agree that it will take forever to know someone, be it your gf who will become your wife one day. Till very day that you cease to exist, you have still yet to know her totally.
Devil1976,
that was a good one... really cracked me up amidst my pile of work, commitments and loneliness here manz... =)
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my dear devil...I mentioned dat he has disappeared liao leh....why u make me repeat dat?Bery sad ya know?How 2 ask him?how 2 understand him?u read all the postings in tis topic again lor...Snowball@)--- and snowball72 is the same person..which is ME!!..
has he paid u a visit at ur apartment?Take care of him leh....dun give him a chance 2 go 2 heaven
oh yah!! so i noe his real address now liao lor...kekeke...
AH TEE.....some things easier said then done...wat u advising me,i told myself b4..but still...hiaz..i haven master dat stage yet leh..always tink of bf first then tink abt myself..
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sad to say, no relationship is fair,until now i dunno whether it is a gd thing giving in or not
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If you know his REAL ADDRESS now why don't you find out MORE if you bother to? If you don't bother to then FORGET it lah... Afterall, though I cannot promise you a happy ending... I can't guarantee to you that it won't be a sad ending too...?Originally posted by snowball72:my dear devil...I mentioned dat he has disappeared liao leh....why u make me repeat dat?Bery sad ya know?How 2 ask him?how 2 understand him?u read all the postings in tis topic again lor...Snowball@)--- and snowball72 is the same person..which is ME!!..
has he paid u a visit at ur apartment?Take care of him leh....dun give him a chance 2 go 2 heaven
oh yah!! so i noe his real address now liao lor...kekeke...
AH TEE.....some things easier said then done...wat u advising me,i told myself b4..but still...hiaz..i haven master dat stage yet leh..always tink of bf first then tink abt myself..
You've have decided that you've cried enough (laugh enough?) and just wanna go on with life, PLEASE go ahead... No point looking back and counting your 'LOSSES' all the time...? By the way... What's your star?
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In LIGHT I shall FEAR NOT. FOR what I AM is CUT so DEEP inside of ME.
I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
DEVIL PHRASE I
I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
HMM.... ~PonderZ..~
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In LIGHT I shall FEAR NOT. FOR what I AM is CUT so DEEP inside of ME.
I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
DEVIL PHRASE I
I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
Hmmm so no coffins for him! Just a garbage plastic bag and throw into the pile of mud hahaha no lah, joking. Then he oso race track regular ah? What nick, say leh... hehe *just asking, u can keep it as privacy lah*Originally posted by snowball72:Kof: Actually I hav a good fren in the same camp as him.I did tot of askin my fren 2 find him.But I aso know given my fren's character and how much he dotes me,he confirm beat the guy up one.But wat's the point?The pain he'll be goin thru will be diff from mine...and I dun wan my fren tio charge as well.So,I decided 2 drop the idea of findin him aleadi.
ZecHs: Tiz is a bery painful lesson leh...one which i got injured & dunno why.No medic 2 help me either....
But i realised and found some realli nice ppl who r willing 2 listen 2 me,give me advices.All those very very nice ppl who's nick has appeared on tis topic,I'm very touched.
Francis: I tink a coffin is too comfy 4 him liao!! Lousy guys occupy the majority issit?Then why I so sway pick one?
Ah_Tee: u r rite...always one person who'll give more & the other take more.Here u hav a silly gal giving in 2 a lousy guy lor.
Tink of it,realli buay gum wan lor.But wat can I do?Nurture myself into a heartless person like him and forget everything lor.
But the god damn thing is,almost everything I see or hear reminds me something abt him!!
Even reading Race Track.....hiaz.. SAD! -
he juz reads...he no post one...juz like me ..read half a yr liao then register.Originally posted by TZR:Hmmm so no coffins for him! Just a garbage plastic bag and throw into the pile of mud hahaha no lah, joking. Then he oso race track regular ah? What nick, say leh... hehe *just asking, u can keep it as privacy lah*
devil..the address I said i know liao...I'm referring 2 ur apartment lor...so i suppose u know much better then i do??
my star saggitaurus.
