worth a friend or not?
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sure many people confronted this problem before.
friends who don't reply your sms or msn.
to u, they are your friend. when they need your help, they reply ur msn.
other time, they ignored u.
but, if u meet each other face to face, they are a difference person. they are friendly and talk to you.
They never ask you out or contact you other than the time you met each other(and the meeting is arranged by other friend, let's say, a friend of yours and him is the one who asked both of you out)
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don't quite understand..
i suppose you're saying "hi-bye" or "fair weather" friend eh..
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not a "hi-bye" friend, but a friend you have known for almost a year or more.
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A year only?Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:not a "hi-bye" friend, but a friend you have known for almost a year or more.
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sometimes we are surrounded by diff circles of frds de lah, its hard to maintain tip top conditions for all frds one mah...Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:sure many people confronted this problem before.
friends who don't reply your sms or msn.
to u, they are your friend. when they need your help, they reply ur msn.
other time, they ignored u.
but, if u meet each other face to face, they are a difference person. they are friendly and talk to you.
They never ask you out or contact you other than the time you met each other(and the meeting is arranged by other friend, let's say, a friend of yours and him is the one who asked both of you out)
is this kind of friend worth being a friend? should we not continue this meaningless friendship? -
Originally posted by hopy:sometimes we are surrounded by diff circles of frds de lah, its hard to maintain tip top conditions for all frds one mah...
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ahh.. i have these kind of friends as well..
but hey, rather more friends than enemies eh..
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cheers cheersOriginally posted by M©+square:
Cheers
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when i was in the college, i was in the class consist of only 17 people, smallest class in the college ever. Even tho we are nice to each other, i really felt so left out. whenever they organized party or go anywhere together, everybody will be invited except me. I mean, is this type of classmate worth being a friend?
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hv u ever thout of why u r left out?Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:when i was in the college, i was in the class consist of only 17 people, smallest class in the college ever. Even tho we are nice to each other, i really felt so left out. whenever they organized party or go anywhere together, everybody will be invited except me. I mean, is this type of classmate worth being a friend? -
Wait wait...before you proceed any further to complain about friendship and people around.Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:when i was in the college, i was in the class consist of only 17 people, smallest class in the college ever. Even tho we are nice to each other, i really felt so left out. whenever they organized party or go anywhere together, everybody will be invited except me. I mean, is this type of classmate worth being a friend?
Could you share what you would do to a friend. Or what you have done to your classmates as friends?
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im left out cos i don't have my own transport as in you know.. car, bike.. and in sg, without these, people tend to "look down" on you..Originally posted by hopy:hv u ever thout of why u r left out?
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err... then think i better stay @ home man...Originally posted by twiggies:im left out cos i don't have my own transport as in you know.. car, bike.. and in sg, without these, people tend to "look down" on you.. -
i got one good friend after lend him $50 he than don't dare to ans my call or sms. so i now never lend money to friend.
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50 dollars is a good price to reveal the true test of friendship.Originally posted by kenlim81:i got one good friend after lend him $50 he than don't dare to ans my call or sms. so i now never lend money to friend.
Congrats! Some have spent their fortune to test it.
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Originally posted by hopy:err... then think i better stay @ home man...
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I have done nothing to offence them. They are not offenced to me and we have clean record for each other. I think most probably is just because I'm boring sometimes. One of my friends (not the classmates) has told me directly that sometimes I am boring when i talked. That friend of mine is still very close to me.Originally posted by M©+square:Wait wait...before you proceed any further to complain about friendship and people around.
Could you share what you would do to a friend. Or what you have done to your classmates as friends?
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no. but it doesn't hurt to be/act friendly and help out if you can.
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I have answered your question by answering M©+square's question..Originally posted by hopy:hv u ever thout of why u r left out? -
To whom are you answering?Originally posted by Ito_^:no. but it doesn't hurt to be/act friendly and help out if you can. -
With due respect.Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:I have done nothing to offence them. They are not offenced to me and we have clean record for each other. I think most probably is just because I'm boring sometimes. One of my friends (not the classmates) has told me directly that sometimes I am boring when i talked. That friend of mine is still very close to me.
I think the problem may not exactly lie on your friends. Hence the topic title is not suitable.
I'm not sure what could be the reason, it might be social skills? The manner you hold your conversation? In fact, the suspectable issue is Ren Yuan.
No matter what, try to make effort first as a friend first ok?
All friends are worthy, if you know how to bring the best out of themselves.
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buy lollipops for your friendsOriginally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:I have done nothing to offence them. They are not offenced to me and we have clean record for each other. I think most probably is just because I'm boring sometimes. One of my friends (not the classmates) has told me directly that sometimes I am boring when i talked. That friend of mine is still very close to me. -
Sorry because the title is not suitable. The manner I hold my conversation? I'm not talkative. That's the fact many of my friends and teacher told me. They say I am very quiet at times. But if i talk, i can see they are not so interested in it. most probably because like what of my friend say, i talked 'boringly' If it's because of my Ren Yuan, how do build them up then?Originally posted by M©+square:With due respect.
I think the problem may not exactly lie on your friends. Hence the topic title is not suitable.
I'm not sure what could be the reason, it might be social skills? The manner you hold your conversation? In fact, the suspectable issue is Ren Yuan.
No matter what, try to make effort first as a friend first ok?
All friends are worthy, if you know how to bring the best out of themselves.
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Seriously the easiest?Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:Sorry because the title is not suitable. The manner I hold my conversation? I'm not talkative. That's the fact many of my friends and teacher told me. They say I am very quiet at times. But if i talk, i can see they are not so interested in it. most probably because like what of my friend say, i talked 'boringly' If it's because of my Ren Yuan, how do build them up then?
Join forum outings.
All of them are super friendly and yakative. Ask Hopy if you don't believe.
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i love to. can i?Originally posted by M©+square:Seriously the easiest?
Join forum outings.
All of them are super friendly and yakative. Ask Hopy if you don't believe.
Cheers