what if the gal u like is of a different religion from u?
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Will guys still go after gals who are of a different religion from them?
For eg. if ur gf is a Christian, and the guy is a Buddhist.
I dun mind.
I m only afraid the gal i like may mind. -
it doesn't matter to me.. im a free thinker..
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certain religion are like O+ blood type.
other relgions are like AB- blood type. -
so troublesome
both oso be free-thinker lah
or agnostic oso can -
facing this prob
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Do not advice so.. unless you want to convert to christian. Why ? most church promote this. While Buddhist done.
Don't be naive, when they say we can compromise.. it's bullshit. They will try all means to convert you, with all the church Bro and Sis.
The best tactic is that she wants a church wedding... mati lah .. a choice statement.
Like me I can't stand going to church... -
You love someone for who they are or what religion they believe in?Originally posted by MobyDog:Do not advice so.. unless you want to convert to christian. Why ? most church promote this. While Buddhist done.
Don't be naive, when they say we can compromise.. it's bullshit. They will try all means to convert you, with all the church Bro and Sis.
The best tactic is that she wants a church wedding... mati lah .. a choice statement.
Like me I can't stand going to church...
You can't force someone to be in a religion they don't believe in. -
I think if you don't intend, or are not willing to convert, then you can go find someone else liao ... I mean, just look at some of the postings that appear in SGforums every now and then, the ones that goes "Hi, looking for gals, Christians only ", what does that tell you ? ...Originally posted by dokono:Will guys still go after gals who are of a different religion from them?
For eg. if ur gf is a Christian, and the guy is a Buddhist.
I dun mind.
I m only afraid the gal i like may mind.
That is the impression i got, I'll be glad to be proved wrong ...
good luck bro ... -
One of the reasons why i hate religion.
Religion is created by the weak-minds to control the weak-minds who leaves everything to "God" while not fighting for things themselves. Corruption of the mind.
Religion is the least of problems in a relationship. There would be problems that's more serious. So start worrying about that, and not this. -
if it is wif muslim u have to convert liao...
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Muslim and Christianity you have to convert. For Buddhisim, you no need to.
Well, if it's only bgr, I won't convert. Nothing is confirmed unless going to get married then if you REALLY love her, I think I will convert but won't be a devoted one (of course I won't tell her that). Since, afterall, I converted not because of the love of the religion or I believe (not say don't believe lah) in it, but only because I love her. -
like the ger or like the religion? u decide...
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Nicely saidOriginally posted by ETboy:like the ger or like the religion? u decide...
but some religion & practrise of thoughts can't accept this way... 
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we see here as the girl is a christian.
the guy is buddhist or....
Girls takes religion very seriously... so where church and sunday mornings are concerned......
well... -
Imagine the world without religion and politics. Very much more peaceful.
In any case, if she really loves you, she wouldn't try to convert you. But you have to tolerate her religious acts like going to church (all the crap). And if you're intolerant of religion like me, then i guess you better reconsider. But it shouldn't be a main problem, like i said in my previous reply. -
x1Originally posted by twiggies:it doesn't matter to me.. im a free thinker.. -
x2Originally posted by Linkage:x1 
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Originally posted by binarynwitz:
Agreed.
[b]Imagine the world without religion and politics. Very much more peaceful.
In any case, if she really loves you, she wouldn't try to convert you. But you have to tolerate her religious acts like going to church (all the crap). And if you're intolerant of religion like me, then i guess you better reconsider. But it shouldn't be a main problem, like i said in my previous reply.[/b]
Just be a little more tolerant towards the religion...
Unlike me... pretend to seriously hate all religions just so that people won't keep trying to convert me...
In the end... it all boils down to you -
actually problem doesn't lie with the party already intending to tolerate...
but can u tolerate a partner who cannot accept, or understand your own religion?
Values system is very important in a rship
and religion is something that people build their values on
and it is also a lifestyle for some
do deeply entrenched in their beliefs, culture, way of life,
that it is impossible to separate the person and the religion -
she ask u to be a chirstian how?Originally posted by twiggies:it doesn't matter to me.. im a free thinker.. 
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Put it simply, religion controls how someone thinks. Some for the good, some for the bad. Corruption of the mind.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:actually problem doesn't lie with the party already intending to tolerate...
but can u tolerate a partner who cannot accept, or understand your own religion?
Values system is very important in a rship
and religion is something that people build their values on
and it is also a lifestyle for some
do deeply entrenched in their beliefs, culture, way of life,
that it is impossible to separate the person and the religion -
hannor hannor.. really dun understand.. just talk to my colleague about it that time.....Originally posted by 105090:we see here as the girl is a christian.
the guy is buddhist or....
Girls takes religion very seriously... so where church and sunday mornings are concerned......
well...
she behind her deadline for some report.. work till 12am on sat still cannot finished... then still thinking about going to church on sun.... i ask her to think which is more important lor.. 1 week dun go church will die meh? pray in office also can one what... but the report not done she die lor.. everytime like that sure kena fired one..
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dun see there will be a problem if both respect each religion right ?
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Here! Practical example. Throw religion away people.Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):hannor hannor.. really dun understand.. just talk to my colleague about it that time.....
she behind her deadline for some report.. work till 12am on sat still cannot finished... then still thinking about going to church on sun.... i ask her to think which is more important lor.. 1 week dun go church will die meh? pray in office also can one what... but the report not done she die lor.. everytime like that sure kena fired one.. -
Hey, in this case, most probably the gal would mind...but u can ask her opinions about different religion, therefore u wun "waste" ur timeOriginally posted by dokono:Will guys still go after gals who are of a different religion from them?
For eg. if ur gf is a Christian, and the guy is a Buddhist.
I dun mind.
I m only afraid the gal i like may mind.