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found out the true reason y he lie yet?
apart from wad the pple say here?
if not ,wad do u yourself think? -
wah liew u wan ppl to bring up her sad past again ar ;POriginally posted by ah_tee:found out the true reason y he lie yet?
apart from wad the pple say here?
if not ,wad do u yourself think? -
ah_tee bein concern mah..hor? Or juz bein k-po? hehe..Originally posted by ZecHs:wah liew u wan ppl to bring up her sad past again ar ;P
got u guys listening 2 me,helpin me,me cheered up alot liao lah...realli...all thanx to u guys who replied...
inside my heart..stil hurt lor..dunno when I can get over it...2day ur bf...tmr disappear..how 2 take it?I'm stil after his reason or excuse...at least tell me why..no need face-to-face..phone,SMS or email aso can...dat's all i ask for... -
lai lah nxt time i bring u go peh peh. we enjoy the wind, hahahah
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vroom...tingtingtingtingti...vroom~ -
hmm..really feel ur pain leh.. that time i also kana the same thing as u.. my ex also lied to me abt silly minor things that i really got no ideas y he lied to me.u mentioned that u realised that he lied to u by the first month, so i supposed its gd also lah..at least before u commit too much.. now i guess there's nothing u can do except to calm urself down n forget him.. u can say that u hate him, but deep down inside ur heart are u sure that u hate him? i took half a yr to forget my ex..that time when i noe he cheated me ah, i cried till eyes swell nv go sch..cannot eat cannot slp.. now i also ok liao.. got a caring bf! ur right man is waiting for u ahead.. so move on.. dun be despair!~ somemore i think i more jialat.. mine is first love leh..
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i forgot to tell u that hmm..i think it's quite pointless to go n approach him in any manner to make him tell u y he left u w/o a word..if he wanna tell u, he would haf told u long ago.really, u are just telling him that u cannot forget him.. wang le ta ba.. bu zhi de!!
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joanne...maybe he dunno how 2 tell me?dat's why left without sayin? I tok 2 a fren last nite...she said there shld be a reason lor..try 2 ask if i can...
all along we were perfectly gettin on well..no problems,quarrels or watsoever..
but all of a sudden...friday went out..see movies,held hands...etc..everything as usual...then suddenly..... it's 2 sudden 4 me 2 take it..
we were even plannin 2 go somewher on his block leave..which is this thursday....
now....wondering if he's planning wif someone else...
i jus can't beleive he can be so heartless..
Kof.....u everytime tell me go peh peh...
i know u single-seater lor..then?Itake cab follow u behind huh? and smell ur exhaust??
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~Stirring coffee...~ My apartment's a HELL of a place.. Not a suitable condition for humans to live in....Originally posted by snowball72:he juz reads...he no post one...juz like me ..read half a yr liao then register.
devil..the address I said i know liao...I'm referring 2 ur apartment lor...so i suppose u know much better then i do??
my star saggitaurus.
[This message has been edited by snowball72 (edited 02 October 2001).]
Can I ask you something..? Are you 29 this year...? Can't believe it.... Saggitaurus... Is this bf your 1st? Or maybe the 1st that you truly loved...?
Your age range should be between 21-33..? I wish to talk to you in person one of these days...? If not e-mail will do..? -> [email protected] Just would like to discuss with you about 'some things' in your life...? And perhaps at the same time understand your situation a bit better...? Do you know that between 24-32 is USUALLY the 'PROMINENT period' for a SAGI to undergo an EXTREME change? I wish to understand why this phase actually happens and why it's ALMOST IRREVERSIBLE? And I can tell you... It's a PRETTY SAD STORY.... Just wish to find out WHY and perhaps WAYs to PREVENT this PHENOMENON..? That's all..?
Hope you'll be willing to share... YES... Such GREAT DIFFERENCE it makes...?
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In LIGHT I shall FEAR NOT. FOR what I AM is CUT so DEEP inside of ME.
