I dun mean to be harsh on u.(But i really am harsh)
i believe tat most of us tat has reply to u has somewat rather similar experiences,well tat's part n parcel of growing up.tho it's one hell to go through.
i dun really agree to the point where some guys asking u to apologise to R or being nice to ur future gf friends.
i been tho a 4 yrs relationship breakup n trust me,get off ur gf's back for now.
girls never did like a WUSS,next time when u fall for someone,dun me a wuss no more man
quote taken from a magazine:
Most guys can't get over their need for instant
gratification.
The reality is that men and women have some key
differences when it comes to how they experience
ATTRACTION.
Men have an "On/Off" switch, and women have a
"Volume Knob".
Men want gratification NOW, and can't grasp the
concept that women have a more complex internal
"Attraction Mechanism" that needs to be turned up
gradually... and in specific ways.
You have internalized and "gotten" the idea
that teasing, leaning back, and not taking
advantage of offers from women lead to them
wanting you MORE... not less.
2) Most guys don't know how to spark ATTRACTION or
recognize sexual tension or "chemistry"... thus
the friend's comments of "she's not into you" and
him telling the girl that "he'd be nicer",
thinking she'd somehow like him for that.
The reality is that for most men, the concept
of ATTRACTION is a complete mystery.
They don't understand chemistry or sexual
tension, and they wouldn't recognize it in a
million years.
Further, whenever most guys feel ANY kind of
"tension" in a situation with a woman, they do
whatever they can to RELEASE the tension...
I always love it when I'm playing with a girl
and teasing her, and some guy says, "Oh, he
doesn't mean it". I always say, "Yeah I mean it"
in a serious, sarcastic tone.
Most men just don't get that women are not
attracted to ASS KISSING behavior.
Ever.
There is an important concept that you need to
understand when it comes to making women feel a
powerful ATTRACTION and AROUSAL...
That concept is called ANTICIPATION.
Most men don't like anticipation.
We want what we want NOW. Not later... NOW.
Women enjoy ANTICIPATION.
Women like to think about things happening and
imagine what they'd be like... and even sort of
"tease themselves" with ideas of what might
happen.
Women really enjoy the PROCESS of being teased,
when it's done in the right way.
Just my 2 cents