I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
DEVIL PHRASE I
I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
AHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAOriginally posted by snowball72:Kof.....u everytime tell me go peh peh...
i know u single-seater lor..then?Itake cab follow u behind huh? and smell ur exhaust??
nvm mah u ask the rest, i got a spare "cushion" ^^
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vroom...tingtingtingtingti...vroom~ -
u mean spare-tyre?? hahaha....Originally posted by kof-guy:AHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
nvm mah u ask the rest, i got a spare "cushion" ^^
devil..c'mon lah...72 is onli my code..me not dat old lah...1980 one..
so does dat hav any effect on ur prediction??
btw guys..thru my own means...I've got his address.But i'm pondering...
shld i go find him 2 get the answer out from him 2 end my queries and tie a knot 2 everything..
or shld I juz forget abt the whole thing since wat he's goin 2 tell me may not be true? -
aiya just forget about him lah, this kinda guy not worth the effort...
me got no spare tyre! (actually got lah,but very small. vespa oso cannot use hahah) spare tyre must find.... IVAN! yea must find ivan! ^_^
my 'cushion' is my kam por hehhee. lazy to buy pillion cushion, so i use netting tie the kam por to my rear seat ^_^
this sat wanna come?
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vroom...tingtingtingtingti...vroom~ -
ehh u donnoe aR...somethings cannot buy one leh... sometype of spare tyres cannot buy leh.... hor snowball?Originally posted by kof-guy:aiya just forget about him lah, this kinda guy not worth the effort...
me got no spare tyre! (actually got lah,but very small. vespa oso cannot use hahah) spare tyre must find.... IVAN! yea must find ivan! ^_^
my 'cushion' is my kam por hehhee. lazy to buy pillion cushion, so i use netting tie the kam por to my rear seat ^_^
this sat wanna come? if saterday u wanna go i don mind fetching u lah...but not bike lah....heehee
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H0|d Me,H0|d mE...NeVeR |eT Me g0 UnTi| U'vE To|d mE..t0|d Me...Wh@t | w@nT T0 kNoW @nd Th@n JuSt H0|d Me h0|d mE MaKe ME Te|| u I'm |N |0VE W|F Y0U -
~Stirring coffee...~ My apartment's a HELL of a place.. Not a suitable condition for humans to live in....Originally posted by Devil1976:[QUOTE]Originally posted by snowball72:
[b] he juz reads...he no post one...juz like me ..read half a yr liao then register.
devil..the address I said i know liao...I'm referring 2 ur apartment lor...so i suppose u know much better then i do??
my star saggitaurus.
[This message has been edited by snowball72 (edited 02 October 2001).]
Can I ask you something..? Are you 29 this year...? Can't believe it.... Saggitaurus... Is this bf your 1st? Or maybe the 1st that you truly loved...?
Your age range should be between 21-33..? I wish to talk to you in person one of these days...? If not e-mail will do..? -> [email protected] Just would like to discuss with you about 'some things' in your life...? And perhaps at the same time understand your situation a bit better...? Do you know that between 24-32 is USUALLY the 'PROMINENT period' for a SAGI to undergo an EXTREME change? I wish to understand why this phase actually happens and why it's ALMOST IRREVERSIBLE? And I can tell you... It's a PRETTY SAD STORY.... Just wish to find out WHY and perhaps WAYs to PREVENT this PHENOMENON..? That's all..?
Hope you'll be willing to share... YES... Such GREAT DIFFERENCE it makes...?
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hmmm....buaya? u all decide! heehee *joke nia...devil mai tulan wor~~*
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H0|d Me,H0|d mE...NeVeR |eT Me g0 UnTi| U'vE To|d mE..t0|d Me...Wh@t | w@nT T0 kNoW @nd Th@n JuSt H0|d Me h0|d mE MaKe ME Te|| u I'm |N |0VE W|F Y0U -
Seriously, I don't really understand why a guy must lie about where's he staying from his gf-to-be. This could only go to show that he is up to something. What is it, sorry. I'm not too sure.
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lidat won't slide off meh??Originally posted by kof-guy:aiya just forget about him lah, this kinda guy not worth the effort...
me got no spare tyre! (actually got lah,but very small. vespa oso cannot use hahah) spare tyre must find.... IVAN! yea must find ivan! ^_^
my 'cushion' is my kam por hehhee. lazy to buy pillion cushion, so i use netting tie the kam por to my rear seat ^_^
this sat wanna come?
Ivan...wat the hell happen 2 ur bike AGAIN??